Should I stop all contacts with my ex'es?
I'm not a real fan of people staying in touch with their ex's once they're serious with someone else. It never seems to end well, but it sounds like you two have a few more issues than that. (It's great that your ex gets along that well with your family, but if you ever remarry, that's going to have to stop. It's totally inappropriate. I have an ex whose family I am crazy about, but I have definately stepped back to show my respect for his wife. It's her place to be in that family now, not mine). The fact that he is also keeping things from you makes me wonder how committed both of you are to this relationship. It sounds really odd to me that he won't even tell you who he's talking to. It doesn't sound like there is a lot of trust there. I definately agree that it should be equal, but I think it's a little odd that you are having this problem after being together so long. Maybe you guys need to talk about trust and respect. It sounds like you may not have exactly the same expectations.
Do you still keep in contact with your ex after a mutual break up and why?
I do. Not on purpose. It’s just worked out that way. We call ot text from time to time. I have no problem remaining friendly with an ex if the breakup was handled in a mature way. I’d have no reason not to be friendly.I enjoyed their company and the time we spent together. For whatever reason it just didn’t work romantically. I still enjoy their friendship. I still enjoy their personalities. Usually funny, intelligent. Kind.We reach out over the holidays, birthdays. Text or talk from time to time. I’ve run into a couple people while out running errands.I’m still in touch with a guy I dated 16 years ago. We had a logistics challenge. Our relationship didn’t work but we are still friends.
Why would my ex boyfriend still try to keep in contact?
To tell the truth, he sounds kind of like a self centered douche bag. He ended it with you, but still has feelings for you so you should stay friends and maybe he'll ask you out later some time. What kind of crap is that? And then he's casually contacting you as if nothing is out of the ordinary a day later. And again, what kind of crap is that? I was a complete male schlutt when I was young, and even I never did crap like that. If me and a girl had broken up, even if she dumped me for some other guy (which happened to me a lot), I'd give her a bit of time before trying to get a casual friendship going again. I can see trying to remain friends, but good god... you can't just act as if nothing happened. He is either trying to absolve himself of guilt, trying to get back with you but not admitting it, or he's trying to keep you on a string just in case he can't find a new girl right away. But no matter why he's doing this, he's not doing it for you. What you should do is entirely your business. But he's not doing this just to be nice.
Why does my ex-boyfriend still keep me in his contacts list? And he even viewed my WhatsApp picture and status as well. I don't get it. Why?
Hello, and he might still like you (depending how recently y'all broke up). My ex sent me a message and a screenshot where he still had my picture and my old phone number on his contacts list. It was creepy. But just Block him. That would be my suggestion. He'll understand that you don't want anything to do with him and he'll move on. But if you still have feelings for him try not to think much about him. Block him for good. And move on. I know, it takes time to get over someone whom meant a lot to you. But things happen for a reason. And he might still look at your status on WhatsApp because he wants to know if you're going to post something referring to him. Like a sad post, implying that you miss someone (meaning him). He's probably just looking to see if you give him hints that you still miss him. (That's from my point of view) but as long as you don't pay any attention to him he'll move on. I wish you all the good luck and remember “leave the past in the past”Sincerely, Estella
As a teacher, do you still keep in contact with your ex students?
Well I am not a teacher as you can see. But I have alot of teachers that are more than willing to keep in contact with me. I believe that by keeping in contact with a teacher can be quite useful. You can ask for help when times are tough or have someone to give advice. That doesnt mean that their your buddy that you would go have a drink with them. It's important to know that he or she respects you and will offer their help when you need it.
Do you still keep in touch with your ex?
i broke up with my bf of 5yrs. he cheated on me because he was unhappy with me. I know this sounds silly, but i wasn't there when he was struggling. i feel bad about it, and i'm not mad at him anymore. but we argued a lot and hurt each other sooo bad. he changed his cell number, and i don't have his contact info anymore. i sent a message through myspace, but i guess he hasnt logged in yet. I still love him, but i don't think he wanna get back with me. I still miss him and wanna hang out as friends.. dont know what to do though...
Can I still keep in touch with her?
Omar, how do you propose to a female after two months? It happens mind you, but it’s a mistake. You’re proposing to someone you don’t know.She said she has a boyfriend, but you didn’t believe her. Not believing her, is your choice. You thinking that you observe something in her body language, especially her eyes, and that she’s hiding something, is also, your thinking - how you perceive her.It’s not uncommon for human beings, depending on - where we are in our mental and emotional growth, to perceive things based on subjective thinking versus objective thinking. You’re drawing conclusions about her based on your perceptions. Doing so, doesn’t make them true or accurate.Bottom line: unless she lets you know via her own mouth that she want’s to date you or go out with you. It would probably be in your best interest to let it go.Keeping in touch with her would need to be her choice.