Theres a guy and all my friends say I should date him, but im not sure.?
Ok so, recently I called up one of my old guy friends to see if he could go to the movies one night with me and a bunch of friends, but he couldn't make it a later that night he called me while I was still with my friends and they all said I should date him. He's a bit immature though, because hes a year younger then me and since I'm a teen, thats a big difference. He is hot though, and he could be really nice, I don't know him completely well, but I used to hang out with him a lot. I used to like him last summer, but since we havent talked I lost interest. He also might be a little too immature and my mom is iffy about him. I was just wondering if you guys had any advise about this... should I date him, or should I not?
I like this guy but my friends think he's ugly?!?
He's not that bad looking(to me, of course) and really im not shallow enough to not date a guy because he's ugly. I just really like how funny he is and how he's always making me laugh so hard to the point where I'm choking on my chocolate milk. And of course, we don't talk at all. It's mostly stuff he says when he's around my other friends(which have known him way longer than me because I switched to this school this year.) So I can't really find a good excuse to talk to him, it'll be awkward and he's considered a bit popular. He's extremely tall(like 5'11 or 5'10 maybe? which is tall for a 14 year old guy.) he light brown, has a peach fuzz(which I find adorable), his hair the Afro type but it's very short so you can just tell it's curly but it's not frizzy. And in a lot of people's opinions, he looks more or less like a Mexican. So three things. How do I talk to him(or approach him) and what do I talk to him about? Also, what should I do about my friends saying he's ugly? It doesn't affect me if he "is" but I just don't want him to be hurt by my inconsiderate friends. I've known this friend for a long time so I can't break ties with her, she's been good to me, she's just a little inconsiderate towards other people that aren't her friends. Please help?!?!
People think my guy friend & I are dating?
So i was walking with my guy friend after class when school ended. we were talking and laughing then this guy came up (he's a friend...just not very close) and he asked "are you guys boyfriend-girlfriend?" and I said "nah just friends" and he said "really? oh...you look like it" and the guy(my best friend) just smiled and went along with what I'd say. then we were about to get on the bus so he went to his and then I walked away and the same guy said "you two should date!!" and I didn't have a chance to reply(he walked away). then 2 or 3 others have asked me that and when I say no, they say "we should". and he talks a lot about having a gf(he doesn,t he just says stuff like "if I had a gf, I'd tell eveyerone and put my relationship status as married or in a relationship" and stuff like that) and he talks about people kissing...and whenever he sees a couple(especially around me) he points them out and makes this joke where he says "BOOM I BREAK THEM APART XD" or talks about others kissing or a few times having sex...so I'm just curious what this all means. he also invited my friend and I to his house to watch a movie with him...in his room. nothing wrong intended though. but he told his parents about me (as a friend) and they want him and I to hang out more. Why do people think we're going out? (it doesn't bother me, just curious) and does he like me? THANKS :)
If your friends hate a guy would you still date him?
No.(Partially because I’m not into guys too much, but we’ll ignore that for now.)Allow me to tell a story.In elementary and middle school, I had a friend who had this massive crush on me. He essentially waited eight years until I was in high school to ask me out. I thought he was my best friend; he thought I was his future girlfriend, or maybe even current girlfriend. (All I have there are rumors from people who didn’t like me.)My friends barely knew him. One girl knew him—she wasn’t too impressed, but she admitted that I definitely knew him better, so let’s concede to Emily.My parents didn’t like him. I don’t think I ever realized this. My mom told me late ninth grade that they never said anything because they wanted me to make my own decisions.A lot of people didn't like him. One of my close friends in middle school hated him and only tolerated him when I was around. There was a reason he didn't have a lot of friends and why even his friends weren't too fond of being around him.I ignored all of that. Or I just didn't notice. But either way, I went blissfully for eight years thinking I had a best friend in him.Then shit hit the fan, I cut off contact with him, and everything he's said or other people had said about him came flooding my brain.He's immature. He's selfish. He's incapable of letting other people talk. He won't do his work. He whines.But he's my friend I thought. I know him best I thought.And that was the problem: I did know him best. But I didn't—couldn't—see the bad parts because I knew him and I was, at one point, friends with him.I'd like to listen to other people, more. I'm not going to let other people do my thinking, but I will listen and think.If my friends—who I trust and who my parents trust—truly hate anyone I'm interested in, then I need to recognize the inherent problem and do something about it.
Should I date my cousins best friend?????
Ok. I went and hung out with my cousin today at the pool. Me and my cousin (He's a guy) are really close. He's almost like a brother to me. Anyway, today at the pool, he brought a really good friend of his. And he is REALLY cute! I have met this guy before, but he was like really not-cute then. But at the pool today he was really nice to me and stuff. I met some of my friends at the pool and there were like, "Hey. That dude really likes you!". I might not want to go out with him cause he's my cousins best friend, y'know? Do you think I should go out with him?
Ok well i like this guy but all my friends think he's so weird and ugly...?
Well i was kinda in the same place as you, i was just average, my boy at the time was to and all my friends thought he was icky or whatever, but what it came down to in the end was what "I" thought of him, my friends would get over it, if they can't then they can get stuffed, if you like him and don't think he's gross then stuff the world, go for what you believe in! Sorry if that's a big long, but we girls place too much on what our friends think and it really shouldn't matter. probably didn't help much but hang in there. :) good luck xx
People think we're dating and guy friend won't deny that we are?
It is somehow going around school and town that my guy friend and I are dating, when really, we're not and we both know it. However, he refuses to tell everyone that we're not. He simply says its none of their business and makes a big deal about how they keep asking. His ex-girlfriend has gotten particularly involved and hasn't talked to me since all this gossip started. She got her sister to ask my friend if we're dating instead. I really do like him, but I think if people think we're dating, we might as well be dating. It makes no sense to just pretend we are. Why doesn't he just say "No, we aren't dating" instead of making it an open question with everybody? He won't deny or confirm anything and its making me wonder.
If she's telling me that her friends say we should date, is she hinting something?
If her friends say we should date (or so she says to me), is that herself hinting that we should date? DETAILS BELOW FOR THOSE WILLING TO READ: Lemme back up. I met a girl on a youth trip to Israel. We became extremely close friends... like we hung out almost as much as possible (unfortunately we were on different buses so we couldn't be together all the time). We even began calling ourselves brother and sister, but that's another story in itself. Some people thought we were going out, even though I think it's weird to call it "going out" when you're stuck in a youth group trip. And even those that knew we weren't dating, wanted to know if we were going to hookup/makeout. Well for some reason or another, she stopped talking to me on the last weekend (perhaps for those reasons mentioned above?). So in the fall we began chatting by email and facebook. In the winter we reunited for a youth convention.... EXCEPT she barely wanted to be with me, with pretty much ruined the whole convention for me. And after that we talked VERY minimally. ...Until recently... now she's begun chatting with me on Facebook more (and she finally gave me her cell phone number so we can talk by phone). We've made plans for me to drive down and visit her since I'll be in her area this summer anyways. FINALLY I get to my point. Here's our chat tonight: Her: do you want to hear something wierd Me: tell me Her: i cant believe i am going to write this Her: my friends think we should start dating Her: i did not say anything cuz i was in shock Me: haha... hmm... Her: i told them we had a sibling realtionship Her: i say hmm... too SO WHAT'S IT ALL MEAN?
This guy said he would not consider dating my friend because he does not think my friend is pretty. Is he shallow?
No, he's just not attracted to her.When I was younger I had what i thought was my wing girl, she wanted to play matchmaker like most women do and set me up with her friend and the first thing I asked was, is she cute? She said yeah and I said how cute? She said she's very pretty . I said cool. So the next day my wing girl and I and her boyfriend stood there at the theater waiting for this pretty girl show up and eventually she did…..and she was the hungriest hungrier hippo I've ever seen. Anyway, I'll spare all the gloom and doom but once I got back home, I called my wing girl and asked her just what in the Milton Bradley was that thing? She told me look, I know she's not pretty but I was hoping you would like her for her personality. I told her that's dumb and guys don't think that way at first. Then I told her if a man can't get a boner over a woman, she's not attractive to him. … women make the worst matchmakers ever.