Chemistry vs. Compatibility .What do you think?
I met a lady on eharmony. We had amazing potential and compatibility of lifestyle,values, etc. And lots of chemistry. We were sure this was it!!!We decided to meet in person. We each drove 6 hours to meet. Neither of us were attracted to each other once we met even though we had seen each others photo on eharmony. We were extremely disappointed and called it quits. Now I am second guessing myself and wonder. Some of my friends said it is not uncommon not to feel that instant chemistry with so many expectations put on it and agreed the chemistry could grow. Did we act in haste?? We have decided to stay in touch occasionally through email but not sure she would want to revisit this. Help!! I may be losing the friend, lover and soul mate of my life. My pride keeps me from asking her to try again. What should I do. I'ver never felt this much compatibility with anyone including friends and family.
What are the effects of Ketu in the 7th house?
First you have to understand what is ketu. Ketu or south nodes is the one which has no head means it doesn't think. It wanders without thinking. Ketu represent a thoughtless decisions, liberation or struggle for moksha. It also represent your past karma . Ketu has power to absorb things into it. To make it lifeless and dull. Ketu also gives strong sense of spirituality. More it represents lower caste, outer caste or culture, dungeon , occultism and mystic practices.Seventh house represent your marriage, partnership, business, public dealings, how people perceive you, your diplomatic abilities. Bodily its your gastrointestinal area. So if your Ketu is in seventh it will activate your events around these things. Basically for men it's not consider good. Since it can give a clear indication of troublesome marriage and uncomfortable partnership . But again it depend in which Rasi ( zodiac) it sits and also the navamsa chart . Ketu iin seventh house also represent the traits of your spouses like he/she is spiritually inclined , interested in occult or mystic practices, can be out caste or out culture not necessary a lower caste. It also represent you spouses skin tone is darker than the native. Lastly if a positive planet like Jupiter aspect the Ketu in seventh house it might alter the result to some extend. Ketu also represent your past karma. Wherever Ketu sits it makes the person the master of that particular house in past. Hence, in this birth the person will show least interested in that house. Ex. They will have less emotional Intelligence toward the spouse. He /she won't bother to make effort on thier partner or marriage and in many instance . This can frastrate thier marriage to some extend if the spouse doesn't understand.Remedy: the spouse has to love unconditionally to the native without expecting anything. Native can Wear Catseye stoneDo feed dog and birds . They represent Ketu.Psychologically the native has to make effort to understand thier behaviour and accordingly modify it. Another thing, make sure you are careful during your Ketu Mahadasha. This period can be troublesome. A bit caution can make the effect less detrimental.
What is the effect of Ketu in the 11th house?
Hello Truth Seeker:Greetings to you, yours and all that is around you,Thank you for your question on Quora. I will be delighted to contribute my opinion.Being on worldwide forum “Quora” it is my desire to help you - the seeker, it is my aparigraha (selfless service).There is more to the question which you did not provide, eg. which zodiac sign is in the 11th house (eg. Aries, Taurus … Pisces etc). The strength of Ketu is not known / given (in degrees from 29:59 to 00:01 degree). Hence, it makes my answer extremely “generic” and may not apply to you.Note: In any astrological question it’s always a good idea to provide the personal data of date, time and city of birth, this will an “appropriate and relevant” answer, than getting a flying “generic” one.Here’s my generic answer:Ketu in the 11th house: Ketu gives you the strengths of being learned, well dressed, attractive. However, you have something in your nature that is not straight, perhaps some unbecoming private attachment that you have yet to overcome. You may be considered powerful in society, but you have an unknown fear nagging at your mind. You may suffer from ailments of the rectum (piles, hemorrhoid, fistula etc) fond of literature. At times you will have undesirable associates, miss good opportunities, suffer unfulfilled hopes, and bad friends giving bad advice. If other financial conditions prevail, you may win sudden money through lotto, lottery, horse racing, stock exchange or day trading, otherwise, you may lose from gambling. You may have the habit of hoarding.This is my opinion.Trust my answer helps, informs, inspires you in your quest to quench your thirst for knowledge,Enjoy your quest… explore, educate, experience and enlighten.Vivek E. ParasWith best wishes from Trinidad and Tobago, West IndiesFootnotes:[1] View my Profile at Quora[2] View my Blog and Posts on Quora[3] Jyotish does not predict, it simply prepares you [4] The best way to ask an astrological question[5] My Disclaimer, Caveat and Note[6] Best remedy for a better life [7] If there is no remedies, then what is the use of astrology?