Should i ask my mom to help me put a tampon in?
thats what happended to me! just ask her yes, it is akward but it's worth it because your mom willl teach u how to do it the way ull understand it. No better teacher then your mommy(: I aske dmy mommy too and she started putting them in for me and I finally decided to do it myself and now I don't even wear pads. it's tottaly 100% worth it! &+ it braught me closer to my mom. and your not scared anymore once one is in because ull see how to do it the right way and ull notice it doesnt hurt! good luck(:
Should I go straight to her or should I ask her friends to help me? (SEE DETAILS)
Going to the friends is usually a bad idea. Ever heard of the telephone game?You to her friend: “Melissa is pretty”Her to her friend: “Guy said girl is smoking hot”Her friend to her friend: “Guy said he thinks Girl is hot and wants to make out with her”Her friend to her friend: “Supposedly Guy wants to hook up with Girl next week”Her friend to her friend: “I heard that Guy and Girl hooked up last weekend”See how shit can hit the fan FAST?Ever seen what you would you would call an unattractive guy with an absolutely perfect girl and thought, “What’s he got that I don’t?”Don’t say money.Maybe he does or maybe he doesn’t have money, but unless she’s a hooker, he didn’t pull out a wad of cash and say, “Yo, you like these benjamin’s?” in order to go out with her. If she’s shallow maybe she’s still with him because of his money. Maybe. But money isn’t what got him the date.So what got him “in” in the first place? Confidence. It took sack to approach her and do the work himself. He definitely didn’t go through her friends to get the date.Saddle up and do the damn thang boyyyyyy.
Can i ask a girl why shes ignoring me? Help :(?
No, you cannot ask why, but I can tell you she is ignoring you because she can. Your texting her multiple times without a response is only reinforcing her decision to ignore you. Girls are attracted to outgoing guys who have a lot going on, lots of friends, etc. So, if you are very popular she will be interested, on the other hand if you are making multiple attempts to contact her, you clearly don't have a lot of girls vying for your attention, therefore are not popular, and she is not interested. Don't worry though, your in good company. Your situation is completely normal and very common. You need to think COUNTERINTUITIVELY!!! The earlier you learn this concept the better off you will be: If you act like you DON'T want the sh..stuff, you get the stuff for free! Guys who seem to naturally employ this concept have usually spent a lot of time around a sister or female cousin close in age and they pick it up naturally. What should you do? Wait a week without texting her. After 7 full days, call her up. You want her voicemail, but it is fine if she answers. Either leave a message for or ask to speak to "Katelyn" or some other girl's name that is not hers. If she answers ask for Katelyn and say "Woops, stupid phone, I hate this phone I can't wait till I can get a new one" Blah Blah Blah... If you're leaving a voicemail, your message should be something like "Hey katelyn it's "Dave" (or whatever your name is) , just returning your call, bye." She is going to call you back to tell you that you called the wrong number. You dont have time to talk get off the phone. If she texts you before that do not text her back before the 7 days is up and then don't even text her. Call and ask for Katelyn instead. She will be jealous, she will feel that she missjudged you. She will feel that she is vindicated for being interested in you before and stupid for blowing your texts off. She will then probably text you to say hi or whatever you kids say in texts these days. Text her back be nice but keep it short because you are a bussy guy!
Is it a good idea to ask her best friend for help in dating her friend?
Yes absolutely. Keep in mind every conversation you have with the friend will most likely be disected to the smallest detail with her friend. That's good though - if you have a chance you'll find out exactly what the girl wants. If she's not interested you'll probably get advice not to bother.All of that is assuming the friends have a healthy relationship and the one you're thinking about talking to doesn't fancy you for themselves. If the friend likes you and they have a healthy relationship, best case scenario is shock, upset, won't want to talk to you anymore. Worst case is she'll slag her friend off to you and you to her friend.Other thing to keep in mind is that sometimes the friend doesn't fancy you but doesn't want her friend to have anyone too nice because that takes the friend away from her.Best thing to do is be direct with the person you like but if you really can't bring yourself to do that, talk to her friend.Whatever you decide hope for the best and know that it is a learning experience. The more contact you have with people the more you learn, the better you get. Love can be beautiful and breathtaking, it can be painful and awful but it's all lessons.
How do i ask a girl if she's on her period?
you shouldnt ask her that, its not your business
I like a Girl but don't know how to ask her out, can someone help me?
Be yourself, start a conversation with her, treat her like a human being and just ask her out. If she accept, great, if she refuse, it may hurt a little, but at least you can move on.There is no middle ground to this, if it seem scary, that fear won't go away, you only overcome your fear with experience and experience only come by trying. Just ask yourself, what you have to lose if you aproach her, talk to her and ask her out? Nothing. But if you won't? A potential lover.
Would asking her out help or worsen my depression?
I think it would help. People want to be loved. As I wrote in For the Love of God, STOP Asking People If They're Okay! (Ask This Instead),All of human interaction can be graphed on an X-Y axis, where X is communion (actions that show caring and bring us closer to others) and Y is agency (actions that establish power or authority. During social interactions, the behavior of one person invites complementary behavior from the other person -- or else there is tension in their system. If I do/say something that is high in agency, the complementary response will be low in agency -- we can't both be the authority. Meanwhile, if I do something high in communion, the complementary response would also be high in communion -- we like people who like us, and it hurts to be rejected. The post continues,By interesting coincidence, human depression tends to manifest itself in one of two ways: feelings of disconnection/low communion (e.g., "I'm lonely," "No one loves me," I don't have a single friend that I can confide in," etc.) and feelings of helplessness/low agency (e.g., "I feel helpless," "I feel worthless," "It's hard to get out of bed in the morning," etc.).So, if you feel like your depression is manifesting more as feelings of low communion (loneliness, etc.), asking her out could be really great for you. I mean, either she says yes and you start dating, or she says no, and you're no worse off than when you started. You might even be better off -- because at least now you know. Knowing is ALWAYS better than wondering. And if you feel like it's manifesting as feelings of low agency... I don't think it would necessarily hurt you to ask her out. Unless it turned out she's really controlling or something.
Can I ask my ex-girlfriend's best friend to help me to patch up with her?
In short, NO!! Depending on the circumstances surrounding the breakup she may not like you very much and would most definitely not help you. Chances are your exes best friend was the one she went to after the breakup and told her all the awful reasons why she isn’t with you anymore. Considering that, why would she help you?? In addition, after a breakup there’s a certain “code”…I’m sure you know these rules: you don’t ask your friends ex girlfriend out; you should not be up in your exes business as she is your “ex”; and you don’t employ her friends to try and gain her favor. Better yet, you would be well advised to just keep a distance between her friends and yourself as it would be uncomfortable for all parties.If you want to rekindle a relationship with your ex, go to her! Any other method will seem needy and underhanded.Good luck!