Should i be worried or ignore?
ok so my husband will leave his current job to another which is better one but the problem is that i didn't had any worries cuz he works in a place with just men works in it something with export and import and hes the Chief accountant and he will start a new job as an accountant but in another field in a company full of women and girls and it new to him to work in this atmosphere should i be suspicious and worry if he will cheat on me hes handsome and ok start to look at women when we walk in the street even we were in love before marriage but as u know the routine sometime kills people and always want something new.] we had a fight over that case cuz hes moving for a lower calary but a big title a consulted accountant but we are a family with a child and planning for another am sure u will say am paranoid and geliuos but because he lied at me telling me that he didnt knew any one before me when he was training after college a girl sent him a msg on his cell phone for his birthday and he told me that he knew her in the past so that why i couldnt beleive him any more so what should i do
Debt. broke. stressed. worried.
hi being in debt isnt easy so u need to sort it out fast work out how much you owe and to who then work out how much money you earn and how long it will take to pay these debts back phone the people you owe money to and explain to them that you are having financial difficulty and you can only pay back a set ammount say every month and see what they say you will be suprised at how much they will help you arrange a pay back scheme and a set ammount to pay back every month your parents on the other hand obviously realise your difficultys and want to help you out dont feel too bad about this as thats what your parents are for but if it makes you feel better tell youn parents you appreciate all there help and you will pay them back asap if you want to earn extra money why dont you do a few online surveys you get paid to do these and it will get you that extra bit of cash or if you dont fancy that do something else in your spare time walk peoples dogs baby sit or get a job in a store i hope i helped and i wish you all the luck for the future
How to overcome extreme anxiety about new job?
I am starting a new job this monday. I also suffer from panic attacks and generalized anxiety disorder. In almost any social situation, I seem perfectly normal. I socialize and engage in conversations even with complete strangers. But I know that if I ever feel uncomfortable I can always choose to leave. I can't do that at work. I've been unemployed for over a year, being a stay at home mom. This nre job is the biggest job I've ever landed in my life. The pay is fantastic, so are the hours, and it's pretty hard to get hired there to say the least. But it's also the highest pressure job i've ever had, and I am already constantly paranoid about being fired out of the blue b/c i didn't learn the strings fast enough. I hate dissapointment, and although i've lost jobs in the past because of my anxiety and constant self-doubt,im afraid to put myself through that roller coaster of emotions again. I don't deal weel with change. I manage it as well as maybe a kindergartener would on his first day of school. The mere thought of being away from my daughter for so long is freaking me out. Everytime i've gone through the doors of that place(for both interviews and later for the job offer)my palms have been extremely sweaty and i've even become dizzy. I feel like if im alone in the ocean and all the other people are actually sharks circling around me. Both the manager and assistant manager seem like such nice people, and they won't shut up about how great my interview was, and how impressive my resume is, not to mention my references. I cringe everytime I hear they comment about "my bright fufutre with the compleny". If only they knew i'm afraid I won't even last a month. I'm afraid I might start to over analize every glance and stare, thinking they might be secretly thinking baout firing me. I know I sound insane, but I really need help managing this. Any SERIOUS tips or ideas will help. Thanks.
Scared and nervous about starting this new job.?
I am 25 years old I just got a new job (Fmla Case Manager) and I am so terrified because I know nothing about this job and I'm worried that I will hate it. I had originally applied for the Administrative Assistant position because I did not want to work in a call center anymore. But the hiring manager thought I would be a better fit for this job and I was desperate to get out of my current situation and took the job. It is still in a call center but it is a better company with alot better pay. I am thankful to have a job, but I feel very overwhelmed because of the title and responsibilities. I would appreciate any helpful advice. ( Please no rude comments). Thanks.
I am so nervous about my first day of new job tomorrow. Help?
it's ok, don't worry i've been through the exact same situation. first off, you need to lose that mentality, you have to get rid of all your nervousness, and be calm, even if your not feeling calm, and are being nervous, ignore it! secondly, retail can actually be a fun job, it's like getting payed to socialize, people who are social do good in retail, you ever have those moments when your hanging out with friends, having a good conversation, all laughing, think of how you are when your like that, and be like that at work, give off a friendly vibe, be helpful and last, don't worry too much about sales, the less you worry about them, the more you make, some retail workplaces put some pressure, like commission, don't worry about it, just remember, alot of people coming to the store, actually know what they need, so if your the person there to help them that's a sale you made.
I'm not happy at this new job?
They only gave me two days of training and they are always trying to call me and make me come in early or work overtime when I need rest and stuff so I never answer my phone. The staff isn't two friendly and its a lot of drama. How to get out of this situation? Should I just work and deal with it or stop looking for another job?