PLEASE help I lost my 2 best friends?
I'm so lost, depressed, and hopeless. For the past 6 years, I've had two best friends, that were literally sisters to me. I would do anything for them, and the most we didnt text and call was like 2 hours literally EVERY DAY. I would think about their lives everyday, and we'd help eachother and always be together. We were literally triplets, and I do not have one memory without them. This year, the most traumatic thing happened to me. My closest sister and I got into a really big fight, and after that she doesnt want to have anyything to do with me :( she hates me, blocked me off facebook, and even got all my friends and even my other sister on her side. Now I never even check my phone bc i know no one texts me. I have one group I go out with, but not someone that I can completely trust and has my back. I hate everything now; I come home and dont want to do anythign or talk to anyone, and this has been goin on for about 2 months. Please someone help me. I dont want to take depression medication, but it looks like I have to. But I literally dont want to talk to anyone, keep going through our pictures, and just want them back. I cry almost every day. I have moments where I'm happy, but then it just goes back to that--where i dont want to leave my bed. I feel like I've changed too; no more of my bubbly, spunky personality comes back, and it feels like I'm forcing my happiness. I've went thru similar things before, but not like this. My whole world has changed, and I don't know what to do..just sit in misery and sift thru our memories.......
I rejected him and lost my best friend. Please help.?
I rejected my bgf when he asked me out at the beginning of the summer. I had, had feelings for him too but he is my best friend in the world and means so much to me that our friendship really came first to me. I didn't want to put our amazing friendship at risk..because what if it didn't work out between us? I thought I was protecting our friendship. But instead I think I wrecked it. He hasn't talked to me barely at all ALL summer. I guess you could say we sort of aren't even friends any more? But actually don't say that or I will start crying. Why did he stop talking to me? I've missed him so much....and if given another chance now I would have said yes to him. I heard he went out with another girl two days after I rejected him too which really hurt. Idk if they are together. Basically..he meant everything to me and I'm afraid he doesn't know that. Or I meant nothing to him. Why hasn't he talked to me in like 2 months?! I've been afraid to try and talk to him because I feel like he hates me but I know that's dumb and I HAVE to talk to him. But I'm afraid of what he will say because I think I've really fallen for him now. I'm afraid he either hates me, has a girlfriend or both. What should I do?? Thanks so much.
Feel like I lost my best guy friend?
Hi :) So this is my first account on Yahoo Answers & I basicly just have one question. Thanks for reading this all if you do I really appreciate it. So, lately I've been thinking I've been losing my guy best friend, I think he replaced me almost. I get very addicted to people easily. He was texting me all the time lately and then we just stopped, then after a while we become closer than close (lately) and I was texting him. We never flirt, and since he moved away I only hugged him once when I saw him. We have conversations about really stupid/funny things and sometimes he helps me with my problems, and I help him, but lately he just never answers me. I deleted him from my facebook friends today to see if he would notice and he hasn't. He called me pretty the other day which is weird, and then he just stopped talking to me now! Like what? And I just hate feeling like replaced & like I annoy him. So I deleted his number to so I wouldn't annoy him. This sounds awful, but I can't take this pain. Please help? What do I do? PS. I have a boyfriend & would NEVER like my guy best friend as something more than a friend.
What can I say to my best friend who has lost her mother?
I lost my mom almost 3 years ago and it’s awful.. I can tell you what I DIDN’T want to hear, like “She’s in a better place”. Please don’t say that!There really aren’t words to make your friend feel better - only time can do that.. Tell her that while only time can mend her (or his) broken heart, you will be there for them throughout the process. Your words can’t help, but your presence can.Even though there isn’t anything you can do, ask if there is, just because it helps the person know they aren’t alone in such a horrible situation.I hope this bit of feeble advice helps - I will pray for your friend. God Bless you both <3
My boyfriend lost his best friend, how do I help him?
Personally, I believe that under the circumstances, you've done all that you can for him. Grief is a very normal response when someone you deeply loved or cared for has passed away. Its a natural process, and the experience is unique for everyone. No two people mourn or grieve in the same two ways. Believe it or not, there are actual steps in the grieving process people go through: Disbelief/Isolation, Anger/Blame, Bargaining, Depression, and finally, Acceptance. Some people are able to reach an emotional point where they are able to cope with the loss, and are finally ready to lead their lives--no one who has passed should be forgotten, they should be fondly remembered. In your boyfriend's case, its obvious that he's not handling his friend's loss in a healthy way. During the acceptance phase of grief, its normal for people to draw their loved ones closer, because it helps them to heal. Your boyfriend really should look into seeing a therapist or a grief counselor. Until he's really come to terms with the death, he's not going to be same man he was. I wouldn't end it--but I wouldn't press him for more attention, or more time. I can absolutely understand and empathize with you--its not easy when the person you love is hurting and they won't let you in to soothe them. If you love him, even though its hard, even though its going to be a rocky road, just be there for him. Be a constant in life, someone he can turn to when he needs you. Keep in mind, he's still going through the steps of grieving, just be patient for now. I wish you all the luck, and I hope I was able to help, even if it was only a little.
Plz Help My sister just lost her best friend by death?
Last summer my best friend died of a brain tumor ( she was 14). The truth is, there is hardly anything you can do to ease the pain you're sister might be feeling from her friend's death. Just let her know that you're there for her and she can come and talk to you about anything. Other than that, you can only let time let the pain fade. I know that's cheesy but when my friend died people kept coming up to me and saying things like ' She was such a sweet girl.. and quiet', 'She died way too soon'. Hello, I knew all of this already and it only served to make me feel worse. Being reminded of why I should feel bad about it. Anyways, best of luck to you and your sister.
Love triangle help! Losing my best friend?
My best friend happens to be a guy, and I like his as more than just a friend, but he’s interested in another girl. I always tell him that I would rather be friends than nothing at all, but he seems to feel like that’s not very possible. The girl that he likes also happens to have a boyfriend of 2 years, and they split this past weekend because the boyfriend realized that this girl was never going to get over my friend. So my friend and this other girl have been spending a lot of time together lately, and he’s turning into a huge jerk toward me. I feel like every time they start talking and hanging out, he just ditches me. He says that’s not how it is, but that’s sure what it feels like. The one time I needed to talk to him, he told me to give him some space, and then I work with both my friend and the other girl, and both of them ignored me or yelled at me all day Tuesday, and he said it’s my fault because I made him mad, which just makes me even more upset. We tried talking to each other last night to solve our problems, but we didn’t really get anywhere. He thinks it’s basically all my fault and I just want him to realize that I’m not entirely to blame. I have been miserable because of the way I’ve been treated by both of them, and don’t know how to fix the situation. My friend also has always said he just likes me as a friend, but he would call me everyday, and we would hang out a lot. He also tried to kiss me once, but I wouldn’t let him, and if we’re watching movies he’ll cuddle with me a lot and we’ve fallen asleep next to each other before. I need help! Any advice for me in any of this?
I lost my best friend over something stupid. im so hurt, please help?
i know this got terribly long, but pleasee bear with me. i need to know im not losing my mind. so my best guy friend ever asked me to prom. i of course said yes. a while after that, he comes up to me and says "i don't want to go to prom anymore soo yeah" and walks away. i was obviously a little upset because i had already turned down other guys who had asked me and am now left alone at prom, but i was fine with it. the next morning at school i was joking around with my best friend about how i couldn't even keep my best guy friend as a date. this other girl overheard me and says "ohh yeah i heard about that! bad date, huh?" and i jokingly agreed with her. later that afternoon i walk by his classroom and hear him saying all these nasty things about me to his ENTIRE class, like "i never wanted to go with her, shes such a *****, shes not worth the money, shes not worth anything, etc etc" i was obviously really hurt by this, so i texted him asking him to stop talking about me and that i heard everything he was saying. he told me i deserved it because i was an "immature *****" and i needed to "respect his decision of not wanting to go with me, not hate him for it." turns out this entire thing started because of what i had said to that random girl about him being a bad date, because she went around and told him i had said that. so now here we are, and hes completely shut me out of his life. he has turned people against me, continuously talked badly about me behind my back, and its all because i agreed with someone who called him a bad date. i feel like this whole situation is so petty and meaningless. was i wrong to be upset and agree that he was a bad date? i feel like i shouldn't even let him back into my life after all hes done, but i honestly don't know what to do at this point. pleaseee let me know what you would do? or if i have done something wrong?