I am all alone I really need someone in my life, what do I do?
Thanks for the A2A...Don't act desperate. The more you think like this, the more you'll feel depressed. And you'll end up living a regretful life.Stop being needy. This speaks of your low self-image. Rather learn to respect yourself. You've come alone in this world, and you'll also go alone. In the meantime, people might help you in your struggle called 'Life', but they are certainly not going to fight it for you. You've to do it all alone. So get up, stop relying on others, and give 100% of yourself to this life that you've got.Find out your passion, and keep yourself busy at it. Forget about everything else, and let your passion kill you from inside. Be so busy at it that you can't even find the time to feel lonely. And for this, you have to love the subject and have the desire to learn it.And lastly, but most importantly,learn to enjoy your own company. Be your own best friend, share everything with yourself. You'll never know the magic of it if you don't do it. Don't feel lonely when you are alone, rather accept this alone-feeling and enjoy with yourself. And if you speak of a relationship, you also have to be strong enough to support your partner. You have to be self-dependent, then only you can hope for a right partner. So stop having these BS feelings, work on your weaknesses, and start doing something productive from today. It will be hard at first, but you'll be able to do it if you try. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
What do women really want when finding a mate.?
Ok here it goes I'm fat and ugly I couldn't get a date if I was the last guy on earth, believe me even if I was too lose the weight, I would still get no where, I do wear glasses I don't think that makes a diffference because there are guy that I see wearing them too. I'm about to give up. Also if u want too know what I look like jut go too myspace go where it say's find people type in my full name Kevin Costa I'm on the sixth page fifth picture down right below some guy wearing a yellow jacket .It sould say 23yr newbedford. I'm standing in front of a white wall wearing a eddie bauer shirt.. please tell me what u think sorry that the picture is not the best. Also please don't say that I'm not ugly because I've been told that before only too be lied too. sorry for all the bad spelling.
Ur inputs palleeezz!!???wat do u think?!?
hey!look i've got these 2-3 e-mails..notifying me that i've won this euro-african lotteries which altogether make a huge amount...the presentation of the letters is very systematic..very professional type u know....bt at the same time i feel r they fake!!i don't remember appyling for them...n...i m of a diff. nationality too(indian)..i m totally confused!!probably i think they r fake ..bt still!
What should I do if I have no real friends? I have some friends, but they are circumstantial friends or acquaintances and they don't really care about me. I feel very lonely and depressed even though I'm surrounded by people.
Let me try to answer this for you from my point of view. To me, friends are baggage. And like every baggage they come with their own particular weight, only it changes by itself depending on their mood and environment.What do you really need a friend for?Tossing a few shots together every once in a while and listening to them bitching and moaning about how miserable their lives are? Yup, that's what you get when you need a friend to "share." You unload your baggage, get ready to take on some extra from them as well. Honestly, not my cup of tea. Sadly those are considered true friends of BFFs. Sit on the sidewalk and start crying, any decent guy would ask you what's wrong and maybe even listen a little. So, anyone can share your frustrations, even a total stranger. You don't need someone in particular to do that. So, let's cross off the sharing part then.Do you need a friend to go to the ball games, movies, theaters, concerts? Well, movies and theaters are no places to chitchat, at a ball game anyone can be your friend for that period of time, and concerts, well, sing dude, sing along.You need a friend to call late at night when you're miserable and feeling that melancholy slowly crawling upon you? Have a hobby, for Pete's sake. Start getting not good, very good at it. Or just put some music that makes you wanna jump up and down, or just for calming your nerves. You know, we humans are so lucky, cause we have something miraculous called music. What's left? Ooh, those dreadful holidays and weekends. Well, you said you have some circumstantial friends or acquaintances, so I'm sure they will have some plans which would fit you. Choose one of them, tag along, and go home exhausted to the blissful peace of your own space, away from any human interaction, which I'm sure you'll hate after that long day with so much of it.Human beings are in constant change. You are always changing, they are always changing and let's be honest, it's too much to ask for in these times for any kind of relationship to last that long and stay solid. Embrace the everyday change and accept that others go through that as well. That way, you won't feel the need to get too attached to other mortals and also, won't get frustrated when they, so rightfully, walk away. Space, my friend, space. Everyone needs it. Have it, and let others have it as well.
I think Brown Skin (light shade) is really hot and attractive ...what you guys have to say about it?
Guys i need a poll. I think Brown skin is really sexy (not dark brown but light brown)... what you think...give a valid reason with your choice... well i had a boyfriend (now no more) who was from asia , i mean from pakistan and he was really hot. Like all my girl friends (mostly white) were crazy about him. He was tall, Light brown skin, athletic built, jet black hair and had a great personality. like when we use to go out, i could feel the envy in eyes of other females around me. So what you guys think about Brown skin people ???? you think they are sexy or not??? And FOR GIRLS ONLY..... would you date a guy with above physical traits. For your information, i am a white American girl 26 yrs old. I am asking this because i have something for Light brown skin people...my current boyfriend is also Brown skin like previous and so is the case with my other American girl friends. so wanted to know if its me only or its really a general perception.