My best friend is mad at me! What should I do?
say it up front. doesn't matter what you want to do its about what you need to do. you hurt your best friend that you really care about so the least you could do is go up to him and say sorry and that you didn't mean it. && i know that those comments probably made you feel awful because they would have made me feel the same way too but in a way you deserved them. now, if what he said in the comments was too far off from what really was then nicely and gently say: "hey man, look- i'm sorry okay? i didn't mean to hurt you or dicth you- if that's the way you feel about what happened. you're my best friend andi would never do that to you. i'm sorry you feel that way but most of all, i'm sorry that i made you feel that way. you can tell me off, because i deserve it, but please don't tell me it like that. i understand you're pissed but those texts really got to me & they really hurt me. in a way i did deserve it, but in no point do i think i did something so cruel to you." but once again, you're the one in the situation so you know what this is all about, what he said & did and what you said & did so you should know what to say too.
I think my best friend is mad at me. What should I do?
Good grief. You harm a good friendship by not taking the time to actually talk to someone who you supposedly care about, and now you’re just going to make it worse by TEXTING?!!! Really? Your actions said that obviously she doesn’t matter much to you because you didn’t take the time (and also didn’t have the integrity) to do what you said you would. Gee, I wonder why she’s mad? All you can do now is TALK to her. Call her up, apologize profusely, and promise never, ever, to make such a mistake again — then mean it. Offer a meet-up, or a hang-out day, or something real. Texts do not a friendship feed.
My best friend is mad at me for talking to her ex. What do I do?
My best friend is mad because I started talking to her ex. She broke up with him over a month ago and says she doesn't like him anymore. She's also dated 2 other guys since him, and i've supported her through it all. Her ex texted me one day and we started talking. Well a few days later he told me he liked me and I like him too. When my friend found out she told me that she would be extremely mad if we went out. Well she found out that I was going to his baseball game today and we were going to hang out. She texted me and told me that if I was a true friend I wouldn't have even talked to him... And I was thinking but why would you care if we were going to hang out or not, because you don't like him and he doesn't like you anymore. They don't even talk anymore either... I just really don't want this to come between our friendship... Is there anyway that she will understand and everything will go back to normal again?
I'm mad at my best friend, what do I do?
It sounds like a one side relationship and you doing all the giving maybe you should give him space so he can see what a good friend he is missing out on. And if he doesn't realize it than he wasn't much of a friend as you thought. Good luck.
Mad at my best friend for smoking weed?
So my best friend (we are juniors) just told me she has smoked 3 or 4 times a couple months ago, and I am kind of mad and upset at her. We have been best friends for about three years and tell each other everything and I can't believe she never told me this until now, she just casually mentioned it. Also, we always said we were not going to smoke or drink and talked about how rediculius it was everyone else did it so much and then she went and did it and didn't even tell me. I feel like she is becoming a different person. It's not even that I am mad about the weed, I'm mad she didn't tell me and is going against what she said and also that she didnt include me I guess because I always wanted to try things first with her not someone else. If she has invited me to I probably would have done it with her, so I'm not that mad she smoked I don't know. She said she doesn't anymore and just wanted to try it and I believe her. Do I even have a right to be mad? I just feel like we are going to drift apart and like she is not the person she said she is, and I can't lose her because she is the best thing that ever happened to me. What are your thoughts?
My best friend is angry at me. What should I do?
I know during such cases, There are things that I should do. And there are things I shouldn't do.What I shouldn't do is to jump to conclusions and be reactive to his anger, because typically it just leads me to be angry, and angry people just doesn't think so well. What I shouldn't do is “"giving back what I don't deserve .”I should probably remain calm only to be objective in my thinking. I should be clarifying with a calm voice about what happened, for that might just help my Best Friend realise his irrationality and Simmer down to be part of the solution with me, given the knowledge that I choose to stand on his side, and will willingly own up to my mistake should it really be mine.Two wrongs don't make a right. This is my Best Friend Here, doesn't matter who is wrong who is right. What matters to me is that to be best friends is something more precious than money can buy, and I am not going to let some silly mistake ruin the friendship as such.
Is it ok to be mad at an ex for grinding on your best friend?
first of all if your mad at her what good will that do? she will just push you away even more. be mad at your friend. he let her and probably engaged it. let him know that it wasnt ok. and then maybe tell her too? but again you guys arent going out. it all depends on your relationship now. if your still having a thing with eachother and she KNOWS it then yeah be mad. but if not..im sorry love. your friends the one to be mad at. :/
If your best friend kisses your crush would you be mad?
if your best friend kisses your crush would you be mad? well, mine did. so im mad. we aren't talking. do i have a right to be mad or...? like, she didn't even tell me. shes all, "what happens at the party with me & him, stays at the party." then everyone told me. so yeah, thats also another issue. am i in the wrong here or ..?