How do I get my best friend back?
“Friendship is the purest form of happiness”Friends are the people who create rainbows in our black and white life. They are the ones to who we can go and vent down and save ourselves from this cruel world, with them we share a hell of a lot of things. Basically they are the life journal of our lives literally and growing old with them is the most awesome feeling on earth.But yeah fights and misunderstandings do happen. We do lose a lot of people in the process. What we need to understand is that these are the general emotions we feel at times and may go out of our mind but that’s the real test of that bonding which is being created and nurtured all these years.Mistakes happen and when we realize them truly, no apology is bigger then self realization. All you need to do is go and sit beside that buddy and “TALK” to them. Literally talking to that person sometimes makes so much difference. No amount of text messages or phone calls can replace the actual human contact we make with those lovely people. No matter how big the mistake is. What matters is how you learn and change from that and if the other person you are apologizing to equally respect the friendship they will understand your words and even if it doesn’t workout it will never stop you from making new friends and learning different things in life but never hold on regret of what if? and in the same place respect yourself and the person you are with too. In the end we all are humans dealing with life with our own different meanings and purposes.Ps. Please mention details next time.
Should friends with benefits say "I love you"?
I'm a 17 y/o guy and she's 18. We were friends for a year then kissed one night and we have been friend with benefits for 3 months. We are friend and yes there are frequent "benefits" and a lot of cuddling. At the beginning she asked me what we were and I said "friends with benefits" and she happily agreed. About a month ago she told me she loved me, and I reluctantly said it back. Now she always says it to me, and I even catch myself saying it first sometimes. The thing is that I don't really want a relationship and I told her that at the beginning of this thing we have going on. We have shared some very personal things and honestly right now I feel like we're in a relationship just without a relationship. I do love her and she is relationship material for me, but I'm not sure we should necessarily be telling each other that because it puts ideas of a relationship in her head and I have no intentions getting into one. I'm not sure if/how I should tell her that I love her and she is relationship material but I don't want a relationship and we should stop saying I love you and remain "friends with benefits". I just don't want this to be a disaster. Help.
Should I go back to my old school?
Ok I've made a real mess of things, and I changed schools (own choice, I wasn't forced to leave or anything). The school where I go now is way easier, and I thought it would be a blast. But thing is: going there is making me realize how much I miss my old school! I'm becoming more and more unhappy with the day. I used to feel so much better at my old school (well you might ask: then why did you leave? it's just a long story, things got complicated, and I left.) And now, every day I have to control myself, so I won't go running back, begging them to take me back. What sould I do? I've only been in my new school for a month, but the way I feel.. it shouldn't be this difficult. I really want to go over to my old one to ask them if it's still possible to come back, but I'm afraid they'll laugh at me or something. Or should I just deal with it, and stay where I am? What would you do?
How do I tell my friend that she is conceited ?
Okay , I don't know if anyone remembers but a few months ago I was having troubles with my two Best friends well, we recently got back together. But there's a problem , My friend L , who used to weigh over 200lbs has lost over 60lbs and is being very conceited about it. First of all, My other friends think she might be sick or whateva, only because she lost it so fast, and didn't exercise. She picks with my other overweight friends including her 20 year old sister who used to be thin but gained about 3 years ago. She says things like: I hope I Don't Become Conceited So and So Looks like They gettin Bigger She Gets Mad if You don't give her a good Compliment Always in The Mirror Came to my other friends house at 11:30 at night just 4 sunglasses Told Me that She was only going to our other Best Friend's dad's funeral just so folks could see how she looks Cuts people off when they try to talk about how they are Puts People down Is Very Sassy with People What Should I do ?
Dont you wish you could go back in time?
I was looking through my elementary school year book and remembering everything made me really sad :(. I miss my old friends. We used to talk all the time but now we dont even look at each other :(. I just wish i could go back for a day just to remember old times. And now the school year is almost over and im not going to be with all my friends again Dont you ever wish you could keep things the same or go back and relive the happy moments?
My friends wanna go see the haunting of connetequit?
Well, don't like, confront them, no matter what other people will say. When you go to that movie, bring you ipod and turn it on loud, and text throughout the movie. put your hair down so they dont c the headphones. And if that sounds totally ridiculous, warn them "guys im scared to death to c this movie so if i run out in the middle of the movie someone come find me." and when they laugh say like im not kidding and if ur like me, u will