Should I keep him as a friend?
Depends on how long ago they dated. I have an ex I dated and I'm friends with, but we dated when we were 15 and we're both around 27 now. I have the feeling it was recently. If he's telling the truth about the phone thing then fine, but if they lie about small shit, they'll lie about the big stuff too.The way you described their relationship sounds like there's still attraction between them or they are still having sex and I personally I wouldn't get caught up in that drama, unless I know it's 100% platonic and I get the same amount of attention and effort that they do. Otherwise find someone else. There's millions of awesome single people out there and millions of assholes. Sift through the crap and get to know someone before you start dating them, it'll save you a LOT of heartache and trouble in the long run.
Should I keep a friend who didn't keep her promise?
Your mom keeps you, despite your broken promises . being a Morgan Freeman stop expecting a wife like Angelina jolie
I told a guy that I only want to keep him as a friend because I want to stop leading him on. I cried after that. Do I actually have feelings for him?
It is completely fine dear. As Aimee mentioned in her comment there can be the reason why you cried. But i want to add this also if you cried then there it is showing your care for that guy. Its not love but yes you somewhere deeply attached with him that is why when you declined you felt bad because he hurted. But it is fine you guys are still together.I would suggest you to spend more time and then review your decision. Some times we took decision in a very hurry based on short spam of time which we spent in that particular phase. So a book can be judged from a cover if actually you dont want to read any book but if you are actually looking any book to read ( i mean looking for a partner) then you must check first the one which you have in your hands. Because you choosed it for some reason as you felt comfortble to spend time with him. Feeling come with the passage of time. Give him some time to check his patience how strong he have feeling and see his efforts to get you back. Also see your self how your feelings change when you spend some more time. Dont block it.. Stay a bit free and just let it go. He is the one or not you will give answer to yourself soon.Thanks…
What should i do to keep our friendship together?
so my friend likes this guy, and i think she told me once that she liked him, but i wasn't listening at the time. so when he started to flirt with me, she was making 'ohhhhh!' and 'ahem!' like that, right? and then i'm like 'what?' but the guy is really cute, and i seemed to like him a bit. so i told my best friend, and then she said that she liked him. and then i'm like'you do? then you can have him.' and then she said, 'no, it's okay. you have him.' and then i'm like 'you sure? i don't really like him a lot.' and then she's like 'sure. it's fine.' so then she switched her schedule, and now she's not in the same class with me and him anymore. so i tell her during lunch that when we switched seats, the guy started to fake-cry that me and him weren't next to each other anymore. i'm like 'sorry, but i like my new seat.' then i laughed about it, and then she got all quiet. the next day, she didn't talk to me during lunch. then i tried to make small talk with her, and she didn't talk a lot. i asked if she was mad at me, then she said no, but when i linked arms with her, she shrugged it off and didn't like hug like we always do. then she told my other friend, who told me, told me why she was mad at me. she said my best friend said 'if she doesn't like him, why does she flirt with him?' and then i'm like 'what the f?! i don't like him!' then my other friend said she had to go. i only have one class with my best friend now, and when i said hi to her, she wouldn't even look at me. she ignored me and talked to my another friend. what should i do to keep our friendship together, and tell her that i worship our friendship wayyy more than this guy?
I have caught feelings for my friend. Should tell her or keep it to myself?
I have caught feelings for one of my friends that is married with kids and a baby in the way (she just shared her news with me during the weeken). I would like to add that I do not expect her to leave her husband. We have reunited and become closer for some months now and I felt something between us beyond a friendship. I have noticed a few things. She talked about me to her husband more than anybody else from work, her and her husband doesn’t seem close, the only thing she has shared with me about him is that he’s nice, all of her friends were so curious to know me bc she mentioned me ALOT to her friends and so much more. I wish I had enough room to share it all but I don’t. While being said, I have decided to keep myself distant from her. I’m just wondering if I should tell her how I feel or not.
My friend tore his ACL- how can I keep him occupied?
I had a complete tear of the acl and two tears in my meniscus. They told me I wouldn't be walking for 10 days but I was up in 5 and never took more than advil for the pain. While those 5 days were boring, I used it to catch up on movies I had been wanting to watch and doing some school work. When I used the crutches I cooked a lot, so I'd say have your friend use the time to perfect a hobby. I also had a soccer ball being kicked by my other leg (and the bad one when it was feeling okay), but I was addicted to the game.. sorry about the luck, but it gets better if your friend really does the rehab..
Should I keep on trying to stay friends with him?
If you value him as a friend then it is probably worth the effort - good supportive friends don't come along that often.I have friends I only contact at Christmas - we have a catch up and then go months without contacting each other. I still consider them good friends and would hate to completely lose touch because even though we have separate lives now I know we still care about each other. It doesn't matter that we only speak once a year.You know in your heart that it is him replying in spite of your worries about the media so keep reminding yourself that he is behind the profile and still talking to you.You could try email instead if you really can't trust facebook, or skype, where you can actually see that you are talking directly to him.
Should I drop him as a friend, or keep working for his attention?
I wouldn't keep working for his attention -- it seems you already have it! Guys are funny like that. He doesn't hate you -- by "critiqueing you about your marching," he might just be trying to grab your attention, or even seem helpful. You definitely caught his eye if he's talking to you and stuff. Don't stress about it. If you seem crazy about it, it'll scare him away. Just try starting a simple conversation with him. Do you have a class together? Is there a big school funciton coming up, like a pep rally? Just get the conversation flowing and he'll start talking too. Good luck! rentFREAK
What does "Do good to your friends to keep them, to your enemies to win them" mean?
It means if you are good to your friends, they'll stick around. If you're not good, they'll leave you. In the case of enemies, it means that striking back at them will definitely keep them as enemies. On the other hand, if you are nothing but kind (but not a push-over), you'll likely have someone who at worst, can't be bothered to be your enemy, and at best, may become a friend.