Is it creepy if I talk to this girl from high school on facebook?
Well recently I haven't had time for dating with school in all, but last week I saw a picture of this girl from high school and it got me thinking. We never really hung out in high school because she was is really pretty and I didn't really have that much self-esteem in high school. I didn't think she'd be interested in a guy like me. But don't get me wrong she was far from snobby in high school. From what I knew about her she came off as a really sweet girl. Now I'm not sure if I'm into her or anything. I really don't know her that well, but I'd like to. I was thinking about striking up a conversation with her on Facebook, but am not sure if it comes of creepy. My self-esteem is higher now and I think I might have a chance. What should I say to her? If anything at all. Is it a good idea? What would I talk to her about? We live kind of far from each other now that I am in school, but starting a friendly relationship on Facebook wouldn't be a bad idea...right? We could both see if there is anything there. I just want to make sure I'm not coming of as creepy. Also if anyone could give me any ideas on how to start a conversation with her. We don't have any past high school stories, together, that I can talk about. I just don't want to start the conversation looking like a goon. You know something that ends up with my facebook messages looking like this: Me: Hey Her: what's up? Me: nothing much? U? Her: nothing much? How have you been? Me: Good. You? Her: Good Me: that's good. lol I think I may be over thinking this a bit. Just if anyone has any advice. It would be extremely helpful.
I just came across my high school crush on facebook...?
Funny enough, this happened to me. A girl i didn't even remember messaged me on myspace and asked if I remembered her. I said no, and she just said who she was and that she had a little crush on me in high school. We started talking and met for drinks a month or so later and then dated for a while. I never noticed her back then, but i won't ever forget her now!
How can I stay in contact with my crush if I am switching schools?
The only way: Ask for their number/social media.That’s pretty much the only way.If you don’t have their contact info just ask casually, “Hey wanna exchange numbers, I’m switching schools.” I wouldn’t recommend asking your friend for their number. Then texting your crush will be harder, as they don’t know who you are.Once you have their number, you have to make an effort to talk to them. Ask them how your friends are doing, what’s happening at school, and talk about how you miss everyone. I wish you the best of luck!hope this helps :)
Is it weird to facebook message some girl from high school I had a crush on?
I'm a 22 year old man and she's 22, and I haven't seen her in five years. I added her on Facebook about two years ago, and I probably should have sent her a message or something then but whatever. We haven't contacted each other since I added her on Facebook. At the time, I lived far away; but now we live within about 15 minutes of each other. Also, we go to different universities that are close. The story with her is that we were in one class together in high school, and we had talked and laughed a lot. I was too much of a p***y to ask her out. I know she liked me because she would smile at me for no reason and laugh at my shitty jokes. Also, she's sort of a tomboy and acts masculine with other dudes, but she would act feminine around me. After that class ended, we lost contact. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend right now. I am considering sending her a message on Facebook to reconnect with her with the intention of eventually meeting her in person to see if I still like her. I wrote a message to send her and I was wondering if this message sounds creepy or sad or isn't going to be effective.( ##### = her name, *** = my name) "Hi ######, *** here. Do you remember me from high school? Let me refresh your memory: we sat next to each other in Ms. Martin's chem class. Anyways, I was feeling kind of nostalgic; and I just wanted to say hi. Also, how's school and life in general? -*** " I think we're both at the point in life were we're both going to be finishing college and possibly going in opposite directions in life and geographically. I just want to see if there is anything between us. Also, if I meet up with her ,and I find that we don't have chemistry anymore, then I'll have closure and can stop thinking about her. Please comment about the message that I might send on Facebook. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
My crush is graduating high school HELP!!?
I know what you're talking about. You should do your best to be his friend since he's so special. Follow him around school (not in a stalker way) and see what he's interested in, where he goes, etc. Try and 'accidentally' bump into him and strike a conversation. There should be some sort of chemistry, hopefully, and the two of you will hit if off. If all goes well, you'll become good enough friends within the next month or so and exchange phone numbers possibly? email? become facebook/myspace friends? Just get some sort of way that the two of you can communicate after he graduates and goes off to college. If this doesn't work, and the two of you are still strangers by the way it's graduation then (and i know this is ridiculously cheesy and you're probably thinking 'yeah, right', BUT), you should approach him or write him a note or something telling him how special you think he is and how you are dissapointed you didn't get to know eachother better. No matter how distant the two of you are, if you've never even talked, even if the two of you are in different groups of friend, or WHATEVER. He will be very, very flattered and probably never forget you. No one ever forgets something like that. He'll probably remember you for the rest of his life as the girl who confessed her true interest in him. You never know, he may reciprocate the interest. Don't worry about being embarrassed either because he's going away to college, so you won't have to worry about confrontations unless he's interested in you too. Good luck & I hope I've helped youuuuu.
There's this girl I have a huge crush on in high school and I really want to talk to her! Help please?
Being a girl myself, I say that you should confront her in person. No girl likes it when a guy hits on her electronically. Who knows if it isn't just a friend?? Tell her that you think it would be really cool if you two got to know eachother. Or just start hanging out with her. Get to know her. Once you do try to get in on what movie or place she wants to go to. Then ask her on a date there. If she says yes she is agreeing to give dating you a try. If you do start dating her and she dumps you don't make a scene. At least she tried it with you. And trust me there was a kid who made a hate club for the girl who dumped him at our school last year and now he hasn't had a gf since.
Someone just blocked me on Facebook and I am CRUSHED!?
I defirended someone on myspace because they posted notes like every two seconds and it pushed away other people's notes that I wanted to read so yeah if you are filling up her homepage and she doesn't know about the new feature where you can not have them show up on you home page she might have de-friended you as for blocked their might be some thing else you are not telling us. You do seem a little...intense shall we say as for advice maybe message her ask her whats up in a light non shanlant way
Is it weird to Facebook message a girl in high school you didn't talk to for 4 years?
It is never weird to message. What could make it potentially weird is what you write in the message. The typical high school psychology (about what is considered weird and what is cool) changes a lot as anyone gets maturity. And if she got any maturity (of course, I assume she has) she will know that people change as well. Besides, I (as a guy) personally do not see the adjective weird as something inherently bad or undesirable. Just because some people thought you were weird in high school does not mean she will consider you a threat. So feel free to start a conversation by saying hi, asking about how is she doing in her life. You can tactfully ask whether she is single or engaged etc. as well. Proceed from there based on her response and cues about whether she is interested to reconnect with you as a friend. See whether she asks questions about you, with clear intent to carry on the conversation. It is not weird to reconnect with a high school friend, even if you were not that good as friends in high school, until you make it weird by saying or asking inappropriate things. If she acts cold and giving just crisp yes/no response, then you have to gracefully take your exit.
How does one get in contact with a school crush?
Are you still in school (and have had the crush for 5 years) or was she your crush in school and now you’re both out in the world?In either case, you’re going to wait forever for that first kiss if you continue to do nothing.There are so many ways to contact people. Do you have mutual friends on SM? Mutual friends in real life? Do you know where she lives?You can call, write, or text. Just reach out. Tell her you recently came across her name and, since you had a crush on her in school, you decided to take a risk to see if she’d like to meet for coffee and catch up.Thank you to TS for the A2A and best of luck.