Would guys buy sanitary pads for their girlfriend if she asked?
I have very painful periods. Almost all my body parts right from legs and back to my head and belly, pain like hell. I cry and cry a lot because of that unbearable pain.It had been 10 months since we were dating, his parents were out of town for 3 days so we decided that I will stay at his place. We were watching a movie in the evening and suddenly I felt something. Yes, I started bleeding. I got up and went to the washroom. He was standing outside and asking again and again if I'm okay. I came out and told him that I got my periods and that I need sanitary pads now. “Give me 5 minutes, I will go and buy them for you. Just tell me which one do you use.” he said while changing clothes in hurry.“Whisper”, I replied.“Okay you take rest, I will be back in 5 minutes”,he said kissing my forehead.I was sitting in the floor waiting for him. Pain was growing and I couldn't handle it anymore. I laid on the floor holding my tummy with tears in my eyes.He came with the pads and picked me up ,wiped my tears and took me to the washroom . “Don't lock the door" he said.I nodded.I came out after 5 minutes and I saw him standing there with a hot water bag in his hand. He came to me held my hand and said, “I know it's hurting you badly. Just lay down and let me comfort you.”I was lying on the bed and he was sitting beside me. He gave that hot water bag to me and told me to keep it under my back and was rubbing his hand over my stomach so that I don't feel much pain. The pain started decreasing after sometime.“How do you know about all this?”I asked.“About what?” he replied.“This hot water bag and all", I replied.“Oh that! I read about it. Remember once you told me that have really painful menses . That day I searched on the net about home remedies to cure the pain. This was one of them.”I hugged him saying I love you.Would guys buy sanitary pads for their girlfriends if she asked?Not only they buy pads for their girl, they make sure about her comfort as well.My boyfriend not only buys pads for me but also he remembers my date better than me and he make sure that he stay around me when I am on my periods.
Ran away from gf because I got her pregnant, how can I fix this disaster?
I dont know what to do. I ran away 5 months ago after my gf told me she was pregnant. I gathered all the money I had and bought an airplane ticket, and left the state. A few days after she became suspicious and started asking EVERYONE I know if they had seen me. Word eventually got out that I went missing and EVERYONE I knew started blowing up my Facebook. My mom is EXTREMELY angry at me, and ive turned my friends against friends. Some friends are saying "I did what I had to do" or even praise me for it, others are saying "im a sh*tty boyfriend" or "im not a real man" and its making them fight between each other. My gfs family is mad, and I MEAN MAD the most. Her dad even hired a private investigator to track me down. I dont know what to do, Facebook is the only way I can keep track of what their doing and stay connected but I cant even do anything on it, because if I do they'll know im just ignoring the messages rather than just completely forgetting about the account. But the worst is my gfs messages she leaves me, the other night I read a messaging where she asked me "why did you do it? dont you love me? I cry everynight because we used to be perfect together, why are you doing this to me? please whatever it is we can make it work, our baby needs a good father and I think you can be that man" and I couldnt even finish because I was crying too hysterically. Im barely surviving out here, and miss my gf because I love her but I just cant be a dad. I cry about this at night, but know I cant go back because everyone will talk bad that I "abandoned her". I cant talk to anyone, even my best friend is ignoring me because she said "if you're not going to give your gf help and support, why should I?" as mad as she is she thankfully hasnt ratted me out (that I know of). What do I do? Im scared and feel like im trapped. If I go back theres gonna be hell to pay, but here im barely surviving and im not sure if I can make it much longer. Will somone just please help me? Any advice? Were both 16 so I just felt I couldnt do it, any of it. Im sorry if whoever reads this now hates me, I just need a helping hand.
My gf and I ran into my ex?
Me and my gf were walking then we ran into my ex. My gf told me that she saw my ex was walking slowly then when she saw us she began to "walk faster". I then saw her and asked her how she was doing and she said fine and she asked me back how I was doing and I said fine also, Then I asked her where she's going and she said she's going home. And walked away. What do you think was on my ex's mind ?
My ex-girlfriend said that she wants me to leave her alone. What do I do?
She is your **EX** for a reason, isn´t it?It does not matter why you ended your relationship, she is not part of your life now. I know you must feel sad and you want to keep her close because ( I am pretty sure you do) you still love her. But she does not love you anymore. It is cruel and hard to say, but it is the truth.The best thing you can do is what she is asking for. Leave her alone. Do not keep yourself crying for her and begging to accept you back, because this only upset her and diminish your value in her eyes.Think like this: Did you do all you can for take her back? YES.Then say good bye. It hurts, I know, but you also deserve to be fully loved.If some months later you still miss her, then you maybe could have another chance, but not now. Give her space and see what happens, the hope dies last.
I ran over my girlfriend's dog?
don't know what came over me, I recently moved in with her and the dog was really bugging the hell out of me. It would jump on the bed, she'd ask me to take it for walks, it would jump on the sofa when we were getting intimate, it would bark all night and I couldn't sleep - so I just ran the poor ***** over the other day and left it in the street, my girlfriend is pretty devestated, but I feel bad now, even though I think she's better off without it and has more time for me. She doesn't know it was me, but its felt good comforting her. What should I do? I know she won't want another dog, which is good for me, but should I get her a more managable pet to make her feel better?
My dad raped my girlfriend?
Saturday my girlfriend came over to my house. after like an hour my dad called me into the other Room, and Told me to run to the store. He said that my girlfriend had to stay there. i told my girlfriend and she said okay. So, i left, but when i got back she was gone. I asked my dad where she went and he said she went home. the rest of that day and yesterday i called and texted her, but she never answered me. this morning i got up, and went over to her house. i walked in and she was on her bed crying. I walked over to her and asked her whats wrong and why she left Saturday. She looked at me and said you wouldn't believe me if i told you. i told her i would no matter what it was and that i love her alot and don't want to see her like this. she said okay and told me what my dad done to her. she said that my dad came into my room and forced himself on her and raped her. I talked her into reporting it. what should i do i believe my girlfriend because my dad used to hit and abuse me. my girlfriend still is upset and crying all the time and she thinks its all her fault, what can i do for her?
Why is my gf best friend don like here talking 2 me??
i met my gf june 18 we was talking on phone but around 3am her min ran out. so not knoing her or anything about her i ran 2 the store that morning n got her a reboost card i did not kno her pin so i call boost to add the min. she wake up n hear phone ring seen my name n say wait how can this be so she call my number n then we talk seen that fatefull day i buy her min. n i sent her money by wester unoin. and her friend saying he no gd 4 you whyy do her friend at like that
How do I overcome trust issues with my girlfriend if she constantly lies?
Most people lie from time to time for a variety of reasons—to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, to avoid conflict, to cover one’s mistakes, and so on (see advantages of lying).For most people, however, their natural response is to tell the truth, especially in a close relationship. If your girlfriend’s typical response is to lie, you may want to consider the possibility that she has a problem with compulsive lying (see compulsive lying).As for your questions, you’ve probably only discovered a small fraction of the lies you’ve been told. As a general rule, most lies never get detected. For a variety of reasons, liars have the advantage when it comes to concealing the truth in a close relationship (see love is blind).But, just because your girlfriend has been lying to you, does not necessarily mean that she has been unfaithful to you. While infidelity causes people to lie, lying doesn’t necessarily indicate that a person has been cheating. With that said, chronic lying in a relationship DOES indicate a willingness by your girlfriend to put her needs ahead of yours. Overall, it is probably in your best interest to gather more information before you make any decisions about your girlfriend’s fidelity (see catch a cheating partner).Finally, trust is very difficult to rebuild, especially when an issue keeps reemerging. Making matters more complicated, trust is almost impossible to rebuild until you are confident that you’ve been told the truth (see surviving infidelity).Confronting the problem and talking to your girlfriend are probably not going to solve the problem (see confronting a partner). Most likely, she will make promises to change her behavior. Such promises, as you have discovered, rarely result in a change in behavior. Changing one’s behavior requires understanding the reasons underlying one’s actions and taking steps to address those underlying motivations. This, of course, is always easier said than done.And if you haven’t done so already, it might help to read the section on rebuilding trust.Wish you the best of luck.
My gf ran into her ex bf the other day and said he was looking damn good.. How should i take the comment?
My gf told me a couple days ago when we were hanging out that earlier in the day she ran into her ex bf she dated for a few months before we meet in front of a local liquor store. She then started to tell me he was looking pretty damn good! When my gf told me that she could instantly tell i wasn't too happy with the comment, so in return she said that both me and her ex look somewhat a like and that i'm just as equally as good looking & also that she loves me... plus i'm not a jerk like he was to her and treat her like a queen! Now normally i wouldn't be too upset with that comment but she has been talking a lot lately about how she runs into guys that are so gorgeous or will make a big deal if she sees a hot guy in a film or on tv and will dwell on it for a bit even tho she knows that it bothers me to a certain point as we have had this talk a few days ago about the very subject! Should i be concerned in the least bit? Our relationship is really starting to develop & get serious (we spend a lot of our free time together, she is honest and tells me everything plus she just meet my parents and i'm starting to slowly meet her family as well!) Plus she tells me that her feelings are growing stronger for me everyday and that she loves me plus that we have a great friendship! I'm real crazy about this woman for many reasons.... i love her to death and would do anything for her and hope she could be the one but i'm just a little concerned that maybe she might be having slight doubts about things or feeling like she is missing out on certain aspects of being single since we have been together! Before we started dating she told me that she was always out partying and having a good time with her friends almost every night that she didn't have her daughter. She also said she wasn't always an angel before we meet and would occasionally hook up with guys she meet or knew from the bar she would hang out at or guys she meet thru other friends.. What is your thoughts? I'm i just being too paranoid??