Why do people believe that myth that you can get rich by working hard?
Being rich isn't something you get to be, it's something you're born into. You can't just jump social classes, the one you were born in is the one you will remain the rest of your life. All rich people come from rich families. So why do people believe that myth? Is it because they think they're so exceptional? No, they're not. People like to think that anyone can achieve wealth if they put their mind to it, but that's not the way it works.
I need to self harm but I can't let people see the cuts?
Nah it's understandable, it's hard to control and hard to stop. It becomes a way of coping. First thing to consider is whether it's about the scars, or the pain. An easy thing to do if it is scars is to draw on yourself. Just scribble over your skin with a pen or draw pictures or whatever helps. That helps a lot of people keep calm. If it's about the pain, try sticking your hand in a bucket of ice water. It is extremely painful but it won't leave a scar. You could also try pinching with your nails. It really hurts and scars only last for around 20 mins. Or try an elastic band around your wrist that you flick every time you want to hurt yourself. It gives you a little shock of pain that can keep you going. I hope this helps. There isn't really a place where you can cut that people won't see. Understand what you're doing but be careful please :)
Why do most people get offended/angry when you give them advice? Isn't it better to share what you know?
I personally do not mind when people share it but I do mind it when they share it when I haven't asked for it and then get upset when I don't take the advice. I have some well meaning people give unsolicited advice and get upset if I don't take it or do it. If I ask for advice and several people give me advice I may take it or not or take a little of this person's advice and a little of that person's advice. Share what you know to willing people.
Is trust given or earned?
1. Be honest about lying. Explain your reasons for lying, if you had any. This is essential. 2. Apologize. This is the most important step. Be sincere and specific in your apology. Acknowledge what you did wrong. 3. Make a promise to yourself that you won't lie to her again - and don't! The only way you are going to ever get her trust back is to be honest. Remember - once burned, twice shy. This only depends on what happened. 4. Don't expect her to jump back to you. Don't be quick to say "I will never do it again" to her. After hurting her once, there's little chance that she will be convinced. You need to tell her that you don't expect her to trust you again, which goes hand-in-hand with acknowledging what you did wrong. 5. Gauge her reaction. Is she still giving you the cold shoulder? That's okay. She's been hurt. Eventually, she will warm back up to you. 6. Give her time. You've seriously hurt her feelings, and, depending on the severity of the lie, possibly damaged her trust beyond repair. Don't apologize and expect everything to go back to normal. Understand that she needs time to heal and eventually forgive you. * Be sincere. It's the only way to begin to get your relationship back on track. * Avoid lying at all. Relationships thrive on trust and respect—not on dishonesty. * Don't expect immediate forgiveness, if not any forgiveness at all.
Why won't god give me what i truly want?
I want something very simple. If i got this thing it would make me forever grateful. It wouldn't harm anyone, or make me forget anyone. I would be truly happy if i got this. I've prayed and prayed, but i still haven't got it. I'm a good person at heart, and i don't only pray when i want stuff-i pray for others, too. This is something i deeply need. So why won't god give it to me? I don't understand. I know god isn't there just to give you things, and i'm not selfish, i just don't understand. If god knows how to make you happy, why would you be refused of a simple ask? I've tried praying hard, i've cried and begged, made sacrifices and promises, and i remain unanswered. Please explain this to me-and please no harsh words or lectures, i'm very desperate.