I like a girl but she only likes me as a friend.?
Girls sometimes dont tell their friends their crushes because they dont want evvvveryone to know and sometimes girls can have guy friends that they like more but fear if they say anything it will ruin the relationship become closer friends with this girl and see if she sends you any signals that she likes you more than a friend! hope this heellllpssssssssssssss
I like a girl, and she likes me, but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
You be a gentleman, and just be friends. It is entirely up to her. Think about the future...if she and he break up, and you have been a good friend, she will turn to you. But if you've pressured her, or disappeared, even if they break up, she will move on to someone besides you.You be a rock, her supportive friend. If it is meant to be, you'll be ready when it is time.Edit: after reading your details, I'd say that you should not assume the people talking about her boyfriend were correct. I assumed you knew she had a boyfriend because she told you. Without her telling you, you can ask her out. If then she says no, and says it is because she has a boyfriend, I stand by the first part of what I wrote. If she says yes, that is her decision.If you're not certain, you could always ask her if she has a boyfriend before you ask her out, if you want to be more careful. But assume that what other people say is gossip, and don't assume it is accurate unless you verify.
She flirts with me but says she only likes me as a friend. What should I do?
Step away from the situation and the girl for a bit. I won't say stop being friends, but you need time away from her. She flirts with you, because she likes the attention and feels attractive when she knows guys are into her. She likes you enough as a friend, but she knows she has you hooked. You aren't dating material, because she doesn't need to work for it to get you interested. Other guys require the effort, and therefore gain her attention and affection.I'm assuming you like this girl. That's why I say you should take time off from her. Either you need to get her to view you as having dating potential, or you need to find someone else. You can't do either of those while playing the part of "friend". If you want to get her attention, don't tell her you need time apart, just start spending less time with her and focus on any other girl than her. If she asks, and only if she asks, say that you're interested in joining the dating game, and having her next to you flirting all the time is scaring away potential dates. Then go out and flirt with other girls.One of two things will happen. You'll either actually become interested in someone else (a good thing), or she'll take notice and step up the level of relationship.Note: there's a chance that you're too deep into the friend zone with this girl to dig yourself back out.For the next girl, be more confident, flirt back, and make a move. Don't let it get comfortable until you start dating.
She wants to be friends, nothing more...?
Think about it this way, is it better to operate under the idea that she might be open to more only to find out that she doesn't, or is it better to believe that she doesn't want more than a friend only to find out that she is more interested in you than you had thought? Show her that you can treat her with care and respect regardless of how she feels about you. If you can't do that then how would you expect to be able to treat her right when she's pissed at you for something you may or may not have done? Don't just tell yourself to believe that she just wants to be friends, accept it. I have been in your shoes so many times, sometimes I couldn't do it, and sometimes I managed and the girl never ended up liking me back. But whatever she may do, it's your actions that say what kind of a man you are. By the way, the last girl that said she wanted to be friends with me has been my girlfriend for a year, and now she is the one who brought up the topic of getting married, guess I'll have to pick out a ring soon.
Does she rele like me?
Just smile and treat her like you usually would. If the two of you speak on a regular basis, she's probably just too shy or nervous to ask you out herself, and hoping that's not going to make her lose a friend or have everything get "weird" between the two of you. If the two of you haven't said more than "hi" to each other, just ask her questions about herself. She could have said she thought you were cute and her friends are trying to get her out of her shell. See if you can walk her to her class after gym and get to know her a little better.
What should I do if I have a major crush on a close friend and I don't want to ruin our friendship?
I know it will be hard for you to believe but I've been through the exact same thing. First thing first, tell him how you feel for him. Now don't mistake this opinion as some love guru funda. It's not. The only thing I want to tell you is that you DON'T WANT TO REGRET YOUR SILENCE few years from now. I liked this girl who also happened to be a very good friend. At first, I kept dodging the feelings, however I soon realized that it was getting tough for me. She was nice to me and I did not want to mistake those gestures with something else. The only thing that kept me from telling her was that we used to hang out in group and I never wanted to be the one who spoiled the atmosphere and making things awkward. So I never shared my feelings with her until we were posted to different locations. I realized I might never be able to see her again and a few days before we were supposed to leave I told her about my feelings for her (I don't want to take the credit for the entire thing, she was the one who was the acting catalyst during the conversation).Now here's the thing!!! She too had feelings for me all the while and in her words " had been dropping hint bombs" at me. It's is the best feeling, believe me, and you'll get to live it only if you tell him. Even if things don't work out(now don't be pessimistic), he will understand and that way you'll never regret not telling him. All the best !!! PS: I'm glad I told her. She is the best thing that's happened to me.