How do I get over a girl I fell for who cut me out of her life with no explanation?
You can do the following things:Ask directly the reason behind the sudden cut off. (You might be the reason, and if you are, act politely and move away) Try to know the reason in depth, but don't push it.If you can't do the above for some reason (she being out of reach or some other reason), analyze yourself or get some help, from a mature and unbiased person. He/she might be able to identify the problem at least, if not provide the answer/solution, but you have to be completely honest with them. If you are at fault even in the least way possible, modify yourself, learn the lesson and be better, work hard on yourself and not just on the surface but on the inside, again get help for that as well.If you think that there was absolutely no reason for her to cut you off and she still did,then move on. Yes, it is quite easy to write down and absolutely not easy to do but you have to grow up or grow out of that person. Socialize, keep yourself busy, indulge yourself in hobbies, learn new things. After all it's your life and you know what to do with it and if not then decide and go for it. Life is too short to pine over people who do not care for you.What you should not do :Get into bad habits/addiction and all that crap of being Devdas, it's purely pathetic in every single way.Don't stalk the girl, EVER! That will get you in jail and a spot on your civil life, forever. And also, that's a sign of mental issues.Do not go looking for love right away, you might think that you're over it or anything after a short while, but believe me, if you do not resolve your issues, your questions right away, no matter how long or short you take to move on with another person, this stigma attached to this deception will come back to haunt you in subtle ways.Finally.. just remember that your life is just one in billions but it is yours and yours only and you don't want to lose even a single second of it over someone who doesn't deserve it.P.S. This is a good time for a Goa trip with buddies ;)Kindly suggest grammatical modifications. I always welcome them.
Should I cut this girl out of my life?
Yeah bro this isn't good. if you can't concentrate on other women you have to cut her out of your life..I think maybe she does like you, but potentially does not realize it. What I would do is this and send her a message and be like,"I really want to be your friend, but it hurts me inside seeing you with another guy. I am sorry, but this might be good bye. My feelings for you are to strong. I thought that I was over you, but I am not. Like I said I don't know if this is good bye or not, but I can't keep talking and being friends with you because it is a drag on my life." I would say something like that. And just not talk to her ever again unless she misses what she had bro. That is what I would. Tell her exactly how you are feeling. I am saying this because I like this girl (And hopefully it does not get to it like me cuz we will almost assuredly be hanging out in the summer as well). Hope this helps man!! I feel you bro. Just try and look for other women to like!! It helps a lot!! And after this girl I ended up liking 3 different other girls! You can do the same!
Should I Cut This Girl Out Of My life?
I've always been there for her: When she calls, if she is feeling sad, lonely, depress, angry. I never really call her, but if I call her once she doesn't pick her phone up and that's okay with me. She is never honest with me and she can be very disrespectful to me sometimes. She calls me names but i don't think she is joking when she say them to me. She calls me: stupid, geek, nerd, wimp, dweeb,punk. She loves when I fail, I told her about a job I tried out for and she said: "Hahahahaha you're not good enough" that hurts but I never told her. I'm always motivating her and when she tells me about a job she applied for I tell her positive things. Sometimes I want to cut her off, but I just don't have the heart to. There was a time i didn't pick up the phone for three minutes she stood there I just picked up because I think she don't want to lose me, but i don't know sometimes I just want nothing to do with her.
Should I cut her out my life?
I'm a 20 year old guy, There is a girl I'm so in love with, and she used to love me... But we live in different towns, and are 30 miles away so I only see her every now and then when I go there. so we only talk on Skype, with webcam but like every single day. Recently she told me that she isn't interested in me anymore, in the relationship way.. but still loves me as a friend, and that she is kinda getting with some other guy where she lives, but he is treating her quite badly like he ignores her and stuff, and he does drugs, but she still likes him.. After she told me, I didn't speak to her for a few days, and then finally she text me asking how I am, and explained that she didn't like how I just stopped contacting her after she told me that she wasn't interested in me. But I thought it wouldn't bother her if she's not interested? o.0 Anyway, I know she isn't interested in me, and I'm gutted to be honest, but I'm not sure if I should continue speaking to her or not. I want to still have her in my life, but at the same time.. I know she has moved on to some other guy, and isn't interested in me. so I know I can never be with her and it will always be too painful for me to see her and know I can't be with her. so should I keep contact, or just cut her out and completely move on? Any thoughts, advice, and opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
The girl I asked out rejected me and I cut her out of my life. Was this rude?
I don't know that rude is the right word for it. It seems more like you were hurt and really went overboard to “show her” you didn't care. What you ended up doing, speaking from the aspect that I am her and I'm reacting to your actions, is show how right she was in not getting involved with you. It appears immature, presumptive and extreme impetuous behavior without much basis.You need to have more empathy toward others and get control over your emotions. Empathy meaning think of what your actions and words will look like to someone else. How would you feel if the situation was reversed? What would you think of you? Secondly, be prepared for rejection in all aspects of life - is this how you should react toward a teacher who gave you a bad grade at school? At work? Toward your friends? And control over your emotions—THINK of the outcome of your actions. Don't let sheer emotion dictate your actions. It is detrimental to allow yourself to be guided by your emotions. Doing this will only lead to loneliness, anger and sadness.Think of how she must feel now and why would she be interested in you now? You had a better chance if you'd just accepted her answer and let things be. Now you lost her as a friend and she's most likely told many of her friends to steer clear of you.If you learned a lesson from this then it wasn't for nothing. This could be the wake up call you needed.
Should I cut this girl out of my life? (Please see comments)
You should not cut anyone out of your life just because the romance doesn’t work.What really matters is whether she’s a good friend or not. That she had no interest in you when you moved away seems to indicate that she’s not.If she’s not a good friend, and not a good lover, slot her into the ‘acquaintance’ category, and keep your distance. You don’t want this woman to mess up your dating life. She will if she’s just hanging around you, not respecting your need for distance.You need to be able to distance yourself emotionally from someone without cutting them out of your life. If you can’t do this, then relationships become a lot harder to navigate. Cutting them out is an easy fix, but does nothing to help you develop your emotional fortitude.
How do I cut a girl I'm attracted to out of my life?
You have to remove all fantasies about this women changing into a loving partner just because she wants you to stay in he life.I had a girl like this also, she was gorgeous. Like she should have been a super model. We tried at a relationship and she basically ghosted me. After a couple of months she calls me back and basically starts talking to me like we were just friends.I was thinking this was better than not talking to her but was still fantasizing that she would come around. Once I spent a little time with her, even though she totally rejected me in regards to being her boyfriend, it’s like she wanted me to still be her best friend… well anyway.. once I spent enough time around her, she got comfortable and she started speaking about how she truly felt about relationships with men.Once I was able to see how sexist and angry she was (she was bi also), only a fool would have stuck around. She’s the first person I’ve ever had to block.So since you already know the deal just block her. It appears to me that these women know they have a trance like power over most men.. so if they don’t get what they want the first time they ask, they just ignore what you’re saying and keep on plowing through until they do… if you give them that opportunity that is.
Why would a guy cut a girl completely out of his life?
I've known him for two years now. We worked together for nine months (and saw each other often), he used to like me romantically, and we've been classmates for two years. We would usually sit and talk with each other for hours. Well I left work. It was rather sudden. I told him that it was nice working with him, and that I enjoyed my time there. He never answered back. He took my shift hours and never said anything. No thank yous, no good lucks. Just... Nothing. Towards the end of our relationship, he started avoiding me a bit more. We graduated together, and even though I pointed out that he refused to take pictures with me, he automatically made up some awful excuse like "well I was having a hard time and all..." yeah right, whatever. He doesn't even want to keep me around as a network. What would compel a guy to completely shut a girl out like this, especially when they've been a regular occurrence in each other's lives?
Is it wrong to cut a girl out of your life who has "friendzoned" you?
There is this girl that I had feelings for but she obviously didn't feel the same way about me. She really likes me as a friend and she would love to text me at random parts of the night to talk to me. The insult to injury would be when she would ask me for advice about her current boyfriend and what to do. Also for advice on how a guy would think in this situation. That was annoying and I was fed up with it so I got another phone (well because my old one broke) and I didn't give her my number. I've avoided her and when she says hello I try to be caught up in something else or tell her that I'm busy. Last night at a party, she happened to show up (just great......). She went up to me to say hello and I said hi. She tried to start up a conversation. I pulled her to the side and I told her straight up to stay away from me. "I'm tired of being the one who you always wanted to talk to. I'm tired of being your therapist. I'm tired of you always asking for favors from me. I'm sick of you". She starts crying and runs to her boyfriend (The boyfriend and I go back a long time and we hate each other). So yeah, we will settle any issues amongst ourselves pretty soon I think. So yeah, a few people said that I shouldn't have done that and it's wrong to do that to a friend. I don't consider a friend though and I used to have feelings for her but this whole situation really lowered my opinion of her.