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Psychology How Do I Not Let Jealousy Get To Me

How do I make a girl fall in love with me through psychology if I do not have a girlfriend and I’m jealous of my friends who have one?

Psychologically it is possible,yes i am right i have experience of it, all starts with hate and fighing words then may be you can or by doing some tricks you definately make a girl fall in love with you….Now coming to the question:-You have to have to have to make attention of yours in front of herDon't do any stupid thingsTry to understand that she notice you or noGo and talk with her,be politeTry to know everything about her,like and dislikeSlowly slowly get closer to her lifeAnd make good friendship first daily talk to herMake to her a habit of youHere real trick starts:-Start ignoring her….talk less to herMore you ignore more you gain attention of herIf she ask you what happen? Then tell her nothingAgain ignore…And sudden confess to her and make another reason for ignorance to herAgain same friendship and i know you will be..Share yours feeling to her and try to explain i directly what feel you about her…This is not an end buddy…keep it up and i am sure you will make it yours….Thanks….and if you like this upvote my answer….

Tips for not being a jealous asshole?

im 16. i like to think of myself as a generally nice person. i dont cause trouble and idk anyone who actively dislikes me. i used to be kind of weird and have like no female friends. in the last 2 years ive had some pretty decent luck ;) i guess i have some screwed up psychology ab it tho cuz i get really jealous. like im not confrontational but if i see a girl ive hooked up with even talk to a guy even if shes clearly just friends, like even a starbucks barista, i get really angry and sad and jealous. like not just relationships even if i casually hook up with a girl then i cant deal with seeing her talk to anyone else. whats wrong with me?

How to make a Leo man jealous?

i married a leo virgo, and leos and scorpios ( i have a lot of scorpio!) are the easiest to make jealous. it might be damaging though. I am a pisces/aries cusp with mercury in aries and aries rising, all this stuff in the first house. With the scorpio I boil over crap he did to me, and then BOOM!! I just blow the F**K up and I leave him. He gets very resentful and dates girls the toal opposite of me and I do the same. Then because we love eachother we come back. This is ten years of this, and trust me the damage is bad. I say be the bigger person and try to make it work. Dating other people WORKS. You make them jealous. However, it's hard to get over it and a leo never really will. People with a lot of people are hard to deal with, even though they can be great. Like they give you everything, but you have to bow down to them. They can have tons of friends, but you can't. so if he means a lot, I would just be an angel, He might date someone else, but he will miss you, and the fact that you are all pure and saintly will make him feel evil and crappy and want you more. Him saying he wants you to date other people is reverse psychology. He wants you to get down on knees and beg, but of course if you do, he will have you around his finger and will get other people. So just be sweet, but ignore him. Don't date other people. Unless he hasn't called you in OVER 6 months. This is a cycle I am well versed in. ^_~

What is the psychology behind mocking people?? Why do people do it when they know it hurts? Is it jealousy?

I know 2 adults (which are about a decade older than me) that are constantly mocking me. These are people that I am also suppose to be looking up to by example because they are also leaders towards the youth. All they do is mock and laugh at nearly everyone whenever they get the chance to. Sometimes they do it right in front of the person knowing that it will hurt them. Why do people constantly mock others even when they know it hurts them? What is the reason behind that?

In psychology, what are the most common techniques for handling people who don't like you or are jealous of you and whom you have to deal with on daily basis?

First, you have to be clear about the difference between jealousy and envy. Jealousy is “I don’t want them to have this, I should be the one to have it,” while envy is “I want what they have, too.”The question in this is simply: does the opposite feel threatened by you having something? Do they believe you do not deserve it, but they do? In that case it’s jealousy. Jealousy is moderated by two parts of our brain, the anterior cingulate cortex and the amygdala.Feelings of jealousy are generally feelings of fear. In some cases this fear manifests in aggression, physically or emotionally, but rarely does it manifest as an ongoing event. Jealousy, the “green eyed monster,” is hard, harsh, and fast.Jealousy is generally caused by the person towards it is directed. Usually not intentionally, but one of the main causes of jealousy is mutual monopolism. If someone has the impression, that you are hogging things, the limelight, the attention of someone, or praise, jealousy might ensue. In that case you’re both called upon to change something. Be more open with the things people are jealous about, show that you do not mean to hog them, that you are not threatening access to them, and things might cool down to a point where you can have conversations about it.Envy on the other hand is “I want this, too.” Be helpful. Don’t fall into the survivor bias trap and think that what you have is earned by your successes. Instead show, which failures you avoided. For that, you have to talk to the person. Show them, that you are willing to help them get to where you are. That means understanding what they do, and finding the things that hold them back. Then offer your help there.You deal, in both cases, by lifting them up. No one ever sank by lifting someone else up, no one’s candle burned brighter by blowing others’ out. If you are being envied, if people are jealous about you, help them reach your status, and the envy and jealousy will subside.

What drives people to want to make others jealous?

First off, it is incredibly difficult to intentionally make another person feel jealous. This is because people are unpredictable so what will make one person jealous will not necessarily make another person jealous. Also you really have to know a person’s weak points to hit their jealous nerve. With that out of the way, people who set out to intentionally make others jealous do so for the following reasons:To bring attention to themselves. It can be an attempt to get attention from people who would have never noticed them.Pay back. At one point or another in life, I have felt jealous about someone else. In turn I worked hard to make sure I could attain whatever I was jealous about and more to make people I was jealous of know what it’s like.A sign of progress. People make others jealous to show how much more progressed they are. When people start from a very low class and progress all the way to the top, a lot of people will be doubting them. Saying things like you can’t make it, or can’t achieve it. If you eventually end up at the top, it will be very difficult to stay humble knowing that other people underestimated your drive and devotion.In general, do not be caught up in other peoples attempt to show off their good side. There are plenty of things that you already have be it material or psychological, that others don’t. So every time you think someone is trying to make you jealous it is important to realize everybody has their flaws, so remember the good and desirable things about you. You’ll find that you may be in a better position that this other people.

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