What is your aim in life? How are you planning to achieve it?
Huh ! Aims ... well there are so many of them like getting a good job , making my parents proud , taking my mom and dad on a Cruise all on my expenses and I aim to live up to the expectations which my parents had set for me .I aim to fulfill all their dreams . I aim never to hurt my closed ones .I aim to be successful . I aim to take my rejection positively and my failures as learning steps .I aim to always be learning, never give up, and give my absolute best .I aim to fall in love someday all over again .and aim to make people around me happy ! Don't know how many I can actually achieve and all my life will go in aiming , securing the goals , making my family happy , sacrifices , adjustments , adapting to new environments and what not because that is what we all are expected to do . Basically there will be new aims , new choices at every stage of my life or everyday and my priorities will change so do my aims .How do I plan to Achieve ?I do not want to plot a strategy for the above listed aims , I wanna face life the way it comes to me , there's not any definite plan or solution to any problem . But most importantly I aim to live in the moment , enjoy the most of it , live at peace and I seriously aim to cherish my passion , my childhood love - PAINTING (I want to explore all the types Oil , Pastel , Acrylic, Fresco , Tanjore , Tempera , Enamel , Gouache and start my own blog .)Thank for the A2A Seema Shah mam .
What are your life goals and how do you plan to achieve them?
To be happy always
HELP.I'm planning to give up on life.?
Well,first things first,I'm 14 going on 15 & I haven't slept for more than 24 hours.I really don't know wat's happening-I'm just not sleepy.At the moment,I'm crying because I'm tired of looking in the mirror and not like-ing what I see.I've tried working out,but I've gotten no results.I tried to comitting suicide once before,but it didn't work bcoz my brother.Somehow,figure out I was gonna do it.And I'm tired of seeing all of my friends be happy n having boyfriends n wat so ever.I have never been in a relationship & its a shocking to all the ppl I tell bcoz according 2 them-I'm really attractive.Yh-B/S.I have also like this guy since forever and of course,I told him,n he said I had to find out on my own if he liked me,but I know he liked this other skinny,blond,green-eyed blond girl-Pretty much a boy's dream girl.Truthfully,I hate the way that I look and feel about myself,even though I'm always giving people good advice-according 2 them.I really need sum good advice.PLS.HELP.
I feel unsatisfied and unachieved about my life right now?
for someone your age it is but normal to have big dreams and high hopes for yourself and at the same time because you are quite young, you are vulnerable to to mistakes and disappointment and getting hurt maybe the end result. As for your parents, i'm sure that it is their best interest to protect you for your own good. I'm not saying that you give up your dreams, you still have a long way to travel, think of things that you should prioritize first. things that you know will bring you a brighter future, like finishing school first. But,if you really believe that you got what it takes, the talent and perseverance to persue your dream then go for it. You don't have to move out, try talking your parents into it. give them assurance that it will do you good and you still know your priorities and i'm sure they will understand.
I feel stuck with my life. I want to do a lot but always end up giving up my goals. How can I change this?
Change is a difficult process. What you want to do is to change for better. You want to incorporate new things in life. It is difficult and needs perseverance. Addition is possible only when you do all your present tasks efficiently. See the bottlenecks. Analyze where you get stuck. Work on those limitations to remove them. You can hire some help or ask someone for help or use some machine to gain speed or do whatever you feel to solve the issue. First solve it. Do not ignore it and then say that you are incapable. Become capable and solve the bottlnecks the tinniest of issue that bothers you. Remove it first. A prick is small but hurts. Likewise your problem can be very small but is making you give up. Please resolve it first and then you will find a way through. It is not you responsible. The problems are making it difficult to move. If you are not able to get rid of all the barriers, keep on working within those limits and make yourself strong overtime. May be after some time you will grow strong enough to handle them. But do not feel that you are incapable and cannot move because of your inability. Focus on your goals. Remove your obstacles. Hone your skills. Keep going. Always striving for better. You will reach your destination doing all that you have always wanted to.
I have many ideas, plans, and goals, but i always give up midway. What should I do to change this?
Good. You got your major mistake identified. Now sure you have the solution, yes i will remind you.What ever happens stick with one idea. Example: You thought to become a big business man in the field of renting taxi, later you found, “no its not possible because big players already exist, so this thought is wrong”. Just think you are unique and the oppenent dont have tricks and innovative ideas like you and in future u will become the gaint. Think positive.While doing one business, dont get attracted to other. And dont think again new ideas. Or search the same on internet or think about your friends business ideas or others making easy money on something.Important, find way to penetrate or plan to over come all the hindrance you feel that would stop your growth on next coming days. This is the only thing you need to think and break, those hindrance without stepping back saying “Oh this is the end of it, let me think on other business idea”If you dont follow point # 3, then you will open current account again and again, change name board, change GST, Do new promises to your well wishers, Arrange start up money again and again and again and again and again and again. At the end, start looking for a job as employee.Good luck. Hope the points helps you.
Should we stop planning because life doesn't go according to how we plan it?
I am perhaps one of the best examples of a person whose plans never succeeded.After my 10+2, I planned to get admission in an IIT in a good branch. My plans failed and instead I got an average rank and got Mechanical Engineering in IT-BHU (now IIT-BHU) Varanasi.I completed my Engineering and even worked one year in L&T. However, I left Engineering as I did not like the job.I planned to become an IAS, but I could not get the top rank and ultimately got only IRS. Failed again.I worked as an IRS officer for 25 years. However, I quit again to become a Professor and a writer.I wrote three books ‘Practising Spiritual Intelligence’, ‘The Secret Red Book of Leadership’ and ‘Myths are Real, Reality is a Myth’ with great enthusiasm and lots of hard work. I planned to become a Million copy seller getting huge royalty to live a good life. However, my books were sold only a few thousand copies and I hardly got much royalty from the books. My plans failed again.I planned to become a Professor as I had B Tech, M Tech and PhD degrees with passion of teaching. I applied to over a dozen universities and colleges. I was not selected by even one of them.After failing in all the above, I have not stopped planning.I have now started ‘Awdhesh Academy’, an online e-Learning platform and plan to make it one of the best e-learning platform.I still don’t know, how much I am going to succeed in my new venture.Should I now stop planning?Should I now leave everything to God/destiny and accept whatever happens to me?Does not achieving my dreams in full make me a failure?Interestingly, I neither consider my life a failure nor I have stopped planning.While I may not have succeeded in fulfillment of my desires in totality, I have still been able to achieve quite a lot due to my planning and hard work.Moreover, I have the rich experience of life as anEngineerCivil ServantResearcherAuthorTeacherEntrepreneurHow many people are blessed with so much of rich experiences of life?I would have never achieved whatever little I have been able to achieve without planning.You always get the best results when you plan.You can achieve virtually nothing without planning.It is wisely said, ‘Something is better than nothing.’Be happy and be proud of whatever you have achieved rather than what you have missed.That is the secret of a happy and successful life.
Is it ever O.K. to give up on a dream?
Not unless you decide you don't really want to do it. Sure you have to face reality and may not be able to pursue your dream as you first wanted, but I wouldn't just give it up or you will regret it later.
Waiting to see psychiatrist... what to do till then?
im 17yr girl ppl scare me!! if theres too many ppl talking or/and movng i want to leave.. i dont go out much... i keep crying...cant sleep much...then fall asleep in the day... feel dizzy... have kno idea what to do... just want to kill myself!! i dont see why ppl are making me live! my friend told school nurse i want to die who told my mum but only me mum kno in the family ive been transfered to see a psychiatrist and im scared!!i doubt itll help me.. noone can! the world seems to unreal,,,like im watching everyone else and im not here... i cant understand anything! what ppl say.. why ppl say do thing...like why my friend told... ect.. i dont want to go out... i dont eat much unless pll actully tell me to and watch me eat...i dont feel like it at all.. if i can get around it by lying i do! i get annoyed and angery really easily! im just soo lost!! i just hate it that im alive!! but i promised my friend id try the psychiatist 1st... theres a up to 10week waiting list..but gp said its only probly 2months... what do i do till then? sorry if im wasting your time i keep wasting ppls time even though my friend says im not.. but im sure she saying that to be nice