What should a Muslim brother do, if his sister ran away with a Mexican guy?
Assalaamu Alaykum Sisters and Brothers, There is a great saying, you can solve the worlds issue in your house, but you can not solve your personal issues outside. My name is Jamal and I am proudly Muslim, born and raised in Pakistan. It has been about 10 years that I and my family are living in the United States. We are good Muslim, we fast, pray, and do not do the dating thing. My sister has run away from our house before Ramadan, and it has been over a month now. Before she called few times saying that she was a burden on family because she failed her RN program, so she needs sometime alone to focus on her studies, but now I have found out that she left the state and moved to Texas with a Mexican guy. I am a brother and have the Muslim courage and it is impossible to accept her back. What should I do?? She wants to come back home this week. She has been out of the house with a Mexican guy for over a month; I know that she has done the “ZINNA”. My dear brother and sister, please guide me, some times I feel like I should just kill her, but I am a responsible guy and my family needs me. What is the best solution for us? Should we just let her marry to a Mexican guy? Advise please... Thank you for reading, May Allah never does this to any Muslim families all around the world.
RamadaN : visiting a sick person...........................
It is proven in al-Saheehaayn that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There are five duties that the Muslim owes to his brother Muslim,” one of which is visiting the sick. According to another version: “The rights of one Muslim over another are…” Al-Bukhaari said: Chapter on the obligation of visiting the sick, and he narrated the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Feed the hungry, visit the sick and free the captives.” Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “When the Muslim visits his (sick) Muslim brother, he is harvesting the fruits of Paradise until he returns.” Narrated by Muslim, 2568. According to al-Tirmidhi (2008), the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever visits a sick person or visits a brother in Islam, a caller cries out to him: ‘May you be happy, may your walking be blessed, and may you occupy a dignified position in Paradise’.” Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. Imam Ahmad narrated that Jaabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever visits a sick person is plunging into mercy until he sits down, and when he sits down he is submerged in it.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 2504. Al-Tirmidhi (969) narrated that ‘Ali (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “There is no Muslim who visits a (sick) Muslim early in the morning but seventy thousand angels send blessings upon him until evening comes, and if he visits him in the evening, seventy thousand angels send blessings upon him until morning comes, and he will have a garden in Paradise.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi Littile efforts and lots of reward.....what do u think ?
Advice from Muslim sisters and brothers?
Praise be to Allaah. If you are not causing his anger then there is no blame on you. But at the same time you are obliged to treat him kindly and honour him. Allaah has enjoined honouring one’s parents even if they believe in shirk (associating others in worship with Allaah), so how about those whose sin is less than that? Be patient. Dont elevate any issues. If he gets angry, listen to what he wants, and he will seem to understand how bad hes acting. if u argue back, its just human nature to win an argument, even if he is in the wrong. This hadeeth will help u inshAllah. “I guarantee a house in Jannah (Paradise) for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a house in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even when joking / for the sake of fun; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners.” [Prophet Muhammad (صلي الله عليه وسلم) - reported by Imam Abu Dawud] Lesson: When in the middle of a heated argument over anything, just remember: Rasoolullah (صلي الله عليه وسلم) has promised YOU a house in Paradise if you give up this argument. What’s better: winning an argument and feeling tough and strong (while in the process, maybe hurting others and maybe disrespecting the Islamic adaab), or a house in Jannah? You can do 2 of the 3 when arguing with ur dad, give up the argument even if ur right, and treat him with kind manners and gently. Then, make duah that Allah can stregthen the relationsip, it is important to have a good relationship between father and daughter, but this is a different lecture.
My beloved brothers and sisters in Islam I need your dua'a..?
Alsalam alaykom I'm having some hard exams so I'll be away from R&S for about 3 weeks . I will miss you all .please don't forget me in your prayers and there are other brothers here having exams too (like Thariq(Allah's Slave) and Acid ) so please don't forget them in your prayers too I'll keep you all in my prayers and (inshallah ) I'll back as soon as I finish my exams thanks for you all and may Allah protect you and guide you ..... note : please star this so we get more prayers
Muslims, can you ever thank Allah enough for blessing you with holy Quran?
You start your day listening to heart rendering verses of holy Quran. You find guidance for your day to day affairs in Quran. You can read it over to sick to make them well and you can recite it over dead to earn him salvation and strengthen your heart. And it answers ALL questions that HB and NT fail to answer. It has rhythm and sounds melodious if recited by Qaris. I often think how can I thank Allah enough for sending down such a wonderful book for us. Do you know how to express enough gratitude to Allah for this favor? Muhammad Javed Iqbal
Ramadan::grandma just died.....?
inallilahi wa inailayhi rajioun inshallah sister.. May Allah SWT shower his mercy and blessings upon your grandma, and make her passing into the next world easy. May ALlah SWT lessen the burden and worries upon your family and everyone else in this world as well. May Allah SWT increase our knowledge and imaan as well. Ameen! to comfort her, well only time is the best healer, but you can make her simple tasks like what she does in and around the house (like washing the dishes or something) you can do it for her, so shes not as preoccupied. Just the little things that help her out. and always support her.
Why do Muslims make excuses for Muhammad?
If the Muslim texts are to believed, Muhammad, the Muslim "prophet", slaughtered 800 POWs. They were men and boys. These people were captured in battle, were unarmed and defenseless, yet the Muslim "prophet" sat and watched with his traumatized child bride for days as 800 people were murdered the Muslim way - by beheading. Certainly this was an utterly disgusting and gruesome event - pure bloodlust. Yet Muslims claim this Muhammad fellow was "the best example of mankind". The best example they have was a mass murderer? Do Muslims really believe Muhammad was anything more than the Arm of Satan?