I'm 21 and still do not feel ready to move out of my parent's house, what should I do to overcome this?
Some people have a great family and all the happiness back home with their parents. It’s all they need and want. They are perfectly happy in it and that’s not really wrong.I guess asking this question means that you do want to leave home, just that you afraid to do so. You feel you are not ready. That’s actually good.But why do you think you are not ready?Get a job or apply for a college that far from home. Arrange for accommodations. Most college have dormitories for first years. If you are applying for job, you’ll have to survey the city for rent houses. For a first timer, look for shared rooms/apartment. It’s cheaper and you’d have a housemate to help you out. If you are gonna attend a college, you’d need a source of income. Discuss with your parents if they are gonna help to support you.There, you are ready. That’s all the things you need. Accommodation and source of income.The rest, you’ll learn on the go, trust me.Most of us who left home for jobs and colleges weren’t really street smart kids. Things like laundry and cooking basic dishes is skills we picked up on the go.Don’t be afraid.Like someone wise once said (it’s me), get out of the coop and see the world, you ain’t a chicken.
18 and parents won't let me move out.?
Legally, you CAN move out at 18. I think you'd be making a huge mistake if you do though. Stay with your parents and stay in college. Your mom only wants the best for you. She's worried you're going to get pregnant by this guy and ruin your life. Trust me. I've seen it happen a hundred times. Go to your mom when she's in a better mood and say "You know what mom? You're right. I might have been rushing my relationship with ______." Those words alone will put her in a better, more approachable frame of mind. Then tell her that since you have already taken your relationship to the next level - and although you've only done it once or twice! - you think you should probably get on some birth control because you don't want to wind up pregnant and ruin everything you've been working so hard for. I think she'll come around. It's hard to believe it, but she's just trying to protect you. Sometimes mom's emotions can get in the way and come out angry, when we're only trying to help.
Is moving out at 16 a bad idea?!?
If you can afford it and you're mentally mature enough to act as an adult than I would say it's not a bad idea. Independence can be scary and living on your own is a big step but like I said if it's possible financially and you're ready to take that mental step of being away from family than go for it.
Can I move out of my parents' home at 17 in North Dakota (2014)?
1. Your parents have every right to keep you inside, and interrogate every friend you have. Part of it is being overprotective. But they have a right to know who their kid wants to hang with. 2. As a minor, you need minimal privacy. Do you get to close the bathroom door? That's more than enough. It does not matter what you *think* you require. Wait till you get out in the real world, when you wish you had the privacy of your parent's home. 3. Respect is to be earned, not given. Because of this, your parents will not respect you - and won't because you don't respect them. As a minor - yes, you need to obey. As an adult, there are rules you must obey. This is a FACT of life. 4. Most teenagers go thru an antisocial phase. It is outgrown quickly in adulthood. At 18 your parents cannot stop you from moving out, and that IS a fact. Of course, if they plan on paying for schooling etc, you can bet that will be revoked, but who cares as long as you get privacy, can do whatever you want, go out whenever you want (but won't be able to because you'll be supporting yourself and won't be able to afford it, heh) discover that respect gots to be earned for reals and you get to pay all of your own bills! ----edit--- I didn't assume a thing. Although I must say you yourself sound pretty arrogant. If you can't handle the answer, don't ask the question.
My parents told me to move out so i left for a couple days and now they wont let me leave?
I think that your mother may have told you to "pack your things and move out" in haste, likely because she was acting out in emotion. I believe your dad is looking out for you when he tried preventing you from leaving. You parents probably were leaving out of town for the night to discuss the issue between themselves. I think you mother probably sees that she may have overreacted when she initially told you to move out. You seem mature and capable for a 17 year old, with a good head on your shoulders. I respect that you earn the money that you spend. I'm sure you'd probably be able to make it on your own just fine - however, I'd consider making up with your parents. Parents are individual persons too - and nobody's perfect. We all make mistakes. I do think your parents care about you and are looking out for you when they showed that they don't want you to leave home. It'd be nice if you'd be willing to extend the olive branch and make amends with the parents - even if you think you were right. Family is important and you're lucky to have people who care for you. You can stay home for a little longer - then, if you really feel that you need to move out then you can always do so when you're 18 years old - the age society sees you as an adult. Don't leave the nest too early - you need to first make sure you're strong enough to fly. Good luck to you.
My Mom wants me to move out, I'm only 16?
2 weeks ago, she was really drunk and she took out all her anger on me. She came up to me and started choking me. I got up and pushed her off of me. I have rings around my neck and I have trouble breathing.i pushed her off of me, and i broke her finger and something else. I have anger problems, and im not the fighting type. My dad just got out of prison and all he does is, beat me and talk very bad to me. I have some emotional problems, my boyfriend, and everything going on. Im not a bad child. Its just when my parents get drunk, they hurt me! My mom keeps telling me to get out and I'm tired of being told that and getting hit. I'm trying to keep my grades up (3.4) but its hard. Im trying to stay stong but, all I can do is cry and hope for the better. I want to stay so I can see my boyfriend,,but! The next time she hits me and tells me to get out, what should I do? I only have myself, nothing else??