How do I fix these problems with my best friend?
Super-cliche answer coming up, but the truth is, if she's really your friend, this will pass. She's not going to throw away her best friend because she had to go to work. Eventually you two will get to talking and you'll explain that if you had to answer which is your favorite thing to do: go to work vs. hang out with your friend, you'd obviously answer the latter because, duh.She'll still be defensive even though she knows she's wrong and didn't need to blow up in that way because she doesn't want to look stupid but you're sympathetic to the fact that hey, it's your birthday, we had plans. Your expectations were not met and as a result, she felt bad. Shit happens. It wasn't your idea to plan all of this and then leave her hanging at the last minute because, duh. That's just not cool.If she's your friend, it'll be water under the bridge soon enough. If it never happens, congratulations, you just lost a fake friend.
I have a problem with my best friend and I need and advice?
of course he is on her side, he loves her! If she ends up being the woman he marries, would it be weird then that he chose her over his best-friend? No, of course not. Put yourself in his shoes. He loves this woman and he cares about her feelings. It sounds to me as if your main problem with her is that she is with him. Maybe deep down this is more than friendship for you? Either way, his priorities are in the right place. My question is, are yours? A true best-friend gets it and doesn't judge and aims to get along with the significant other. She may have "started" it but you didn't have to "finish" it. If everything she does is under your scrutiny and judgment than she is going to always be on the defense when you are around. You also have to consider that you are an important person in his life and she may feel uncertain what your history is together. If there was a romantic past between you, it makes it hard to be around someone you know was very intimate with your current love interest. I say, be a best-friend and give him some space. The best thing about besties is you can go weeks without talking and pick right back up where you left off. He will reach out to you eventually and when he does, don't judge him for being in love and putting them first. If you keep pushing the "I should be more important" or the "she started it" buttons you are likely to lose his friendship altogether and if he's that important of a friend you wouldn't want that to happen.
Should i tell my best friend about my family problems?
i feel really embarassed to say anything like this because im a afraid she will think im weird and decide not to be my friend anymore what should i do?? i dont like telling people how i feel but im holding in too much lately and i feel like im just going to crack soon..... HELP!!!
How can I help my best friends to solve a problem by lessening the distance between them?
It’s not your job to help them. They, like everybody else, has got to want to help themselves.Consider also that, it’s not them who want or even think they need help. Perhaps that if you solve said problem that it will make you feel better.And then it never really was their issue to begin with.Not your circus, not your monkies.
Is it wrong I fap over my best friend?
No not at all. It is human. Have you considered trying to show her some affection or cuddle or something. You know, to gauge if she would be into in a way that is more than friends or not. I don't know how long you have known her, but if you are attracted to a girl enough to where you would pleasure yourself to her, then there is no reason why you shouldn't try to see if you can't get her to join you. You can't pile it on her all at once though. You've got to get her to feel comfortable with the idea of intimacy with you. And you can't force it on her. Its got to be slow, but it has to be steady and efficient. Move to slow and you could miss an opportunity. Move too fast and you could alienate her. Spend as much time as you can with this girl. And try to blur the lines between friendship and intimacy as much as possible. Be aloof. Girls like that. Don't verbalize your intentions. Unravel them slowly via actions. A soft touch on the back here. An affectionate hold or hug there. That kind of thing.
I am having problems with my friend. She is awesome, but she recently got a boyfriend. I just miss the way we once were. She's all over him and her other best friend. What should I do?
The fact that she got a boyfriend recently, says quite a few things. Just remember in the beginning of any relationship people feel the need to be around each other almost all the time and this can carry on well into almost 3-4 months of dating and then it begins to cool off and they slowly "return" to you. If the first few months have already passed, talk to her about it. Tell her you don't feel she's giving you enough time or honoring the friendship the way you want it to be honored. Most importantly, don't get cold/annoyed with her because that will just put her off completely. Speak clearly and address the issue at hand.As far as hanging out with another friend goes, this is bound to happen at any time. Sometimes you swing between poles of best friends. You feel close to one or the other, or sometimes none. It's happened to me several times where I'm close to one friend for a couple of months, but then closer to another for a couple of months. The best thing you can do in this situation is, ask her to meet up with you or spend time with you. If you can stomach it, ask her other best friend too. Who knows what a couple of interactions between the three of you could lead to?I hope this answer helps you and you can take the steps necessary!
Virgina breathing???My best friend have this problem and she shared it with me.?
This is the second question I've just about pissed myself laughing at tonight. I think you mean "vagina". Virginia is a state in the US. Oh how to put this bluntly. I'm guessing she meant that it makes a noise like she is passing gas, but it's just air from her vagina. It happens. It definitely doesn't mean she is cheating, so her boyfriend needs to calm down. Going to the doctor is not necessary, unless the problem is not vaginal flatulence. Read the below link... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_flatulence