Should I Just Move On

Should i just move on from now on?

I sent a girl this : Hey im sorry if i being clingy rn . I really like you and i know we only go to the friend level , if you doesnt wanna be friends with me anymore . Im not gonna pressure you but hope you happy


But she reply she doesnt wanna be my friends , should i ask why or just move on? I message her but she rarely reply like always

Should I just give up and move on?

I wouldn't say move on, but don't make her your priority. If you reply immediately to every message like a whiny little pup she will not respect you because she knows you are watching your phone 24/7 waiting for her.
You need to make yourself unavailable. Don't reply for a day when she texts you next. Just leave it 24 hour minimum and see what happens. If she is into you, she will become more attentive the less you contact her. She does it to you and you're going crazy right? Familiarity breeds contempt so be hard to get. If you lose her, no great loss.
BTW when you ask her for a date, be specific. She needs to be able to visualise the event in her mind. Tell her the activity, location, day and time. eg. coffee at Starbucks tomorrow at 8pm? If she can't make it, she can at least counter offer - 9pm is better.. but something vague like lets have dinner some time.. yeah sure. If you feel ballsy, if she asks you to do something for her, just say you can't because you're doing something trivial - taking the dog for a walk. i.e. you're saying the dog is more important than her. Women hate not being your priority so don't be shy about blowing her off from time to time, she'll hate it, but it'll increase her interest in you.

Should I just move on ?

I stopped talking to my boyfriend for about a week and a half b/c I feel like he has no consideration for my feelings, he is always too busy for me and I don't feel like I am a priority in his life.We have been together for 3 years and when I try to talk about this to him and tell him it doesn't make me feel loved he says I am crazy and he doesn't want to listen to it.I feel like relationships require work and he thinks they don't they should just be good and chilled out. When I talk about moving out he always has an excuse, he likes it just the way it is and wants to continue to live cheaply with his sister, my child will upset his sleep,I complain to much and he can't live with that. The only thing I complain about is his selfishness and lack of consideration.
So after that week he kept calling wanting to see me so we went out for drinks and he told me he would pay for my drinks and pay for a cab.He didn't pay for one drink for me but bought everyone in the bar one.

Should i just move on?

Personally, if i answer this a few months ago, it would be completely different. I used to be a shy guy, but now i'm a semi shy guy now.

Well my old mentialtiy was " i like this person, so i'm going to focus on getting this person's attention. ".

But recently, I changed my mentialtiy to "i'm a friendly person so i'm going to talk to everyone just to be friends with them".
I believe by doing this you aren't just focused on just one guy. You can make progress with many different guys, and pick one which you like the best to date one at a time. Some guys may progress more than others, this is certianly better than just waiting for one guy to talk to you and not progressing at all. Basicly, focus on making them your friend first ,before you focus on making them your boy friend.

I wouldn't actually use the term "move on" for this situation. But you shouldn't making him your primary love interest because you've haven't progressed after aleast four weeks (I'm assuming it's still it's still the same shy guy you were talking about 4 weeks ago). Most shy guys aren't going to start talking to girls if you don't create a regular talking pattern with them(i'm still struggling a bit with this).
You should keep trying to talk to him just to be friendly, like "what have you being doing over your holidays?" or "brought anything on christmas week?". Just try to strike up a short conversation if possible, it's actually not that hard(I found that out recently). However, don't put your hopes up that he will start talking regularly with you and start liking you.

Well this is just my two cents.

Should I just move on and forget about her?

I went to pick up my girlfriend for our date. She was not ready so I talked to her mom Ann for a while. Ann told me her computer had a problem and she could not get her email and ask me if I know anything about computers as she was desperate to get her emails. I inspected her computer and it had a virus. I went to my car and got my laptop computer and copied an anti virus program to Ann’s computer and it removed the virus. To say ANN was happy she could now get her email is an understatement. She was overjoyed. She said let me give you a hug to show you how much I appreciate you fixing my computer. She gave me a hug and much to my surprise she also gave me a kiss. WOW. That is a great way to say thank you.

Then the totally unexpected happened. My girlfriend watched her mother kiss me and said “Our date is off. I will never kiss someone my mother has kissed”.

Should I just move on and not try to explain this problem was not my fault.

Please give me some advice on what I should do.

THANKS

Should i just move on w/ my Scorpio ex ?

scorpios have a hard time letting go. they are stubborn. all the people they've loved, they don't forget easily. even when it's over, they still remember. it doesn't mean they remember because they still love, they remember because, sometimes, they just want the control of the situation, and the person. so many of them still hang out with previous exs, or call, or send a text from time to time. because he's possessive, even not being w/ you anymore, he starts to 'come and go', as he pleases, if you give him that access. they have to know about everything and everyone they know. (possessive of you and jealous of others that might be with you now). so a scorpio might have trouble letting go, but once they break up, it's definitive. when a scorpio says he's not sure he loves you, he doesn't. he might care, still, but he doesn't love. in general, scorpios aren't fans of 2nd chances, once they've changed their mind about a relationship or a situation, they never go back entirely. it would take a major "event" or particular situation to justify that. the best advice I can give you, is, even if you love him a lot, and it's hard to do this if you do, but ...: you have to give space. lots of it. don't invite him to come over, don't text first. when you're with him, play cold and distant. indifferent, when he's around u. if he loves you he'll start chasing you again. (if you want that. but be careful, after the chase he might get bored and argue a lot, again. the chase is a thrill, but then..it takes real love to stay.) if you give him green card all the time, and call him and act like you really love him and want him back...he'll play hot and cold until he eventually gets bored and moves on, really fast. But really, a scorpio that says he's not sure, he doesn't love. That's not love honey, move on. You're wasting your time, and heart. It's difficult, I know. But move on.