Is it okay to dump your boyfriend for serious family issues?
You didn't have to break up at all. You wanted to, and I don't fully understand your reasoning, but you clearly don't care about him if you could do that to him.If he cared about you, he would have fully understood the need for you to help your sister. He'd even have been there to help you if you needed it. Literally, all you'd have had to say is “my family needs me” — he'd have said something like “go and take care of your family”, and that would have been that. I mean, what do you think loving couples do, if not support each other and have each other's backs when problems crop up? You're meant to be a team!But you broke up with him. I don't know if you've ever been broken-up with by somebody you care about before, but it sucks. It sucks hard. It sucks even harder when the reason makes no god damn sense. He won't have been eating or sleeping properly. His thoughts will have been self-doubting, wondering what the hell he did wrong, how he lost you. And ultimately, he will have thought to himself — is this person that I love going to run away and break my heart every time something goes slightly wrong in her life, rather than confide in me or let me help, or trust me enough to know that I will be supportive and understanding? What if we got married — would she divorce me if her mother gets the flu? Can I survive losing her every time she leaves me?He probably hasn't ‘moved on’, so much as decided that no, he couldn't survive losing you that often. And he has made the right call. However much he cared for you, having your heart broken for spurious reasons isn't something I'd wish on anybody, and he deserved so much better.
Do most Family Guy fans have serious issues with nostalgia over the earlier seasons?
I’m a massive fan - and personally I’m not a fan of many episodes before season 4. They just weren’t as hard-hitting or satirical. The jokes were kind of funny - but the jokes felt laboured. I much prefer the later series.Note: The latest series has been mostly dreadful - almost like they’re trying to get cancelled. Last week’s ‘HTTPete’ was exceptional however!
What is a serious issue in your family that you never talk about?
I wouldn’t normally answer this so quickly since it’s so controversial for me and my family and it’s really nobodies business except for me and my family but... I really don’t give a shit.I have many family members who don’t have jobs.I have MANY MANY family members who ARE adults over 20 and don’t even have a job and WENT to college! My grandma nor does anyone confront the problem at all and my grandma just lets them live with her, one of my cousins has gone to COLLEGE for at least 2–3 years (I’m guessing), and she got a job once, BUT IT ONLY LASTED FOR 2 DAYS!I have family members (who’s bfs/gfs are abusive, and not just to their partners)I’ll make a fake name for this abusive partner because I don’t want to put their real name in here (privacy), she is ABUSIVE and FAKE she acts like she’s soooo nice and humble and sweet when she’s a crazy manipulative bitch, she abuses her children with wires belt’s and other home objects, even one of her children admitted it and showed bruises and wounds, and she even stabbed her own boyfriend.I have family members who side with other family members and gossip shitless (don’t call me a hypocrite)I have family members who talk shit even about other people in their family usually the adults do it and even do it to people who are not even adult’s themselves and side with other family members talking shit, I have autism and my family talks me into the shitpit and it fucking ticks me off, they make fun of me for having it and try to make me NOT do things that I can’t control and call me retarded (this includes my parents who are in the gossip party as well.)I have family members who steal and lie.I’ll name a few things that some stole, clothes, speakers, makeup, decorations etc, and if you order anything online and send it to my grandma’s, you’re fucked after, because somebody will dig in your shit and run off with it.edit: I never made a fake name.
Calling into work because of family issue - how much do I have to explain?
I had a bad family issue that was causing me to miss work a couple months back. I wouldn't say embarassing but just something I wouldn't want everyone to know. If its the 1st day you have called off then you shouldn't have to say much. My boss eventually asked what was going on and I gave as little info as possible. I just said, "Rick (my boss), it is not something I want to get detailed about but it involves my sister and her children. I just love my family and I worry about them. I was up til 2am worrying about them, talking to my mom crying on the phone. I really need to be there for my family right now and I hope you can understand this isn't something that's going to be here forever." He didn't ask for any more details and it was cool with him. I wish you and your family the best! Nothing worse than family issues.
I am depressed because of family issues?
I am 19 years old. My mom and sister always picked on me and called me names. My sister use to beat me up everyday...always for no reason. My mom would tell my sister to beat me up sometimes when I was young. I stopped talking to my sister completely when I was 13 but she still picks on me. She has serious issues and anger problems. She is 2 years older than me if youre wondering. I also have a little brother who is 11 right now who doesnt talk to me because my sister and mom brainwashes him to hate me. It has been 2-3 years since i havent talked to my little brother...and we all live in the same house. I use to be very close to my brother but he has really changed and runs away when ever I walk pass by him. I am very depressed and don't know what I should do. I don't think I'll ever have a normal family. so what should i do to be happy? i dont even think seeing a therapist would help? i have no one to talk to, can't function..can't do anything, i cry almost everyday, no friends, or anyone to talk to at all. i wish i wasnt born into this familyy......i always mind my own business but my mom & sister would bully me for no reason. it has made my self esteem very low and i have a lot of trouble communicating with ppl and having a social life because of this.
I used to be a good student, but now due to some serious family issues, I have lost all my concentration. How can I get back on track? (see description)
I have gone through the same and had even gone into depression. So i suggest you start doing meditation and chanting. Reiki will also help. Drink lots of water. Eat lots of fruits because they are rich in fibre and cleanse the body of toxins. Start chanting using beaded necklaces. First the mind will tend to drift a lot. Later it will stop wandering too much. Your body needs protein . Try having threptin biscuits. Maintain a diary. Writing your thoughts will release your built in frustrations. But keep your diary discreet. I dont know much about your problem. But after darkness comes daylight.And remember you were born alone and you will go from this world alone. So learn to be independent. Your happiness shouldnt be governed by your family. You came here for a purpose. Tell your family members also to meditate.
How do i overcome a serious family problem which is depressing me?
Family problems are a common thing for some rather everyone(although).When you face difficult times,know that they are not sent to destroy you but they are sent to make you a better person.Knowing the family problems will surely cause depression.I would not like to mention mine though.....When you get to know about something like them,just take it out figuratively rather than panicking for it.Many of the fights are 10% due to conflict and 90% due to the tone of voice.We all know that.Conflics arise due to small isuues and grow up,just in school like when someone points out your mistake your ego doesnt accept the fact that you are embarrased and you try to hurl back pointing their flaws out.The confict arises though due to other causes too.When in such case if you are studying away from your family'Try to make them realise the value of a family.Find out to tell them some memorable moments .Try to point out you and your siblings and point out your and their future.Try to be senti and sentiment really works.Try to find a solution than for a remedy.Removing the solution or avoiding a solution,thats your descison........And folks Remember not that it is easy to say the right thing in the right place,but far more difficult still to leave unsaid the wrong thing at a tempting moment....