Should i forgive my friend?
i met her in 2010. She was more popular than me. 2 months ago she publicly announced on instagram that she didnt wanna be my friend because i was uninteresting. Now she says shes sorry and wants to be my friend again. What should i do?
Should I forgive my fake friends? What should I do?
Forgive. But never forget. Move forward. And ignore.I always thought forgiving and forgetting at the same time will heal all the wounds they’re giving us. But the pain? It’s still there. We always thought that it’ll never happen again, because that’s what we believed in. That people, our friends, will never do such things. But guess what? They just did. The sad truth of having friends like this is that they’re being contagious at times. They tend to tell other people about us, badmouthing, terribly lying, and just making us their laughingstocks.Forgive they say, always forgive. Because they’re just humans like us, doing ridiculous things that can hurt other people. Why can’t they just reveal their true self? We tend to ask things like these because we can’t just think how can they do that to other people. But at the end of the day, forgiving people like them will lessen the burden. It’s quite tough, but it will be worth it.At this point, I know you’re having an issues. Trust issues just to be exact. We often ask ourselves questions like, “Should I tell them?”, “What if they will just do it again?” and so on and so forth. It’s hard to trust them again, so as to what I’ll tell you, don’t forget. Be wise. Don’t be too comfortable again, telling them your secrets or whatsoever. Keep it that way, because that’s what you gonna do to avoid trouble in the long run. Always, be careful and mindful on what you’re sharing.Then move forward. Go with the flow of life and do not overthink. I know it gives us so much anxiety having people like this, but always move on. You’ll never know what will happen next if you’ll stay there forever thinking what had happened in the past that made them like that. No. You’re not the problem, honey. It’s not your fault. If it happens that you miss them? Go on and have some friends again, because if it’s not you who will take the step, then who else will?IGNORE. Ignore what they’re saying. Ignore what they’re doing. Ignore all that feelings. You can do that. Life doesn’t ends there. If you’ll stop there, you lose.P.S.: Thanks to pieces of advice, Krisha Beral. I learned a lot! Lots of love. ♥
Should I forgive my best friend?
We have been besties for 3 years and even when we fight we cant last 2 days without getting back in touch. Last week, i texted her to ask for advice and she immediately hit me with "oh ur forgetting im leaving for a vacation tomorriw but u always think about yourself" I apologized bc she didnt talk about her vacation much and I forgot and she never told me an exact date. So told her that but she kept on going. She told me how much i annoy her recently bc i always think about myself and talk about my stuff and not hers. But i dont agree bc the last few times we only talk about her guy problems. I think theres balance but since i love to talk maybe i couldve been carried away sometimes. Anyway, i said i dont wanna fight before her vacation but she kept on going. Then i said "fine thanks for being honest about how much i bother u. Dont text me again" she said "wow now im sad before my vacation bc u know how much i hate fighting" i said "well u started it and kept on going" basically she told me things she had been hiding all along and it hurt me hearing how much i was annoying her at times but she still admitted she loved me and couldnt without me. She texted me last night and i am still hurt but i miss her. I know she's sensitive and i dont want her to be sad on her vacation. My mom told me to leave her. But all in all, what should i do?
Should I forgive my friend who hurt my mom?
Yes you should forgive your friend. If we don't forgive them we carry the hurt and pain with us and, if it is bad enough, it can even begin to change who we are. I think we often confuse forgiveness with giving the other person a total free pass to do whatever they want in the future. Depending on the situation, relationships can Shane and new boundaries can be established even though the person has been forgiven.I think a bigger question for many of us is how do we know we have forgiven someone who hurt us. (I struggle with this one!) We often think we have forgiven someone, but the minute any little thing happens we emotionally dump the whole bag of past hurts on the table. This would indicate we need to work a little harder on forgiveness!
Should i forgive my "friends" for calling me fat?
You should find new friends. They are like poison to your soul. You don't need to hear stuff like that. And the way they judge everyone would be enough just on that is enough to stop hangi
Should I forgive my friend for hurting me?
My ex bestfriend moved out of our hometown for college, and a year later I moved out to the same college with her. We both had our own place, which I diding mind. We had been friend since 11th grade and we are in our mid 20's. To make long story short, once I moved she started to be rude and mean to me. I thought we would hang out and be there for each other when we needed eachothe but it was the total opposite. She would just hang out with her boyfriend at the time and would totally ignore me. Once our lease ended in eachothers seperate apartments I thought we would move in together but nope she forced her bf to move in with her. The last thing that got me so upset and hurt was on my bday I had a lil party and she did not show up. That really hurt me my own "best friend" could not go to my bday party. I did everything for her, I would always go out of my way for her. Anyhow I stopped talking to her about 2 years ago, and now that her bf broke up with her she started texting me and facebooking me. She wants to hang out and honestly I really dont care too. Is that bad? I feel like I lost total interest in that friendship. She hurt me so much and left me on my own when we were suppose to be in this new city having the time of our lifes. Im glad to say I have been on my own and done everything on my own but the times that I needed her she was not there for me. Should I forgive her and hang out with her? Please let me know your opinion. Thank you :)
Should I forgive my friend? She's a Gemini?
What energy you accept in life is the energy you receive in life. Perhaps it is time to reassess some of that energy. No one can tell you to forgive or not. But, it is wise to pay attention to those that you hang out with. If they betray you, then lie to you.. gee, what is next. Sometimes we need to honour ourselves, and often it is by the company we keep. With friends like that, who needs enemies? Do you really need selfish and thoughtless people in your life? Know that you deserve to have good people in your life, and that decision is up to you. We are the company we keep.
Should I forgive someone who used to be my best friend?
It's important to always forgive those who have hurt us. Holding grudges and not forgiving only hurts ourselves. Forgiving someone doesn't mean that you become a doormat for them to keep hurting you. It just allows you to move on from the incident and not allow the pain to fester and turn into hate. You have to decide if you feel the friendship is worth continuing or not, but forgiveness is a separate thing from what you decide to do with the relationship with the other person. Always opt to forgive. You'll never regret doing so.