My best friend randomly dropped me?
It's really upsetting and depressing... If it helps, I'm 21 and she's 19. I know this sounds petty of me, but she randomly blocked me on Facebook the other day. What's strange is she messaged me on there earlier that afternoon saying "You haven't done anything wrong... everything's perfectly okay, I'm just too busy to talk to you a lot," and I told her I understood and I would give her space. Has anybody had an experience similar to this, or even any insight as to what to do in this situation? Thank you very much.
Im jelouse of my best friend!?
My best friend is popular, blonde, has a perfect face w/ no zits or anything and people love her because she is really flat chested and is 4'3 she is also 13 years old. Because she is really short that makes her every ones best friend. I on the other hand am 5'2, brunett, 34b cup, pretty but nothing special. I once had a really good friend but get this, she came running picked up my friend and hugged her and started spining around. When she finally put her down she goes to me "o hi Katherine" they both laugh and go away. I felt like crying. Also she is very concided, im not saying im not but im nothing compared to her. She is also has to have every thing her way, one day we were chooseing queen of the class for Renaissance festival. The day of the election she didnt come so no 1 voted for her. Turns out i won and the next day she was furious at me saying she would rip up my dress when it came, how i would be jelouse of her, and how could i get picked if i was so ugly. wat do i do?
My best friend has dropped me for no reason?
So, i've been best friends with this girl for many years. We were so close and got on so well. But all of a sudden, she's been really cold against me. I feel like I have to make such an effort in our friendship and she doesnt even care. For example, I feel like I constantly have to ask her to come out for coffee or to meet up or constantly ask her how she is when she doesnt even care to text first. And what has really annoyed me lately is that she has been saying things like ''you are so annoying'' & ''please go away'' as her Twitter status? I confronted her about these comments and she hasn't replied. I think I should just forget about her because I don't deserve to be treated like this if I did nothing wrong, but a the same time our friendship meant alot to me. PLEASE HELP :) x
Should I drop my "friend"?
Definitely, if you've got reasons to do so.One of my biggest mistakes when it comes to friendships has always been holding on to them out of habit. I've had this friend for over ten years who I've never been willing to drop because they were always there, but our friendship was nothing but a pain in the ass and they took advantage of my kindness way too often.I put an end to our friendship about a month ago when that friend basically dissed my friendship with another person out of jealousy. This person had always done this throughout the ten years we've known each other so I was pretty fed up and I wasn't up to keeping a friendship like that, even though that person had always been there for me.Basically if you've got a friend or friends who make you feel weird or bad or you just don't enjoy talking to them or hanging out with them as you used to, drop them. It's your right to drop any relationship that doesn't fulfill you anymore even if that person has been in your life for decades.Believe it or not, the smallest of discomfort in a friendship can change your overall well-being. By dropping friends who aren't making you happy anymore you're doing the right thing for yourself. It's obviously hard in the beginning but it goes away faster than you think.Also, you should keep in mind that dropping a friend doesn't necessarily mean you gotta stop talking to them altogether. You can keep talking to them, you just draw a line between the both of you that neither of you can cross. You'll just be putting an end to the kind of trust and relationship you used to have but you don't have to cut off all contact because that will create a very bad atmosphere, especially if you both hang out in the same places often (like classes or something). Obviously not everyone is mature enough to respect this limit and will cut off contact with you right away but if they do that then they don't deserve you at all and the trash is just taking itself out.
Should I drop my absentee friend?
My best friend and I have been close ever since high school. Ever since starting college, she's gotten in to a nasty habit and it bothers me. I'll text her, but she won't reply for days even weeks. I'll call her but no reply. And then when we finally do talk, she'll say I did something that she took offense to or did something that I might judge her for. Now, she just says she's "busy". I don't really have a lot of people to talk to, so when I'm not talking to her I'm really a hermit. I just want to know if I should drop her for a more up front friend, or wait the weeks until she feels ready to tell me what I did wrong? We have talked about her doing this before, but she just continues to do it. I'm at the end of my rope, so sick of having a wishy washy best friend when I really need her.
How do I tell my best friend I like her crush...?
Well, my friend, you do have to tell, her, because you do like this guy. If you don't want to tell her, that's up to you, but if you don't tell her, chances are this guy may move on. There are no guarantees. And come on, you shouldn't lie to your best friend. If you tell her, you guys will be able to deal with it, and she will get over it eventually. And if she's really your friend, then she should understand, and that if he really makes you happy and that's who you want to be with, then you should be with him. If you don't like my method, well, I don't know what else to tell you. You could keep it a secret, but then this whole situation gets a little more complicated. You'll have to sneak around ,and if she ever found out, you might lose your best friend, Or, here's one last thing you could do....drop the guy. If you know this guy isn't worth losing your very best friend, you shouldn't risk it. I know it may hurt, but it's your decision. Well, good luck with everything. I hope one of these options with help you a lot! :)
How do I convince my best friend not to drop out of high school for our senior year?
Tell them that they may be potentially fucking their life up royally by doing that. Try to convince them that senior year will be fun (won’t be for me, but for a lot of people it is).However, that may or may not be a fruitless battle. My best friend also dropped out and is happier because of it. I realize now that it would’ve been a much better use of my time to accept and understand her reasoning. I can tell you getting mad won’t help. Keep your cool.You can try, but from personal experience, it’s a hard battle. Don’t get mad, that will undermine any good points you have an hurt your cause.Make sure the reason you don’t want them to drop out is because it’s not in their best interest, not because you just want them around. You can still do things with your friend even if they’re not in school anymore. That, admittedly, was my main problem with my friend dropping out, even though we live in different countries and she’s a year older than me. I didn’t like the idea of being in school without her.Help your friend do what’s best for them, which may or may not be dropping out.Also, if your friend does drop out, make sure they have a plan for what they’re doing (getting a GED, a job and all that), and make sure they follow through on it.
If you could drop everything and take your three best friends anywhere in the world for a weekend away, where you go and why?
Perhaps, with my 3 best friends, we would go to a nice forest park like central park in NYC, and just have a picnic on the grass to talk about our lives, share funny stories, etc. or for my nature buddies, take some Lego minifigures and take pictures of them on our iPhones with the scenery behind us (or try to identify every weird thing out there in nature). Or, we could all spend some time playing board games together or bring our skateboards, razor scooters, play some frisbee, etc.I’m the type of person who likes to spend time getting to know my friends even more through discussion. Preferably, I like to spend my time at home. The reason for the opportunities of discussion is because I’m a fan of talking about genuine deep stories about ourselves, the world, the future, etc. In addition, I’m not the type that likes to travel by plane too much—it can be exhausting for me.As for the reason I chose a forest like scenery is because I appreciate the calm atmosphere it gives to me plus the awesome fresh air.
I have Internet friends, should I drop them?
Ok. So last year more then 75% of the school hated me so there fore I resorted to the internet for friends. I found a PERFECT group but lately theyve been rude to me, They are 11, 12, 13 and 14. The 11 year old has been my best friend from the start but she always pisses me off by saying that I hate and she's not my friend and she said i look like im 11 which im 12, 13 in less then 2 weeks, the 12 is a guy and hes my best friend in the whole world, never would I think of forgetting him so this doesnt consist in him, the 13 year old I went out with, shes a girl, shes almost 14 as well I wouldnt drop her. But the 14 year old shes always a bish to me and today she said I look like a ******* 10 year old slut..she acts all nice then she hates my guts..i try to do everything right but im always wrong I guess. I guess Im just asking about the 11 year old and the 14 year old.? ((Sorry dish ish so long..;p))
Should I feel guilty for dropping my friends?
Okay, well I had two friends. Let's call them Danielle and Anna. We met at the beginning of the year when we all started highschool, and we became friends pretty quickly. However, Danielle and Anna became closer to each other, and I was sort of the "third wheel" of our group. They never were flat out rude to me, but they did things indirectly that made me feel excluded, like take all these pictures with each other, and things like that. We all had gym together, and that's when I really felt like a third wheel. They would always partner up with each other, and wait for each other at the change room then leave me. After lunch when we went to our lockers (Danielle's locker was close to mine), Anna would wait for Danielle, so she could walk her to her class, and then they would just leave me, and I would have to walk alone to my next class. Anna always goes to Danielle's house, and when I planned for us to hang out at the mall, both of them bailed last minute. Basically, it was like they were joined at the hip, and I felt like a tagalong. I didnt like it. There came a point where I just didn't relate to them anymore, conversations became awkward (especially with Anna), and I felt completely out of place. It made me not want to hang out with them anymore. When second term started we had new classes. I didn't have any classes with either Danielle or Anna anymore, and I used this as my chance to drop them and find new friends. I gradually stopped talking to them, hanging out with them at lunch, and texting them. Now, we act like strangers, we don't say hi when we see each other or anything. Some of our mutual friends stopped talking to me, after finding out that I dropped them. But honestly, it affects me more than them. Sometimes I'm alone at lunch when I can't find anyone to sit with. So why do I feel guilty? It doesn't seem like they cared much either, when I stopped talking to them, they stopped talking to me. Should I feel guilty for dropping them?