How do I confront my dad about him smoking weed?
dont confront him when he's smoking anyway he'll probably laugh at ye,but it depends how much he is smoking and how much of his life it takes over to be honest i wouldn't say anything unless he is missing work or is spending huge money,but if you are really serious go to some websites and tell him the long and short term effects of smoking,also he would want to watch if his work has random drug tests but your his daughter he will listen to ye.
Should I confront my mom about her cheating on my dad?
Firstly, i’d like to say that this is not “conclusive evidence”. Girlfriends call each other nicknames sometimes, the ex-affair might still try his luck… Without knowing if and what your mum responded, this is just a text she received.I do, however, understand your concern and you should voice it to your parents. It really depends who you feel more comfortable with talking to. But only state what you saw and your fears, dont make any accusations. Then leave them to deal with it. It is their relationship in which you are not a participant. Dont take on the role as the cheated party. I find it pretty unhealthy that your sisters were involved in that first confrontation. It is your parents’s, and only your parents’s, job to deal with issues of your mother’s fidelity.
How do I confront my father?
This is a very tough thing to do. To me, you have 3 choices:> Divorce him emotionally from your life> Embrace him & make him your best friend as this may cause him to show sides you have never seen before.> Do nothing & continue on the same path you are on now. I imagine that sometimes things go okay around him and other times things don't.He is NOT going to change. You need to accept that fact. Having a big conversation with him will only deepen the divide. The actual problem here is that he is a narcissist, not that he did this or that to you because every issue brings you right back to the actual problem. He will never agree to being that and further more, he would never understand why you see him that way. There is no way that he will see that he ever did anything wrong and he won't be able to understand why you can't see the trouble he goes through to keep the peace! I totally understand how you feel and your concern about kids. Most likely he would be no different with your kids as he was when you were a kid. Try to remember that although you can't change him, you can control how his relationship might be with your kids. You set the ground rules and the boundaries and either he obliges you or he doesn't.If things go down the tubes, you can divorce him and I do mean this. He will always be your father, but just because he is that does not mean that you have to put him on a pedestal and show him (undue) respect all the time. It means that you become indifferent to him. You treat him like you treat other acquaintances you know. You don't make him a part of your personal life and all that goes with it. And you don't tell him about your new attitude because of the comeback from him.Don't forget that he is a narcissist and that will not change. He'll be this way until his life ends. He might get a little better at certain things over time, depending on who is in his life. Your goal is your own kids, not his happiness. You will be in the middle between them & I know that no one wants to raise their children not knowing who their grandparents are. And at some point, most likely you will have to explain to your kids why you treat your father the way you do. And that is because you don't want your kids being hurt every time he comes around.Good luck!
How do I confront my mom about cheating on my dad?
Well, it's sort of a long story. But basically the past.. 5 months or so? my mom has been keeping more to herself, became very selfish and became really quick-tempered. I thought maybe something was bugging her, but I also realized she's kept her phone more secretive now too, I use to look at it/play games sometimes in the car when I got bored, and now she's snaps at me whenever I touch it; she's even locked it now with a passcode. So yesterday, she left it on the couch on accident I assume, and I quickly looked at it and I saw she had a new texts, so I read the conversation.. and basically she was calling a man "my love," "baby" and other "couple names." She even said about how she can't wait to get back to work on Monday to see her "love" again and they exchanged "I love you" to eachother. So I'm wondering how should I confront her? I've thought about texting her while I'm at school tomorrow and saying "why are you cheating on dad?" or something like that.. cause I don't really want to say it to her face. - for the tl;dr : basically I found out through my moms texts that she's cheating on my dad, what should I do? :X
How should i confront my dad about him finding my sex tape?
a few weeks ago me and my boyfriend had made a sex tap. we werent planning on doing anything with it we just wanted to make one just because. we hid it in a "high school musical" dvd case so no one would find it. just a few days ago my nephew came over. my dad had to entertain him for a few hours so he just watched a movie with him. i guess the only movie he could find was high school musical so he watched it with my nephew. i suppose he had gotten a long way through it because when i came home from cheerleading practice the baby was asleep and my dad was laying pantsless on the couch touching himself to my sex tape. im not sure if i should be more worried that he found it and knows i had sex or that he masturbated to the sight of it. how should i confront him?
How to confront my girlfriends dad?
I would not recommend confronting her dad, written or otherwise. That is not going to help anything. Fathers are not impressed with any guy willing to challenge him for his daughter.
Should I Confront My Dad, He is Seeing Prostitutes?
Okay, my dad, great guy, no love/passion/romance with my mom though, has been calling up prostitutes, and I don't kow what to do. Prostitutes are "escorts", you can find them posting their ads on Craigslist, like a local ebay, and he has contacted them, and he has been meeting up. How do I know? I know his email password, and there are as many as 8 different contacts, that he has said" here is my number call me at your time" bla bla bla, he goes to Craigslist every single day, I have seen him look at it, naked pics of women on the escort section, has put in numbers in his phone like crazy, has been very sketch and suspicious with his late nights on Fridays and Satturdays, and he says he is going to the grocery store or friends house, comes back 5 hours later, and I KNOW, 100% that he has, and right now as type, just got done seeing a prostitute, and my mom and siblings know, I have told them, I don't want to approach him about it and ruin the family. My mom and siblings have advised me not to open my mouth about it, and I will in the future, let my emotions get the best of me when he is talking bad about my mom or something... just not sure, I even have thought about calling a non-emergency police line to investigate him.. just there is so much evidence, and I even heard him and my uncle talking about it... Believe me, it is nasty I know, but a 55 yr old man, with no love is desperate for such a thing... so he isn't a bad guy.. but I am sick of this, he spends so much money on them (100-400) and complains about utility bills.... What should I do?, I am 19 y/o
How do I confront my dad since I found his weed stash?
I would be SOooOOoOoo happy to find something like that, if you start talking to your dad about smoking then maybe you two could bond over it. Me and my bro used to be the generic siblings rivals until we both grew up and learnt that we both smoked. Been great bro's since