I killed my best friend [I'm being serious]?
You are not responsible for the behavior and actions of someone you only know online. If she had a girlfriend, how could your behavior be more important to her than someone she has deep emotional connections to ? Why didn't that girlfriend, or her sister, see any suicidal warning signs ? This person had far bigger problems than you, and never told you about those problems. Third, how do you know if this is a setup to trick you? What if she is trolling you? When one person blames another for not making them happy, or keeping them happy, and then threatens suicide, that person is being manipulative. Until you see a death certificate from the government, she's not really dead. Consider the name of the website : DevianART. Now extend that name to "DeviantBEHAVIOR"
What should I do if I have a serious major crush on my best friend's brother?
When you're young and summer seems eternal, confounding new and wonderful feelings emerge.Love comes calling, but wait. Is it love or that hormonal imbalance that floods your brain with those quirky ideas, both dangerous and even incestous?Crushes are like summer rain. They come and then they go. Pleasant, harmless, quick and clean, the next one also catches us by surptise.Taking your feelings to the next level is like entering a thunderstorm in Texas. Strange, exhilarating, and unpredictable, leaving you broken, staggering, with your very essence changed. A kid no longer you are suddenly old.You can't go back and undo the rubble left in the storm's wake. You will have to rebuild, start anew. Some, like the aftermath of Katrina, have to move on, pick up everything they can and leave the rest behind. All is gone.The writer has a Bible verse perfect for questions like this, though at the same time making no claim to being well versed in the subtlies and mysteries of the Bible. “ Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind.”
How long can I wait to tell my best friend that I'm in a serious relationship with our other best friend before it's too late?
A.S.A.P as you will be inflicting more distress on this person the longer you wait to tell them..You friend may be happy with the result, your friend may not.. The longer you wait to tell that person could result in losing a BF, or it may not..
If I'm in love with my best friend but were both in serious relationships with other people what should/can I do?
You have two choices in my mind- if you are not fully committed to your current partner (which is what it sounds like, because you are in love with another person), breakup with them. Do it before talking to your best friend, because you should be doing it out of respect for your current partner, irregardless of what your best friend does.The other choice is if you want to stay with your current partner, start cutting your best friend out of your life a little bit…tone things down so your feelings subside. Whether you like it or not, you are emotionally cheating
Should I tell my best friend that her boyfriend is seriously about to propose?
No! lol don't tell her he already got the ring. Thas will ruin the moment because she will already be expecting it. Let him and her enjoy that moment and let her make the decision on her own and let him be the one surprising her not you. Like you say, if she is not ready she will let him know and if she is she will also let him know. All I see is you telling her will ruin it for him and he may not forgive you or he might not for ruining that special moment. At least you kind of warned her, but I would just leave it at that.
What should be my response to my married best friend’s serious sexual interest in me?
It should be a clear and definitive message where you say you are not interested at all, and to stop this immediately.You get to say that.
What should I do if my best friend committed a serious drug related crime, but I'm unable to convince myself to be a witness against him in court? His family raised me and gave more financial support/love than my own family.
Tough, tough situation. You are trying to be your friend’s judge, and decide whether or not s/he should be punished for a crime.Let’s presume you are American, writing about something that happened in the USA.First of all, a lot of drug crime that Americans consider “serious” is not really all that serious in many other places in the world. I’m not sure American law still represents the national ethos.Some argue “it doesn’t matter, it’s the law”. I’m more inclined to remember that the law is supposed to serve the people, not the other way around.So as a matter of your own conscience, I think you have a lot of leeway to reassess how “serious” the crime really was. Think in terms of how many people got hurt.And - though this feels harsh - consider what sort of people got hurt. People who make their living off the suffering of others are worse less to me than people who help others. This seems at odds with the text of the Christian upbringing (in my limited experience). But that text keeps changing to reflect current moral values. We don’t believe everything we read in the bible or Quran or Torah any more. We figured out slavery is bad, women are equal to men, etc.So maybe that makes it easier to ignore the law and support your friend.But if your friend murdered three innocent people in order to get away with stealing somebody’s drug money, you have to stand up and be a witness. That sort of behaviour can’t be accepted by anybody. And your friend will probably suffer for it eventually, when payback comes - either for this incident, or for the next.Good luck.
My best friend ****** my sister!?
I want to start this off by saying that this is a serious issue! My "best friend" was staying the night tonight and we were having a good time, kinda like the old days. I woke up in the middle of the night and I saw the most disturbing thing I've ever seen. They were having SEX! I'm literally in tears cuz I'm so disturbed right now. It hurt me so bad to look at him and tell him to leave in the cold but what I saw was sick! It was right next to me why I was asleep. Now do I tell my parents? What do I do? Please help!!
If your best friend is in a relationship and you have serious doubts about the partner, but your friend is happy, should you just keep your opinion to yourself?
Oh snap. I am guilty of this way too often. My friends on this post can comment if they like, I am not going to out you on Quora, but I am guilty as charged on this issue. I have several good friends that were really happy in that relationship until I offered to run the back ground check on their partner only to find out they were in jail on multiple felony counts, had gone bankrupt twice or, ironically, still lived at home with his Mom in his 40s. Yikes. I guess that would explain why she never went over to his place. Hahaha.Oh well. While in each of these cases, the women were pissed at me almost as much as they were pissed at the guys, it was important info that they needed to know. Even if the women opt to stay, they need to know the truth. I love guys that lie about the fact once it is exposed and then confronted with the print out are pissed that she checked. Hahaha. Oh well. If you can’t do the time, then don’t do the crime. It isn’t like she isn’t going to find out eventually anyway. I am just helping to reduce the amount of wasted time on a dead end relationship.