I feel like I'm annoying my boyfriend?
Im always thinking about him and stuff and I text him a lot but not like every second I just don't know If I'm annoying him by texting him because he usually only says like one or two words in texts and maybe that's just how he is but should I not talk to him for a while and see if he texts me or what because I don't wanna be annoying him all the time I just really like him and he's always on my mind
Should I be upset with my boyfriend over this ?
Hello ! I guess a little background would help, Me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and are both in our early 20s. I have always done the most I can for him and it is one of the things he loves most about me, hes said many times, but the love and care never seems to be shown back the same. We live only 8 minutes away from one another by walk and although it was 11:30pm tonight, I realized I forgot my prescription at home which I need for my depression// anxiety and so I told him I should walk back about get it. He told me to just wait till tomorrow and basically that it wasnt a big deal, I told him that I really needed them because I already missed them last night and had a terrible day because of it. His response was to go to bed and tell me that if I decided to go to text him and let him know. I do understand that it was my fault for forgetting my meds completely and I know that maybe I'm just not in the best state today which is why I'm upset by this. I do however feel like if he knows how much I feel I need them and if he cared he would not have been so annoyed by me wanting to go or even have cared enough to say let's go get them together. I am especially hurt seeing as we came near to ending because he never did the things he needed to do as a boyfriend in a real relationship, or as someone who truly loved their partner. Anyways if I'm being super sensitive over this I just need to know, dont worry about my feelings !
Should I be mad that my boyfriend hasn't talked to me all day?
You could "act" like it doesnt bother you all you want, but eventually if things continue your only going to get more suscipious. Women often make this mistake and act as though everything is fine when really they are not feeling the situation. When you do this, you are simply bottling up feelings and later they come out in worse ways. By then you could be exploding on your boyfriend and he'll think your a psycho as he'll have no idea where any of this is comming from. Listen, men can be very clueless on how we feel unless we tell them directly. So why not simply ask him why he hasnt been texting, calling etc as much lately. He wont be as angry if you bring it up sooner rather than later. For all you know he could just be a little stressed or busy. Maybe he does want some space. Whatever it is, try to be as understanding and respectful as possible.
Should I be mad at my boyfriend for bailing?
You can't decide if you'll be mad about this over one incident. If what you want is to have a happy, healthy relationship then you just need to examine if what you are really asking is, should I break up with him because he doesn't have enough time for me? If the answer to that is no then beyond telling him that you really wish he would come with you, you have to just let it go. Edit: This is in reply to your edit. So your real questions really does seem to be, should I spend more time on this relationship, when he doesn't seem to have time for me? It sounds like you are unsure of even continuing in the relationship. So you don't need to know if you should be mad at him over this one incident. You need to explore why else you feel like this, what pattern of behavior he is exhibiting that is making you feel this way? Even we didn't know the full details until you added your edit, perhaps you haven't sat your bf down and told him that you feel insecure about the relationship because he hasn't taken time to meet your family. All you can do is tell someone how you feel and what you need. Don't get muddled up in getting mad over one incident. If you start spending most of your time anxious and worrying and unhappy about a relationship and you have expressed your feelings to the other person and get no resolve, then it's time to move on.
Why am I mad that my boyfriend got drunk last night?
Your boyfriend getting drunk last night, is this an occasional thing or an every night thing? If it’s an every night thing, he is, likely, an alcoholic and should seek treatment. However, your question is about why you are mad that he got drunk last night.You are angry because you had certain expectations for him (i.e., that he would not get drunk last night), and he did not live up to them, so you, naturally, feel hurt because of it. You feel that he does not love you enough or respect you enough to do what you expect him to do, so you are hurt, and rightfully so.Now the question is: did you let your boyfriend know that you did not want him to drink to the point of getting drunk last night? If you did not tell him, then you cannot expect him to not live up to expectations that he did not know that you had for him. Men are not mind readers. So if him getting drunk bothers you, then you need to tell him. If him coming home drunk after a “night with the boys” bothers you, then you need to tell him. He cannot fulfill expectations that he does not know were set for him. If he continues to drink to intoxication, then you need to decide whether you should leave him or accept that he may get drunk on occasion or may be an alcoholic and stay with him because of his other redeeming qualities.However, if you told him that you didn’t want him to drink to the point of getting drunk, then you have every right to be mad at him.As an aside, and as an evening drinker myself, after a couple of drinks, inhibitions and judgement begin to break down, so what can easily start as an evening of “I am only going to have a couple of drinks” can easily lead to one too many because a person does not realize how many they had or how intoxicated they really are, and an extra drink or two becomes one too many.With that being said, you need to look at his pattern of drinking. If he ends up drunk every now and again, then it is probably poor judgement on his part and maybe some peer pressure from his friends to drink to drunkenness. If it is an every night or most night occurrence, then he needs help. It is up to you if you want to be with an alcoholic, but, in the meantime, you need to let him know that it bothers you when he drinks to the point of being with someone that occasionally or always gets drunk.
Should I be upset/mad my boyfriend watches porn?
I think you are overreacting a bit. Porn is just an outlet if he's not having sex. It gets him off. Are you going to be in the mood, and sexually available to your boyfriend 24/7? I doubt it. Sometimes there's going to be times when he's in the mood, and you aren't. And you don't even have to be attracted to people in porn to get off on it. I'm a girl, and I watch it. Then men I see are usually unattractive. But, they know how to please a woman, and the pleasure they're giving looks good, which is a turn on. But the guys themselves, I am not attracted to at all. And even if he does find the women attractive, he apparently cares for you. if you sucked, what's stopping him from leaving you and finding someone hotter and better? I think many girls overact to stuff like this. Just because someone has a boyfriend or girlfriend, doesn't mean they go blind and never find anyone else attractive. Long as they aren't cheating, then what's looking? Only way you stop finding people attractive is if you're dead.