People Say I Am Good Looking But I Never Have Any Girlfriend. Rate Me Out Of 10.

My girlfriend asked me what her attractiveness rating is, and I said 7. Now she is really upset. What did I do wrong?

Here's what I have done in the past. My wife asked the same question many years ago.   I never did give her a number, which is the real purpose of this plan.  Essentially I went into full engineer mode and started musing about how to quantify such a thing. You know, with science!  My wife lost interest at step 3. 1) identify the factors of attractiveness in a female. Let's break them into: three primary factors:- physical, emotional and social. 2) each of these factors will have a weight and a score. The weight is how important each factor is to a neutral male bystander. For the sake of argument let's make it: physical: 50%, emotional: 30%, social: 20%. 3) Identify key indicators that affect each of the primary factor scores.4) come up with a function for each indicator that generates a score for that indicator. For example, most women reach their peak physical attractiveness at around age 23. So, a 23 year old should get a score of 1.0. Any other age would get deductions based on how far away she is from the optimal.   There are many factors that you can rate like this: waist/hip ratio, facial symmetry, hair length, number of close female friends, how much affection she shows, ratio of intimacy initiation, emotional stability, general health... 5) by now you should have a spreadsheet started.  Enter all of the data into the spreadsheet.  The ultimate score is a simple weighted average of each of the indicators.  Do not show her the spreadsheet. 6) normalizes the top level to a value between 1 and 10.7) if the score is less than 7, simply add a couple points as a special bonus for agreeing to be with you and put up with your ineptitude. 8) present your findings as scientific proof at how attractive she is to you. 9) it just occurred to me that it might be an even better approach to compute your own numbers first. The factors and weights are different for men: physical: 20%, material: 40% and social: 40%.   Just be damned sure that she scores a few decimals higher than you. Also, if there is a significant mismatch in her favor, you've got some work to do on yourself. * disclaimer: relationship spreadsheets are proven vaginal desiccants. Proceed at your peril.

I am sweet, honest, and good looking. Why don't any girls talk to me?

I saw a lot of people giving advice about what you should be doing instead of looking for girl friends and focussing on better things in life and not having any girl to talk to, not being a problem. In my honest opinion, it is not bad to have a girl friend or to have feelings of not having friends from fairer sex community. In fact, having friends of opposite sex improves one's thought process as he/ she learns about the views, people different from you have. It helps improving your self-image and confidence, as you find yourself acceptable with people of both genders. In fact if you get a really good girlfriend she will help in bringing the best out of you.Coming to your question - being sweet, honest and good-looking - all are good qualities to have, however not enough to invite female attention. Girls like confident guys, who can make the first move and be good at starting conversations. Girls are usually good at doing the rest. They can build up on a conversation fairly easily. You need to have a good sense of humor to keep them interested in you. Watching people doing stand up comedies, movies, sports, and knowledge of what is happening around you can help you improve your sense of humor. Do not fear cracking a light joke or two on the girls, without hitting the sensibilities.Another thing that you can do is to practice. What is the best way to learn to swim? Go and jump into water. Try talking to strangers where ever you find them, and I am not just talking about girls here. Talk to old people in bus or train, people your age and kids. Do not hesitate in talking to a girl sitting next to you in the metro. Slowly, you will improve at the art of making conversations and talking to girls will come naturally to you.Last piece of advice - do not look for romantic relationships. That will happen when it has to happen, with the right person, and you will know it at the right time. Make good friends and foster respectful, secure and healthy relationships.