Would you still live with your spouse after you met your twin flame? How would you handle it the best way?
So my boyfriend and I had been together for 5 years and had a 1 year old when I met my twin. Our relationship quickly went from loving each other and never imagining my life without him to completely grown apart. I didn't want to sleep with him, kiss him, or do anything with him. It didn't feel right. I only wanted my twin. We stayed together for another 2 years before he finally left. I wasn't sad. I was relived. That last 2 years with him was awful. I spent every second if it thinking about my twin and doing my inner work to bring them back. I feel like the universe is responding to all my hard work based on the abrupt way our relationship ended. So my advice would to listen to your intuition. You'll know when it's time to split from your spouse, you may have more learning to do from them. Then have some self reflection time, find out what needs improvement in your life and fix. Find out what your fears are, and face them. Ask your guides or God or whomever you believe in to send clear messages pointing you in the right direction. And don't give up on your twin. Picture yourself with them in the present moment, send them love when you're feeling down. If you don't see your spouse in your future then don't imagine that. Students law of attraction. The universe will reflect your thoughts into your reality
Why do people feel fear while trying out new things?
It's the "comfortable shoe" syndrome. Few people are willing to step away from what they know because they have a instinctive fear of the unknown. Although I'm no professional psychologist, I would say that the fear of the unknown that most of us feel are residual instincts from our early ancestors, from a time where the unknown could be, and often was, deadly.We like to think of ourselves as "civilized", but we really aren't. From our personal fears to our group viciousness in war, we prove everyday that underneath the fancy technology and the societies we live in, there is a howling savage that is barely held in check.
Would you consider a sleep divorce or have you already made arrangements for a sleep divorce? How is it working out for you and your relationship?
I got actually divorced long before I knew this was a thing, but my parents started it after my mom had hip surgery (she needed enough space to sprawl, so she slept in the guest room during her recovery), and they both enjoyed being able to properly sleep so much that they kept on even after she’d healed.They love each other very much, and have a good relationship, but they’re both much happier with their own space to sleep. How that affects certain other aspects of their relationship, I don’t know, and I’m not going to ask — I don’t care how well we get along, there are some things I just do not want to know. My dad habitually gets up very early — I’m talking 3:30 or 4:00 in the morning early, because he has a moderate commute to work and he likes to have time to drink his coffee and trawl the internet — and with my mom sleeping in the other room, she doesn’t get woken up when he does anymore. As a result, he doesn’t have to tiptoe, she can sleep until a more sane hour, and both of them are in a better mood. I think that it certainly can be a good thing.