Do i have to offer a ring to my fiance to get married?
I dont believe that companies should dictate how i show my love for my fiance. Before 1930s, nobody gave their fiances rings. They advertised to us and made us believe that was the only way to show our love. I personally think she woulf prefer 2000 on a honeymoon than 200o on a ring.
Can we still get approved for an apartment if my fiancé checks it out but not me?
He got a showing for sunday but i work and he doesnt. Not sure i can call out again. I just have to apply hours but i dont wanna go down to 0 hours. Is it possible to get approved if i dont go? Or should i just use my hours. I feel bad my job gave voluntary time off and i used it but didnt work i just recently won a tv at my job i really do not want to call out but i want to see the apartment too :/
I can't go to prom with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend is one year older than me and is a junior and I'm a sophomore in high school.This week Prom tickets are on sale for juniors and seniors only.My boyfriend can go to Prom,but I can't go because no freshmen or sophomores are allowed at the dance. I don't want my boyfriend to lose his first Prom experience,so I told him he could go with a group of friends or with one of our friends (a girl) who is in his grade.He refuses to go without me and instead wants to take me to Six Flag and spend time together.I'm fine with doing this because we've been dating for nearly seven months and I love him,but I can't help but feel bad that he won't be able to go to prom because of me.He told me that he doesn't care if he misses this year's junior prom because next year he can go to my prom with me or I can go to his prom with him. If you were in my position what would you do?Would you make your boyfriend go to Prom without you or would you not care that he doesn't get to go because of you?
Should i go to my girlfriend's grandma's funeral?
My now husband and I were engaged, my grandmother died on Valentine's Day a few years ago, my now husband and I had a huge fight about 2 weeks before and parted ways to cool off then we talked the day before my grandmother passed and he agreed to move back in on Valentine's day, out of respect for me, he drove me to the funeral, called in late to work, stayed through the service all because he knew I could not do it alone.. Out of respect, go to the funeral and ask your girlfriend what she would like you to wear, I am very sorry for your girlfriend's loss, be there for her and be supportive, let her talk and get things off her chest, in time she will be alright but, give her time to be sad. People deal with death differently, I myself do not deal with it well.
My girlfriend wants me to go to church. I am agnostic and I would not like to go. What should I do?
"My girlfriend wants me to go to church. I am agnostic and I would not like to go. What should I do?"Spectator.How I handled it:My fiancee was a Christian, I'm not. Then my mother in law asked me why I wouldn't join her daughter Sundays at church, telling me her husband did so (inadvertently letting it slip that her husband merely accompanied her to church in order to placate her? I don't think his Sundays are spent at church anymore since her passing.) My mother in law was a dear virtuous woman and I didn't want to offend her, so I asked her why she thought people went to church on Sundays."To worship God," she answered. I nodded, "But I don't worship God. I don't mind if others do, but I'm not a believer. So, if I would go to a church service and would just go through the motions to please our daughter, I'd be a hypocrite. And if God exists, he dislikes hypocrites. And if I didn't go through the motions and just sat in the pew waiting out the service, I'd be a spectator at a partipation event. A church service requires a congregation, not an audience. I'd be highly uncomfortable sticking out like a sore thumb. I doubt if your daughter wants me to be pretend to be something I'm not."She accepted my explanation, as I showed her that even though I wasn't a Christian, I was still a concientious man, not wanting to offend her God with mimicry, even though I didn't believe in God.Or maybe she was just impressed with my silver tongue.
Do guys go to bridal shows ?
Don't make him go. If he wants to then by all means take him but it is my experience that you will have a better time with girlfriends. I am a professional wedding photographer and participate in several shows a year. One is the Houston Bridal Extravaganza. A huge show with 6000 brides in two days. There are men, fiances and fathers who attend but it's not something most seem to enjoy after the first hour. Some guys are really hands on with the wedding plans and if that is your guy then he may enjoy it. It he is the type that is going to be ready to leave in a hour, leave him at home. You go have fun with your cousin or gather together your mom and bride's maids and have a day of it. Send him fishing.
Should I let my girlfriend go to the gym?
dude! are you crazy!!??you just said you are thinking of letting your BEAUTIFUL girlfriend go to gym! Do you even know what that means?There will so many guys there! Just imagine what you would do if you go to gym and you see a beautiful girl there! Further, I have heard that gyms these days are not just gyms, they are like real life dating addas! And ofcourse guys working out is such a turn on for girls that what ever their relationship status is, they will forget everything and ask a guy out (remember real life dating) Just like that advertisement of “Axe deo”. And yes, after workout many guys still use that deo!You know the best way to deal with this problem is that keep your girlfriend restricted in her or your house! And once you are married, then also, while going to office, close her in one room with no windows and take away her mobile phone and then go to office! Else, what if she secretly goes out after you leave for office and worse…what if she chats with some guy on whatsapp! I tell you, that is the worst!And tell me one thing, where did this question of going to gym come from? I am sure she is the one who asked for it. Doesn’t she know that once she became your girlfriend she became your property and she had no right to think for herself! Still you are so kind that you gave this question a thought! There are very few people left in the world who are so generous and caring!But she should still be punished for even thinking of going to gym! Why did she think of it? I am sure she wants to look at other guys and even looked upon by other guys and this is not at all acceptable! You need to put your foot down man. Just tell her to get lost from your life! I am sure she will learn her lesson!And ofcourse you will be doing her a favor! Grow Up man!