My math teacher swore in class?
Okay so i am in year 10 and I'm not going to lie and say that my innocent mind has been violated but i still find it very wrong. So here's what happened: My friend accidentally sat on gum as she came into lesson, so she stood up trying to get it off, the teacher told her to sit down and she tried to tell him what happened then he said "*Person's name* I don't have time for your b*llsh*t". Now I actually asked my vice principle if teachers were allowed to swear in front of students and he said that it would be very inappropriate in a learning environment. I also go to an Academy and my school is all about manners so it only makes sense that swearing should not be permitted, teacher or student. Anyway, my friend then told our head of year which ended up in the teacher, her and our head of year having a meeting. The teacher did apologise for swearing. HOWEVER, a couple of weeks later he called my friend to his classroom and he told her that he doesn't think that "Stupid, Idiot, B*llsh*t, Ect. " to be swear words. To which I was very confused as I've always assumed "B*llsh*t" to be quite a bad swear word. To test this I was actually contemplating saying the word in front of him to see his reaction. Maybe in front of another teacher to tell them "No, our maths teacher told us it was okay" but I'm not all that horrible! So do you think that what he did was wrong or not?
I cheated on my wife and my GAY GOSSIP QUEEN brother ratted me out. What should I do?
No body has a perfect family, we are all screwed up and screwed over by the genetic obligations. Your brother being gay has nothing to do with him being a shallow rat. I can see how you hold the animosity towards gay people because of how your wife is since her nephew died. It's a process, I get it, right now the gay population makes an easy scapegoat. In truth, you are upset with your wife because of how she handling this now. You feel that the gays are more important to her than you. This is something that you need to address, it is very close to killing your marriage. Your brother just came out of an abusive relationship, that really messes with a person's head. He is not thinking right. They way he sees it, if she is mad at you, he is safe. This is something he needs to address as well. As far as getting your wife to forgive you, you need to get into couples consoling with her. A man in a happy marriage doesn't cheat, there are issues that must be fixed before she can forgive you. Yes, you screwed up the most, your screw up can save your marriage, or end it. The choice is yours.
Should I tell my mom my brother is smoking weed?
Ok, so I just got home from the gym and walked into my bathroom, which connects to my brother's room. My brother is 17, about to be 18 this Saturday. I noticed that his room smelled STRONGLY of weed. He jumped up suddenly when I opened the door and went over to where I was. I asked "why does it smell like weed in here?" and he said "it doesn't. it just doesn't." But I also noticed his eyes were pretty red. Well....I feel like I should tell my mom, but I don't wanna be "that sister" who rats out her brother. I'm definitely not telling my dad, because he would kick my brother out of the house. I would feel like a hypocrite ratting him out, because I have tried weed twice. I'm 19 now, and I didn't try it till the end of my freshman year of college about a month ago. It made me sick and paranoid, so I'm not gonna do it again. Another huge reason I feel like I should is my brother's recent behavior. He's been staying up till 4 every morning and sleeping the entire day. He won't help any of us with anything and he stays in his room all day. Yesterday he kept screaming at all of us. My mom asked him why and he said "I'm just having a bad day." She asked him if it was any of us, his girlfriend, or his lack of a job, but he said no to all of them. He's also been acting really depressed. I feel like the weed might be causing this, or making it worse at least. What would you do if you were in my situation?
My boyfriend is breaking up with me because his mother told him to. What should I do? I don't want it to end like this.
As much as you didn't want it to end I didn't want it to end it hurts yes it does I'm going through it Rn!!!! just how I have read all of everyonea opinions or things to do I have something as well. Never settle for less if he left you because his mom told him to then that was on him! He obviously lost something good and he's gonna realize that one day and because of his mom but obviously family comes first but weren't you supposed to be his family as well? And the guy I was with didn't love me as much like he would show me Everyday. Yea it's hard and it sucks even more for me because I live 4 ‘in away from him I can just walk. I would spend each and everyday with him and his family we never had time for us. His family were into church deeply they would spend there nights praying at church so would I! i would do everything I could just to be there for him make him happy, I would go to his house everyday to help his mom but here's the catch she made us break up because she found out me and her son had sexual relations (sex) so she made him break up with me no hesitation but now I'm beginning to understand that I really didn't matter to him be instead of finding a way to talk to me he talked to someone else. After his mom talked to me that me and him were done I didn't even get to talk to him about it, he didn't even get to explain himself because we have had tough issues in the past and now it was so real he made me feel that he loved me. He was one of those guys who wasn't sure in the beginning he wasn't sure if he wanted me he told me he left me because he was afraid to know he was in love with me he didn't know what he wanted until he got back with me and something changed in him he looked me in the eye and just said he wants to spend his life with me but it all came to an end because his mom told him to. well girls just move on that's what I'm trying to do it's hards obviously but you deserve better and if ur angry at him forgive him forgive other. God has more better plans for you
Should i tell my parents that my brother is smoking weed?
Talk to your brother and let him know that you know. Say your worried and if he keeps it up your going to tell you parents. Your mom probably already knows because no one believes that holding it for a friend line anymore.