Should I apologize to my friend?
Last year, I was going through a hard time personally and it resulted in me ignoring my friend. Because of that, we stopped talking. This year, we keep running into each other and every time is so awkward because of last year. Do you think I should apologize and explain why I ignored her and treated her so badly? I want to be friends with her again.
How to apologize to my friend?
I really didn t know whats gotten into me. I ve had pretty shitty day, before going to school me and my mom has been in a shitty fight, and I failed my test the same day. I didn t really had the patience dealing with everyone around me for a whole day, my friend tried talking to me while asking if I m mad at her and I just told her to go away please . I even told the teacher infront of her that I didn t want to sit next to her anymore! after that we ignored each other for a whole week. I really wanna go back to my old routine where I would always hang out with her all day in school, I miss her and our jokes we always tell and laugh our *** off. but my ego wouldn t let me apologize. I mean, I started it am I? so why am I the one chasing her now, what should I say to her? I m sure she feels angry, confused and mad at me and because of that it seems like she doesn t want to be around me anymore. help me please!
How do I apologize to a friend?
Dear... give yourself a moment. for your kind help to yourself..... think and answer1. Do you love her ? don't read more... think and find the answer......ok... got your answer ?you said... "No, are you crazy?"then think again... why does her presence, ignorance and reactions matter to you this much and does same thing happens when others did the same with you? not really ! you might just avoid them back and forget. right !!!then what is special about this girl and you? give a shot again and think !!!Still clear in your mind... that you don't love her ??ok.... go ahead...2. now answer this:Is it about your friendship or this is simply your ego that is not letting you go off this girl.you are in trouble not because you can not let go the girl/friendship but your ego is not digesting what she did to you.sometime man (you said you have got big ego problems) can not take this thing that a girl is avoiding her for no reason but instead of being him nice to her, she was so cold.so its cool if you can not concentrate on thing cause this is bound to happen with your kind of nature but the solution is not having her back but apologizing on both side and letting go.ORthe girl that day (when you gave her chocolates) thought that you may propose to her or say something (girls do expect such things after all their experience with other creepy guys)..... or may be she was a bit nervous/not so comfortable as chatting through phone and talking face to face is different. then you giving her chocolate and she was cold.she did not want you to get upset on this but she was just/could not be cool. then you came home and asked her never to message her. there when it went all wrong. misunderstanding and ego (on both side) grew.now what to do.... give it a pause.... you have almost lost the battle without having any rival on other side but with you.let her go. there is no point of keep on saying sorry and ask her to talk to you cause i am a girl and believe me till this point..... you are irritating her (hmm... girls are like that only).....don't call/message her. let her go.some days/months later come up with some great news/thing and start talking. if she respond...... cool ... otherwise you already have friends.plus...... sort out your ego problem buddy. not for others but for you. cause that harm you the most....TAKE CARE...........
How do I apologize to my friend?
Trust takes years to build, but seconds to destroy. Sounds cliche and even corny to an extent, right? But it’s so, so true.The best apology is changed behavior. Never do anything like this again. In the mean time, show him you’re sorry by doing nice things for him. This can be paying for his meal at his favorite food place, to washing his car, the list goes on. Be thoughtful: what does he like? Get a feel for it and do something related to it.Everyone is different, but I think a real friend will forgive you. Try and show some respect and consideration to his needs. How would you feel if someone violated your boundaries by doing something like that? It’ll take some time, but I think he’ll come around. If not, that’s a natural consequence to your actions and something you’ll have to accept responsibility for. Don’t beat yourself up, and accept there’ll be other friends, hopefully ones which you do not do something like this with again.
Should I apologize to an old friend?
This sounds rather familiar to a situation that occurred in my life. I was in grade seven and myself and a good friend of mine (it was a girl btw) just started getting annoyed with one another. In short, we ended up screaming at each other and ended so badly. I didn't care for the LONGEST time but, about four years later it kept bothering me just like in your situation. I personally emailed her and apologized to her for how stupid it was to pick an argument for such a stupid reason. After than her and I became great friends again and it's awesome! As in my situation, I believe you should give it a shot and email him. I think that at least if you email him and fully explain the situation it'll get off your chest. It seems to me like it's hanging over your head and it's bothering you. Just type up a full out email and example yourself, it's for the best. If he chooses to not email you back or even forgive you (if that is what you're looking for) it's his loss. At least you'll be left with the relief of knowing you tried. Best of luck to you :)
Should i apologize to my friend?
Okay so my ex best friend of 5 years and i just got into a fight. I posted a public message saying that i guess i wasn't her friend anymore since she is so far up her other friends ***(mean i know but i had to say it, i was still alittle mad). The only reason i was saying that is because we haven't talked for like 8 months. It's not like i didn't try calling either. She never called me once. And i already knew for a fact she would to the other friend alot! She didn't even call or text, email me-nothing- for my birthday, and that was like 3 weeks ago. And whenever i was talking with her, she always changed the subject and she would start talking about her other friend, and i started getting alittle jealous. I would tell her why the grass is green and she would start talking about why her friend's hair is blue. My first post was alittle mean, so i went back and apologized for it as sincere as i could, but then she came and cussed me out and said she never wanted to talk or see me again! Talking about how i'm a b*tch and all that. She thinks i "ended" the friendship because i was jealous. I never officially said i ended it, and i just figured since she didn't talk to me anymore that she didn't want to be friends in the first place! And it wasnt even because i'm jealous, i dont mind her having other best friends, i just wanted her to treat me like one..but i don't know. I told her sorry for lashing out, especially in public, but i also said i wasnt gonna apologize for being mad. she was being immature for going off on me like that, because she didn't even know what she was yelling at me for or even ask me why i was upset. she just assumed it was cause i hate her other friend, and i dont. I even posted in the other messsage that i was upset because she never calls me or listens/ respects me as her friend.. But what i'm asking is who is wrong? Me or her? Should i tell her sorry for being mad? She blocked me online, but i could always call her. I feel like she is being a dumb ignorant broad but..i still don't want her to hate me the rest of our lives. I dont need to be friends anymore, but i don't want to be enemies..:( XSorry its a long post, but please help!
How do I apologize to my friends mom?
There is nothing to apologize for since nobody ever knows when they will break out with chicken pox. Have your mom send some books (color or puzzle depending on age) to those children (if they have chicken pox) so they have something to entertain themselves with why in bed. That will show that you are sorry for this mishap
How do I apologize for ignoring a friend?
You say I'm sorry. But apparently you don't feel it necessary to put forth some effort like you expect your friends to do for you...all relationships are two way streets. This is not conducive to continuing friendships. But you expect them to accept the fact that you neglect them and ignore them and then expect an apology to make everything better. The sooner you find out that this does not work, the better. You are the one who's going to have to decide if keeping up your friendships is worth a little effort from YOU. If your friends decides to forgive you had better suck it up and care enough to contact her...that is...if you want to keep her as a friend. Edit...in regard to your additional details. We females have a tendency to let things go on too long before something finally blows up. I've done it too. Apparently this situation has been brewing for some. So if you want to keep this friend, you both need to retrain, and maybe agree to take turns contacting each other...that way it stays balanced and no hard feelings build on either side. You two need to talk and get things straight.
How do I apologize to a friend who won't talk to me?
That happened with me years ago, and is also happening these days…Years ago a girl online was ignoring me, even in our friendship circle. Day after day I tried to apologize, and oine day she finally brothe and told it was ifne because she wa sjsut ignoring (up to this day, I’m sure she did that so I stopped. Well we’re not friends anymore so I don’t give a *censor* about her)These days? Well, I contacted my former friend, he told me that he he was busy and would tell me when he was free. 1 month (or close to) and nothing, I decided to act, sent the message and I’m like “now either be blocked me and is showing his colors, or he’s very busy”. But I just decided (like, right now) that enough is enough. I wanted to fix the mess I made, but if he wishes to stay liek that. I hope he’s happy with his life. Just removed him from my Skype.The thing I want to say: You can try to talk, but if they don’t want to hear, then is better to move on.