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Pressure On Women To Look Ok At Any Age

If society gave men the same pressure as women to be good looking would women be more openly judgemental on a mans looks?

It amazes me that somehow the myth that society and women are more forgiving on men’s looks, continues to exist and be perpetuated.It is extremely frustrating and disheartening for men who dont have good looks. They go through their lives, experiencing and observing the importance of good looks. They get rejected and overlooked by women over and over again because of their lack of good looks. And yet, its something they cannot even talk about. They will be shouted down, told to shut up. Because hey, afterall men’s looks arent important right?I think its a manifestation of society’s indifference to men’s issues, and pandering to women. Because make no mistake, this myth is alive because it makes women feel good about themselves.

Are Women better than Men when they are under pressure ?

Yes or no. This can go many ways. We see how Women react when they are feeling the daily
pressures of life. They become prositutues, they do drugs, they lie, they steal, they eat your
food. Ha, ha, ha. No seriously though. Can Women really handle pressure ? If so, then are
the better under pressure than Men ? Men can take a lot, internally. Yes, I know Women do
too. But please dont give me the Women have babies speech. If you have a weak mind,
or low self esteem, then it can be an uphill battle. But if you are disciplined, determined,
strong willed, then life is much easier to deal with. Trust me when I say this. Confidence matters.
But sometimes we fall under tremendous pressure. And sometimes, I see Women break in ways
that they are not willing to admit. In other words, they get bogged down and then become irrational.
And then things just go downhill from there. But guys react differently. We are calm and cool.
We dont overreact under pressure. What do you think..........

At the age of 46, what's a normal blood pressure?

I’m 55 and my blood pressure has fluctuated over the years. In years where I worked at a desk a lot, weight rose a bit, and did no exercise, the blood pressure was highest.This is NOT something you want to ignore (especially when it can be treated). If you’re struggling with blood pressure take a look at this: Blood Pressure Exercises VSL cbI think this video answers your question. I’m a pretty visual learner though.High blood pressure or hypertension is a problem that many people have, no matter their gender or age.Usually, there arent any symptoms but sometimes people experience vomiting, headaches, short breath, nausea or blurry vision.You must treat hypertension on time because it can lead to various different health problems like stroke, kidney damage, atherosclerosis, heart problems or heart attack.HERE ARE SOME VALUES FOR NORMAL BLOOD PRESSURE ACCORDING TO THE AGE.Some other commentsI call this fake if you can’t show the validity of the list. Any study to prove those are good number?Those “normal blood pressures” look elevated to me. My blood pressure hasn’t changed much over the last 50+ years. I am 69 years old. My blood pressure is always 115/65 or so. In 1965 it was 110/60. Not much change over my lifetime. Maintaining my cardiovascular system has been central to my very high fat, moderate protein, extremely low carb diet.

Why are women pressured to be feminine?

In America, our society pressures women, no matter what the age, to be girly and feminine. If you aren't, you're considered a dike and are shunned among everyone else. I am a straight, young female, but I don't dress feminine, I wear mens clothing. I am one of the few girls that do this. It's my preference to dress like this, but when I do, feminine women always comment on how "I would look better with makeup" or "if I wore a dress". I was on a forum where a masculine man said that men should only be attracted to graceful, feminine, small women that they could hold above them and that all masculine women are lesbians.
Alright, I'm not saying that men don't have preferences, I can see why they'd like feminine women, but I'm still not sure why they hate masculine women. Our gender standards here in America are so stupid and unreasonable. Why can't we just accept that if a woman wants to dress like a man, that's fine, and if a man wants to dress like a woman, that's also fine. Even my own mother is shunning me because she says, "You're not supposed to look like that."

P.S.:I don't really have a problem with feminine women, I just don't like when they dress feminine because they are expected to.

Is there more pressure on men to perform well in bed than women?

I believe so, although that's because I know how men tend to use "perform". The pressures on women to look and act a certain way are very high. But I've learned that when men talk about "performance", they're thinking in terms of things that can be measure with a stopwatch or a tape measure or by keeping count of orgasms. And I do think there's more of this on men.

I think it comes down to the fact that we often have greater difficulty reaching orgasm. But it is somehow assumed that if a man has the skills, we magically won't. But this is a mistake. Yes, the man's technique can make a difference - sometimes quite a difference! - but putting it all on the man doesn't make a lot of sense.

At the same time, most men have little difficulty achieving orgasm. At least when they're young. If anything, most men seem to wish they didn't have them so easily. So if women were judged by "giving" a man an orgasm, it would be relatively easy for her to succeed.

But pleasure, intimacy, sexuality are a lot more complex than these quantifiable matters anyway and people's enjoyment has a lot more to do with their emotional well-being than most people acknowledge. That's certainly true for women but I think it's even true for men. Just because a man has an orgasm doesn't mean he felt joy and delight.

EDIT

I do want to say more about the pressures on women. While men are worrying about their size, their erection, how long they last, whether they're hitting the right spot, and so forth, we're often worrying about how we look, how we smell, how we taste, how we sound, if our facial expression is sexy or ugly, if we look fat in this position... and these worries can be bad enough that they can actually keep us from being able to reach orgasm.

And when it comes to oral sex, I think there are worries on both sides about technique as well as sore jaws, gag reflexes...

Why in arab culture they put pressure on women to look beautiful?

Like most arab culture they put a lot of pressure on an Arab woman to look good. My relatives are like this too. Like I don’t care. Personally I care for food and money more than appearance. But my family and media put so much pressure.

Since I was 13 my mom use to hit me and insult me about how I look, since I was overweight.

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