My best guy friend won't talk to me?
Last year he became friends with me i don't even remember how but we chatted a lot. I nvr thought of him more than a friend. He walked me to class and be late to hisclass. In the summer we hung out a lot and took walks in the park (it sounds cheesy but it was really fun).One time in the summer, when I was hanging out with another guy friend lets call him M we were going to play my fav sport But then my guy friend and M texted and my guy friend wanted to play with us. I was actually kind of pissed off cause my guy friend is ALWAYS there. In the summer again, I was stuck at the library for 4 hrs so I was chatting him. He biked 3+ miles to the library. It was rlly sweet now that I think about it. I feel really bad for taking him for granted n now i miss him. Recently we hung out again as a group, with my bff and another guy. We were at the park and it was actually my bff scheme to get us together. I called him but he didn't answer. So she called him but he didnt answer either. I was really sad, but he called me back fast first (and apparently my friend thinks this is really important). I ask him to get some supplies randomly and he bikes over quickly. When he comes though, he didn't talk to me at all and just flirted with my friend which made me feel bad. My friend later says its just how he acts. When the other guy helped me up on a table by my waist (which made me uncomfortable) he was watching and I fell in a bush n scrapped myself bad. It ws embarassing. HELP
No contact rule with a guy friend?
Long story short, about 4 or 5 weeks ago my guy friend really hurt my feelings (we had a thing for each other) and knew he was in the wrong, so I texted him saying that it was best for us not to talk for good. I'm curious to know if he hasn't contacted me because he can't be bothered, probably feels bad and is simply respecting my wishes or is waiting for me to reach out to him? I deleted him off of facebook and bbm, but he could still message, email or text me. I still have my on and off days when I'm glad we don't talk or other days when I wish I hadn't been so irrational and we were still friends. PS, I'm fully aware of the immaturity of the situation, but also surprised to find that others have commonly found themselves in my position. Please don't drop an answer full of criticism. Thanks.
Best guy friend won't call me ?
I'm Junior in college and I met this guy when I was a freshman. He attends the college a few minutes away from mine. We began to hang out a lot and we even tried to hook up two of our friends ... it didn't work out, But that didn't affect our friendship. Eventually, I decided to go back home for school after my first semester but we both continued to talk. We've continued our friendship for two years now. We would text each other at least three times a week and talk on the phone at least once a week. I would occasionally go back the university to visit my friends and I would always make sure I would visit him also. When I did it was like I had never left. It was so easy talking to him even though I had only been around him in person for a short time before. Last spring semester I decided I wanted to come back to the university and he was so excited when I told him. I went out of town with my friends at the University for spring break and made sure I visited him before I left. He told me that he wanted to be with me but the distance was the only problem. I was very surprised but realized that I felt the same way. We continued to talk like we had before this summer but began to talk more right before the fall semester started. The first couple of weeks everything was fine. He called me every day and even tried to see me every day. He stayed over and we did fool around but we didn't have sex. I made the mistake of not telling him that I’m a virgin. I know it's hard to believe but it never came up. When he asked me if I wanted to have sex I wanted to explain but it was a very awkward moment. That was the first and only time I ever felt that way around him. We fooled around again and he asked again but of course said no. It was still awkward. I decided I would tell him I was a virgin the next day but he couldn't meet up with me. I called him the day after that and he didn't answer. We go to school in Houston so this past weekend I've been really worried about him but he hasn't called. I know I should have told him that I was a virgin but I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal. He means a lot to me and I hate not talking to him knowing that it’s my fault and that he’s so close I would like to know how I should go about getting in contact with him to let him know I wasn't rejecting him to be a tease and I really to want to be with him.
How often should I talk to my guy friend after I confessed I was starting to develop feelings for him and he said he wanted to remain just friends?
Assuming you think these feelings will pass and you want to remain friends, I’d suggest you see him as often as you did before you admitted to your feelings. Of course the situation is a little awkward, but it doesn’t have to stay that way and the easiest way of changing this around is to get back to normal.It doesn’t feel like it now, but I promise you’ll end up laughing about this in years to come :-)
Why won't my guy friend call or text me back?
I think your guy friend may be confused about how he feels. It's not really a good sign when he ignores your texts or calls. It's possible he wants back off and think a little bit more about how he feels or he just wants the awkwardness that comes with knowing a person likes you to die down a bit. Whatever the case, not returning calls or texts is a very disrespectful thing to do. It's best to just ignore it for now, at least until you do get a response. Try detaching yourself from him for a bit. Don't text or call and see what happens. If he doesn't start texting or calling you after a while, it probably means he's not interested anymore. If he does start calling or texting but continues to make up excuses then, he's most likely not interested anymore. But if he calls or texts and he decides he wants to hang out, then he was probably just really shy about it and couldn't muster up the courage to go through with hanging out..Just be careful. A lot of guys will be jerks and make you think they're still interested when they're not. Some guys just find that funny. Most guys don't like it when girls text or call them often, so try playing hard to get. If you do that, you'll get an answer either way, depending on the response. Hope this helps a little.
Should I expect my handsome estranged guy friend online to contact me via text and say happy birthday for my birthday?
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Do you think I should call my guy friend and ask him if he wants to hang out and talk?
Answers like this are tricky because there could be a couple explanations or paths to take. It sounds like ignoring you or keeping things from you I think if you felt disrespected and underappreciated, and your friend isn’t trying to change his behavior that inspires those feelings, there isn’t much you can do to save the friendship.I don’t know his personal feelings, if maybe he didn’t know how to reply to your messages or did not care to, but it doesn’t seem like he is going to change for you. You can ask to talk with him for some closure, but he might not respond the way you’d hoped.I think it’s fine if you want to reach out, but be careful with your expectations. If he isn’t as invested in the friendship as you are you will only follow the same pattern until you are fed up again. Do whatever feels right to you, but you have to accept the outcome, and be okay with ending a friendship that isn’t good for you even if you care for him.I’m sorry you’re going through such a painful experience. I’m wishing you the best.
Is it okay to call your best guy friend babe?
I have a guy bestfriend and he lets me call him whatever. I just have this thing for really close guys, and i call them babe, or hun. Is that okay? And any other suggestions I can call him? He's the best. he's not my boyfriend.
Can I still text my guy friend while he has a girlfriend?
I think it really depends on your relationship with the guy and the personality of his girlfriend. If his girlfriend is the jealous type, you need to find out how she feels about it and respect whatever she says she's confortable with. If you have strong feelings for your guy friend, it would probably be best to put some space between him and you. However, if his relationship isn't very serious and you feel comfortable telling him how you feel, you could also do that.Really, without more information, it's nearly impossible to give a definitive answer to this question. I guess the best thing to do is carefully feel things out and reevaluate the situation after a month or so. Good luck!