Should I stay or leave?
My boyfriend always calls me names but claims that he s just joking around and he always complains when I m on my phone. He s always comparing me to his ex s. He complains if I eat three meals a day cause he only eats one meal a day and thinks I should to. He has major jealousy issues and is always accusing me of texting other guys when I m not talking to other men. I love my boyfriend but honestly he drives me nuts sometimes. He s always putting himself and me down both. He can be really sweet when he wants to be. He can also be very caring and thoughtful also. He complained when I cut my hair and wants me to grow my hair out the length that he wants on me. If he gets up in the morning I have to get up with him. I'm not allowed to sleep in unless he does
Should I stay or leave?
Get the heck out of Dodge. Staying will further hindering your personal career. What are you learning really "how NOT to run a business?" That is a marketible skill to other businesses.I've started my opinion numerous times on this forum about startups fresh out of college. With the failure rate why make your personal career the next TITANIC. Get some valuable experience. Something others want.Now note that I am not saying do not try a startup just wait until you haf 5-10 years of experience you'll be amazed at what you don't know.
What should I do? Stay or leave?
Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, self-driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Make relationship with people who are proud to see you grow, who inspire you, who love and respect you.These people will make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to truly live life :)
Should I leave or stay with my job?
It totally depends on your interest in ur current profile. If u are not inter sted in ur profile n want to change it, there are few points that u should consider.whether u have enough finances to sustain without a job.Whether someone is dependent on u .Whether u have enough patience to work hard till u get ur desired profile.Whether u have made up ur mind not to distract from anything that can stop u from working hard.If u have everthing mentioned above U should go ahead n quit d current job.but if u have dependency on any one of the above points then u should not leave the current job. U need to work hard post ur working hours.U can try not to pay much attention towards ur current work but make sure u r nt ignoring everything . U have to work a lil harder which u might not have done for years. But just remember “why u r doing that”.It might be difficult in starting but you will easy cop up in few days. Take care of ur health olso.Best of luck
Should I leave him or stay with him?
Since you have not met each other for six large years and still in contact and talk daily, this implies there is something that keeps you guys together . Maybe he don’t breakup because he don’t want to hurt you . There may be many reasons for being together , but , is it love ?You know , the soul is meant to wander for a period of time .To explore new things and ideas . To understand this world. In search of purpose of existence of self. In search of success. This period of time is called ‘Jawani’. And love is something that needs a lot of experience and years together to understand it’s Existence. Neither you Know wether you love him or not , nor he does .(I remember a movie of Akshay Kumar in which He had many extra marital affairs and then his wife commits suicide after he realised, he loved only her .)He(your partner) is exploring life and his interests . Let him .I’ll like to tell you that there is nothing like an ideal relationship . You will never find the type of person you are looking for . And believe me the biggest mistake is to believe that you can change a person with your love . He will be what he is forever .The most important thing in life is to be Happy .Whatever there is in the Universe, is a part of life and Life is all about being happy .Many times in relationships people come across this question . And the problem is there is no definition of love or life or time . they are just as they are. you can only feel these things .From your side , give him the unconditional love . Just do it like what you do when you see a flower in the garden and love it . You water it and not pluck it .Give him time to miss you . Let him realize that you are a part of his life . And when he comes, shower the unconditional love on him .“show him, you are happy with him the way he is and soon he will be the way you want him to be . “May be that will make you happy. Or break up .Rest is your choice .Thanks for reading.
Should I stay or leave my office job?
I dealt with the same issue a couple months back. I was over-qualified, under-paid, and had no meaning in what I was doing. I came across these 5 questions from Jonathan Fields and they helped my situation a ton.If I believed with every fiber of my being this was the work I had to do until the job was done, that there was no way out, no bigger, no better deal, what might I do to make it as good as it could possibly get?What relationships might I work harder to build, mend, deepen, or expand that would allow me to experience this work with more ease, grace, confidence, strength, meaning, purpose, lightness or joy?What specific tasks and responsibilities would I give up, hand off, or do differently that would make a real difference in the way I experience this work? What new tasks and responsibilities might I take on?Is there a bigger purpose or community or person (or Divine source, however you might describe it) I am deeply connected to that the work I am doing is serving?How might I build my non-work life around what I do in a way that lets me frame it as a source of greater meaning, joy, connection, and engagement or something that gives me freedom to do other things that provide those feelings?If you hate what you are doing, quit. Life is too short to stay a single hour longer at a job that does not fill you up or give you valuable, transferable skills.I would advise that you go deeper into the part-time piano job.How can you scale that?Can you add a couple more clients and reach you target monthly income?If you created an online platform teaching piano directly to your clientele, would they buy it? If so, you have a great start to a flourishing business.I think a main reason we stay in shit jobs longer than we should is because we fear the lack of status we would have if we could no longer answer the question, “what do you do?” But step into that feeling. Choose yourself. And you will always be able to find another job with you background.-Ben
Should I stay as a friend or just leave?
I had a crush in college. I met him freshman year through other friends, felt a connection, and looked him up. We became friends, and then I really liked him, and I told him, but he saw me more as a little sister, someone he saw reflections of himself in. After giving me a month to deal with that, he got back in touch with me, and we were again friends. After he graduated (he was 2 years my senior in school, but stayed a fifth year), he contacted me over the summer, because his job was in my hometown, so we hung out off and on for awhile. After I started back for senior year, and I hadn't heard from him in some time, he suddenly appeared at my doorstep. I guess he figured out where I was living. We talked on the phone sometimes after that, but I started falling for him and ended up feeling like I was headed for a sad cycle so I said goodbye and we haven't talked since. I tried to find him on multiple occasions, even years later after I was attached and married happily because I regretted giving up on a friend that repeatedly came to find me. A few years ago, I found him on Facebook and left a message, but there has been no reply. I also snooped online and finally found he is happily attached. To a guy. Just checked recently and he looks still happy and in the same stable relationship. So. I really regret throwing his friendship away, and I think he maybe held a grudge and then was just over it, but I'm glad he seems happy. It's just that at the time, falling for him over and over when there was no chance was really painful, and I made the decision to let him go, that it was too hard. I was young.
Should I leave my boyfriend or stay with him ?
We’ve been together for 3 years now we have twins and another baby on the way and we’re living with his mom and he’s 21 and I’m 18 about to be 19 this month btw & my mom says she’s not sure that he wants to work but I see him apply for jobs so I think he does. Whenever he has money he always makes sure our babies and i are taken care of and he takes care of me when I’m in pain like brings me food and massages my back but yesterday when we were arguing he threw all that back in my face by saying “why you acting like this when I’m the only one who takes care of yo assss and massages you and etc” to me that seems like that was but he said it wasn’t so i just left it alone cause I was in a lot of pain and I didn’t want to argue anymore and I just feel like if he really genuinely wanted to help me he wouldn’t throw it back in my face or not help me when he’s angry but I don’t tell him stuff like that because it’s just a argument I’m going to loose and it’s just not worth my energy. I need advice please