My younger brother saw my dirty texts?
This guy I like and I were sexting and my brother saw one of the messages he sent me because it previewed on the screen. My brother forced me to give him my phone and tell him what was going on. My brother used my phone to send him a message saying how he would beat him up and whole bunch of other stuff. I thought my brother was over it but a few hours later he brought it up again and my brother got mad because of the race difference between me and the guy. Then my brother got mad because he felt that I was picking this guy over him, but I wasn't. I wasn't just angry that my brother would invade my personal space and go through my phone. My brother woke me up at 12:00am to tell me how he can't sleep and that he thinks the right thing to do is tell our parents. I really can't understand why he would do this to me. I'm a good kid with great grades, I spend most of my time doing band stuff, and I hang out with my brother whenever I can. Why is he doing this to me? My Brother gets nudes from girls, but I've NEVER even brought it up. Why is he acting like this? It's stressing me out. My brother also called me a "white mans wh*re" and said I was disgusting. On top of that, the guy doesn't feel comfortable talking to me because of my brother. I feel like **** because of my brother. How should I handle this situation and make my brother stop acting like an asshole?
Is it ok to date your sister's ex boyfriend?
I recently just started dating my sister's ex boyfriend. Now before you hate me, understand that they didn't date for very long and she is okay with it. However, I can't seem to get over feeling guilty about it and it's really having a negative impact on my relationship with him and I'm afraid it will impact my relationship with my sister. What should I do? Anyone gone through a similar situation? I need advice. I know I should break it off with him but how? I don't want to hurt anyone.
Do you read your significant other's texts?
One of the thing that I have never done in my life is spying on my partner.There are few reasons:I have chosen all my partners in the past and current one with utmost care. I am not a person who can handle toxic relationship. So, I never had trust issues. I proposed my first girlfriend after knowing her for more than two years.I expect the same thing from my partner.I have many other things to do including my work, the stories that I keep writing, reading non-fiction, research to be strong financially, meet friends, etc. I don’t have any time left after this.I have known all my partners very well and I expect them to be ‘plain and simple’ if they wish to move on. I don’t see any point in beholding a person if he/she doesn’t want to.Suspecting destroys peace. If I have ever felt anything like that, I have always preferred to put up the matter in the ‘plain and simple’ way. If I have ever been diverted to someone else, I have also preferred to tell the truth. Your partner always have the right to know the truth even when you don’t feel the same way.Lastly, I am not a peep-into-the-phone-bitch. She has her social circle and I have mine and we both are sane, logical and responsible person who respect each other’s privacy, have trust in each other and understand that our relationship has surpassed the stage where there is no space for such idiosyncrasies.
My sisters' boyfriend is flirting with me?
Don't take things any further with him and try to avoid talking to him. If this continues and he starts cheating on your sister with you, you're only in for trouble. He's already developing a relationship with you behind your sister's back. No relationship with a guy is more important than your family. Tell him that you shouldn't talk so much anymore, and that you feel uncomfortable when he compliments you all the time because you don't want your sister to get hurt. Also, I know that a real relationship can develop like that. I met my boyfriend when I gave him advice to ask out my friend. After he got rejected, we grew closer because I comforted him, just like when your sister's boyfriend comforted you. However, things got really awkward between me and my friend after I started dating him. We're not really friends anymore, and the awkwardness is still there even 2 years later, and you don't want that between you and your sister.
Should i write happy Birthday on my ex boyfriend's sisters wall?
Ok so pretty much whoevers birthday it says in my little box thing on Fb, i always write happy birthday or something. So i dated this kid for like 3 months and then i broke up with him because of rumors (long story) anyways its his sisters bday today as it said on fb.. should i write happy birthday? we were never close or anything.. should i say 'happy bday." happy birthday! :]" etc? -Should i, or would that be weird, shes 17 by the way. -If yes what should i write something short, not weird.
My girlfriends parents read her messages! HELP!!!!?
My girlfriend is 14 and I am 16. They have never liked me because Im not part of their church. She doesnt believe in their weird church anymore at all. They do not kno we are dating but thought we were messing around and they had told her she isnt allowed to talk to me or text me anymore. Her parents took her phone because they found out i was texting her on textPlus (they didnt read her phone messages, I think). At 1:30 AM, while I was asleep she said "I love you" on facebook chat. 10 minutes later she sent "well my happyness just fadded because my dad walked past me and i didnt know and he read what u said about u kissing me. so im pretty screwed. your probably going to freak out. i love u." I had sent her messages earlier saying I wish I could kiss her. Im out of town for the week. She has always said if her dad found out she would kill herself. Her dad beats her terribly and has tried to throw her out of a moving car. I want to call CPS but he owns the MAJOR litgation company in my city so he is friends with everyone in the legal system. Her mom is an alcoholic that blames her for her drinking. My girlfriend used to cut because of her parents but I helped her stop. Her parents have seen her with a bloody rag on her wrists but never did anything. I'm so crazy in love with her but idk what to do about this. I think my mom already has an idea that I like her and she might be ok with it but my dad is a strong Christian and I wasnt planning on telling him until college. He would be very upset. Im not sure if my girlfriend deleted all of her messages on Facebook after she sent that so I dont know how much they know or saw. I feel like dying. Ive never felt like this before. Shes my everything. I dont know how to talk to her either...a little while after I saw what she sent I freaked out and sent her messages back and then like 30 min later "she" got online for 10 minutes and I said "You there? Hello?" and said "Im sorry Ill stop talking to you". But then I got blocked. I know it was her dad. It wasnt her. I think this is all my fault and I feel like if I wouldve not been mean to my sisters that this wouldnt happen. Like its karma or something. Im so scared. Please, HELP ME. I'm scared that she is on the verge of killing herself or her dad is beating her and screaming at her. Thanks to all. P.S. Please, no mean comments.
Is it ever ok to date your sister's crush?
I was recently faced with a situation and it got me to thinking, so here I am wanting to get opinions of other people. Here's the story: About a year ago this guy (19) started flirting with my sister (23) and they shared a few late night phone conversations. Naturally she developed a crush on him and almost instantly he was gone. It took her some time to get over him, but she did. Lately he has been coming around again but this time his flirtation has been directed at me (I'm 27). I am the type who will play around and joke with anyone. Well today he asked me out on a date, and to not hurt his feelings I told him I would think about it. I immediately called my sister and told her what had happened, and she suggested that I should go out with him. I personally think it is a bad idea. 1st of all because he led my sister to believe he was interested in her, 2nd because I know there is an unwritten rule about doing this, and 3rd he really isn't my type, and lastly but most importantly I am too old to date someone his age. I basically have a lot of reasons why I wouldn't go out with this guy, but I couldn't help but wonder if it is ever ok to go out with someone your sister once had a serious crush on. Has anyone ever done this? How did it turn out? How did you feel? Did she ever know? What is your relationship like now?
I think im falling for my sisters boyfriend...what should i do?
How much do you like your sister? Cause if you don't like her all that much and wants to screw her over, keep hanging out with him until you or him eventually do something wrong. Otherwise, distance yourself from him. Don't hang out or talk to him and find yourself a boyfriend. Even if he choses you in the end, i doubt your sister is going to be all smiles about it. If you want a boy to ruin your relationship with your sister, then you ahead and keep it up.