Should I just move on or try to win him back?
A beautiful and sustainable relationship starts with both couples who feel the same way for each other.Both of them are willing to commit their time (both present and future) to ensure that the other person grows in the relationship.If only one is in love, expectations will continue to pile up leaving the one who has invested emotionally with pain as the days go by.Hence, it is practical and wise to invest only in people who invest in you. If there is no mutual affection, it will be just like a roller coaster ride.Let go.Be free from such emotional torture.
Should I give him some space and hope that time will heal our relationship or should I just move-on?
Hi, I am sure you have already tried to speak to your fiance face to face about this and apologise but try to understand he is more than likely very upset and probably disgusted right now so the last thing he wants to do is have a conversation with you, so do the next best thing and resort to writing a good old fashioned letter. Tell him exactly how you feel, what a huge mistake you have made, tell him you didn't mean to hurt him and at the time it was meant as just some harmless fun but you realise how wrong you were. I know this will be difficult but tell him you know you have made the biggest mistake of your life and you can understand if he never wants to see you again but to please consider giving you another chance to prove how much you love him. You must then give him his space and let him decide what he wants to do, after a while (lets say about 2 weeks) if you have not heard from him get in touch and ask if there is any chance of you working this out. If he says no admit you were wrong, tell him you will always love him and you hope he will find someone who truly deserves him and walk away. We all make mistakes and I hope you have learnt from this. Hope this has helped, good luck x
Should i give our relationship one last shot?
all things aside.... do you trust him? if not, u need to let him go. it won't be fair to him if u keep judging him, and u can't let go of the past. and it wasn't fair to u when he broke up w/ u to get w/ the other girl. he needs to build up that trust w/ you before u can go on. and that means Communication. and he needs to do whatever it takes to satisfy Your needs and wants.. if he can't do that, will not do it, or doesn't know how to do that, i think u should part ways. if he is willing to learn it, and is truly sorry for the past, and you Believe him, then trust him. if u love him, u have to give him a chance. but if u feel in ur heart that u can never forgive or forget, than it is best to move on. cuz ur not a fair girlfriend if u always harbor negative feelings towards him..it's not ur fault, its his. but either way, u can't control your trust, he has to WORK at it to build it back up.
My bf suggested to give me space. But I feel like he is actually just pushing me and the actual issue off to the side?
Few months ago my bf lied to my face and I have been having hard time being happy or trusting him. Well every month at least a few times I feel sad and I usually don’t say anything and just try to move past it .(I did bring it up once in a talk since then ) a few days ago I got extremely upset realizing It still bothering me and I told him. He just kept defending himself and eventually asked me if I wanted space .. I said sure .. he said he will give me space and it will be hard for him but he’s doing it to show how much I mean to him because it sounded like I needed space.. But he asked if I will still come to his tattoo appt with him in a few days I said yeah (he went to a couple of my tattoo appt and sat with me the whole time and I told him I would do the same for him before so I said yes I’ll still go with him ) well I feel like since I agreed to still go he just not really caring . I feel like he doesn’t care or is putting no effort to try and make me feel better .every day passes I don’t talk to him I feel more and more left alone and lonely. And the day of his tattoo appt comes and I show up and everything is fine? I don’t think I will be happy that day..but he did sit with me when I was getting tattooed and he even changed his appointment becUse I had to go into work so he changed it to another day so we can go togethEr Starting to feel like he suggested to give me space so he can just put me aside and since he knows I’m coming to his appt it’s all whatever to him.
I just found out my boyfriend did drugs?
i found out my boyfriend did some drugs and he lie to my face. now that i ask 1 month later cuz i am so sure he admits to it and said cuz i am against it that is why he lied. well now where is the trust...should i stay with him he says he only did it a short time and is done...hummmmmm what do you think
Should I give another chance? or divorce?
I guess you could give him a few more days. Of course if someone hasn't tried to changed in 5 years.... I have my doubts