How do I ask my friend out?
Ask her out. Take the risk. Here's a story that hopefully will push you to do so:When I was a junior in high school, I had Spanish with this guy, and we became friends. As the year went on, we became closer and closer until he was pretty much my best friend. Moreover, I started to figure out that he started to like me more than just a best friend. And our friends and classmates tended to joke with us and ask us if we were dating. I used to say no, but I could tell that no one seemed to believe me. If he had asked me out during that year, I probably would have said yes. However, he did not, and we continued to talk and hang out a lot. We remained closer than ever, and we started senior year best friends still. But by then I knew for a fact that he liked me. It was sweet and sorta obvious, but I never quite knew how I felt. We hung out a lot, and everything was normal for us. He was my best friend, but I did not know if I liked him more than a best friend. And I knew he would not do anything to change it. I would have to be the one to take our relationship to the next level. But I was unsure of how I felt. Until his birthday. The moment I realized it was his birthday that February of senior year, I knew I had to hang out with him and celebrate with him. It was a desire that I never had had with my other close friends. That was when I knew I liked him more than a best friend, and I wanted to find out if it was enough to like him as a boyfriend. So I asked him to prom a week later, and he said yes. I was ecstatic. The next week, he, our friends, and I went to the movies together. It was then that he asked me out on a date, and our relationship began. It was a fun 3 months. It only lasted that long because we graduated high school and were going to different colleges. Our 3 month relationship was great. He asked me to prom by writing me a sonnet in Spanish because we met in Spanish class and I love languages. I definitely started to fall for him during those 3 months.We could have been together nearly 2 years instead of 3 months if he had asked me out earlier or not waited for me to ask. Looking back I wish he had, no matter how confused I was about my feelings for him. Ask her in a way that is meaningful to both of you. Or just ask point blank. You can save the romantic gesture for another occasion. Either you remain friends because you both choose to do so, or you step out of your comfort zone and date. The choice is up to you. Good luck!
Should I ask a friend out over text?
No, don't make that mistake. Drop a few hints in conversation before asking her out in person. If you're too shy, then CARPE DIEM! Go for it without thinking, overthinking ruins everything.
How do I ask a friend out?
I'm wanting to ask my friend out, but I'm just not sure how to do it. She and I already hang out sometimes as friends. So I don't want her to think we are just hanging out. And if I do ask her out and she turns me down I don't want to ruin the friendship. So how could I ask her out since we are already good friends?
How do I ask a girl to be my friend?
This question was vandalised and used to read: “How can I get a girl to want to be my friend?”By being her friend first.What? You think being a friend requires a mutual agreement?I’m describing behaviour. If you see her, smile and ask her if she’s doing well. If she asks around for help with something, offer to help. If she’s too busy at the moment, a good friend knows when to give her space. A good friend knows when to be there. A good friend knows how to listen. Invite her to things, especially if you know it’s something she’s interested in.People like to be appreciated. Appreciate her and chances are in time she will value your company and appreciate you too. If she doesn’t seem interested in your company, you can continue to smile and say hello every time, you don’t have to cold shoulder her. But, you should then control your expectations and try not to overstep whatever boundaries have been created.
How do I ask my crush/friend out?
Why not? But you are taking a risk asking her out if she doesn’t feel the same way about you. So what? In books that’s a risk worth taking.Everything we do in life is a risk one way or the other, heck life is a risk. So, are you going to just sit there and watch you window of opportunity pass you by?This is one-thing that I can guarantee you that if you don’t do, will be among your list of regrets later in life. It’s better to try and fail than never trying in the first place.Now that we have dealt with the why, lets talk a bit about the how because if you do it right, the chance of her saying yes will be high and do it wrong, you just might be staring at a rejection.Here are a few points-1- Initiate flirting but gradually don’t overwhealm her2- If you are confident enough use flattery but only so mildly and if you are really sincere and honest about it3- Humor goes a long way, at least it will take the edge off of any pressure she might feel4- When you do this make sure that you are focused on her, don’t fidget or be distracted, be direct and precise5- Be ready if she says no and make sure you are okay with it. Also, have a plab B on how to go forward with your friendship if she says no.Remember a No is not the end of the world, so go out there do your thing and fun while doing it, life is too short my friend.I have written a review about the best and creative date ideas that might help you win her heart, go check it out.
Should I ask my friend to be my valentine?
Yes, why not? If he says no there is no hard feelings as you guys are established as friends and if he says yes you two could have a nice time together instead of hanging out alone. Keep it fun, do something both of you enjoy but do not get to do often. Make it clear to him you expect nothing romantically and are just looking for a good time with a friend.
How to ask a gay friend out?
Hi, I am 14 and I'm gay. I have this friend (she's a girl and she's like one of my best friends) and about 3 months ago she started going out with this guy who I really, really liked and I was kind of hoping he was bi (or gay and he just didn't know) because he was REALLY hot. But then they broke up and I don't even know why. But he was from another town and he always visited this girl in the town I live in but since they broke up he stopped coming around. He doesn't live too far though. So anyway they broke up and I didn't know why and today I looked at his Facebook page and his ''Interested In'' was changed from women to men (although I don't know if it was a joke or a bet or something) and his status said ''I really love gay boys''... (Oh and by the way he changed it to women like 3 weeks ago and he updated the status today) So I'm not really sure if he is gay or straight but I think he's too cute to be straight and I think that he might be gay because he acts like one. So I'm not really sure what to do. I would love to ask him out without letting everyone know because I haven't come out to anyone yet (neither my parents or any of my friends). So do you think I should ask him out? If so, how do I go about it? I've never done this before.... Thanks for you time
Should i ask my best friend out?
Weve been friends for like year. shes my best girlfriend. anyway, weve hung out occasionaly over the past two months. we went on a date last night sorta. idk if she saw it that way, but thats how i saw it. anyway im a junior in high school shes a sophomore. she so beautiful and perfect and i want her so bad. she always flirts with me, but i just cant tell, shes kind of confusing. im a very attractive guy (girls tell me that, and that i could have whoever i want). im also very nice, and i treat girls the way they should be treated. im making plans for the night soon, so should i hang out with her and tell her how i feel and if she says yes great. and if she says no i got this insane party i can go to where i can hookup with random drunk sluts. what should i do?
How do you ask a long-time friend out on a date?
I've known her for eight years. And to the best of my knowledge she hasn't had a boyfriend ever really. We share a lot of things in common and I like her. How do I ask her out on a date without betraying our friendship? Any suggestions?