Do you have that one promiscuous friend?
My ex friend was gang raped by 4-5 guys she never told her parents though. I think her getting raped is what caused her to become so promiscuous. She wrote down how many guys she's has sex with (15) and when her mom was on vacay she invited a guy over and they had sex in her moms room. Had sex with my ex (i didn't care) told me about sucking this boys dick behind her house. Her mom never knew and she was strict too. When she found out I watched her give her a whoppin. Stopped talking to her after she was talking **** about me.
My girlfriend used to be promiscuous, what do I do?
If she was promiscuous there is a very good chance (about 70%) she will cheat on you.Especially if she is not saying " I feel so ashamed I will never drink at a party again. But is instead proud of what she did.These girl's suffer from partner addiction they cannot stay with one person.I would get out if I were you.If this is bothering you ( as it should) you will never be okay with it.
How can I get a boyfriend if I have a promiscuous past?
My current boyfriend knows my number is high. He doesn't care. I often forget my number. I had sex with a mutual friend before we started dating. I told him in the interest of transparency. He once again didn't care.The night we first had sex was the first night I admitted my 3 week long crush. I also told him I was planning on auditioning soon to be a stripper. He was supportive and came to watch me audition at an ameteur night. He helped me pick out shoes beforehand, and he shared in my excitement after my first dance, and held me when I cried when I didn't get it.He encouraged me to make the right decision for myself when another place wanted to make the tip out $50 a night because I wanted to work two nights instead of 5 because I had another job. It didn't help that a 10 year gorgeous, and amazingly talented stripper didn't scoff at my $12 an hour, 40 a week salary when she suggested quitting my other job. If it ain't lucrative, you don't get to monopolize my time.He was amazingly understanding when I told him about what went on in lap dances, and encouraged me to share my stories about them, because he didn't want it to feel loike a shameful thing I had to hide.The main way strippers make money is through those lap dances. I really didn't like them, and it was only $20 a song. I am worth a lot more than that. I loved the dancing and stripping part, and he's extremely supportive of me becoming a webcam model.He just asks no porn with other male actors. He hasn't said anything about women, but I'm currently not interested. I will discuss it with him if it does end up piquing my interest. He is completely OK with me basically becoming a solo porn star because I told him it will probably evolve into me masturbating for the camera.He is the most sex positive partner I have ever had. He's not rare, there are lots of men out there like him. And after seeing how amazing it is for him to encourage my sex work, I'm not accepting any less than him if we break up.I'm also writing an erotica. Keep an eye out for my work (on and off the screen) under the name; Heather Violet.
My friend is becoming really promiscuous?
We're juniors in high school by the way. My friend is basically turning into a slut. A few months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend who she had a pretty serious relationship with, it was almost a year. Ever since then, she's been hooking up with random guys that we're friends with and then avoiding them whenever they're nearby. She's also been really desperate for a relationship. She's hooked up with about 6 guys in the past 3 months, we've tried to talk to her but that didn't work, her grandma tried talking to her and that didn't work either, her mom and her dad are rarely in her life. My friends have decided not to try and help her since she's not willing to help herself, but I would feel like a bad friend doing that. Should I let her mess up or should I keep trying to help?
My best friend is too promiscuous...does hanging out with her ruin my good girl image?
Be yourself. If you don't flirt and don't dress provocatively, and politely rebuff the advances of guys that approach you when you're out with her, there should be no problem. It's more likely to reinforce your "not promiscuous" reputation than to give you the opposite. She's living her life as she desires...there's nothing wrong with that, as long as she's doing it because she enjoys sex, and it's not an attempt to fill some emotional void (because that's not the way to go about fixing that). If you don't care to do as she does, then stick by what is right for you. She's not doing anything bad...but neither are you...the two of you are simply different, and that's okay.
How can I move beyond my promiscuous past, to have a healthy sexual life for my future?
Please answer only if you're 25 and up and have REAL life experience. Not just presumptions and side of neck advice. I am 25, soon to be 26. I have a very, very promiscuous past. I can no longer beat myself up over it, yet I find it hard to move into the direction of a more chastened, classy woman. I am so use to being used sexually, that I am dysfunctional when it comes to healthy normal adult relationships. And because of these insecurities/issues, I still attract guys who prey on this vulnerability. I have really changed how I dress, where I socialized, who I socialize with---but I am lacking the confidence to project a self-assured woman who is not easy and wife worthy. I think men can smell my sexual past a mile away sometimes. I always think in the back of my head, that he will somehow find out I was promiscuous or that I look like damaged goods in his eyes. This of course wears on my self-esteem daily. Can you offer me some support other than therapy or counseling. I believe in God. And also---a lot of my sexual past stems from being raped more than once. I have dealt with it, in my own way. But I don't believe in professional counseling. So please, do not make that your advice because it's falling on deaf ears.
What do you think about promiscuous women?
I don't think anything about promiscuous women or women in general. I think things about individual people, such as Alice or Jennifer. "Women" is a group of 3.5 billion people, living in a variety of cultures, with all sorts of customs, personalities, values, and interests. That's too many people for me to hold in my head at once.If I meet two promiscuous women, I may wind up liking one but not the other; or I might like both; or neither.Whatever I wind up feeling about Kate or Amanda or Liz, it probably won't have much to do with how often she has sex. Most of the people I know have sex. Some have it more frequently than others. Just as some of my friends read a few books a year while others read a book a week. Different people have different tastes and interests. Shrug.
I can sometimes be promiscuous and confide in my close friends about these interactions. Time and time again, out of the blue, they'll make rude comments about it, calling me a slut, etc. What should I do?
I suggest three alternatives:Persuade your friends that their comments about your behaviours are unnecessary and judgemental;Stop telling your friends about your promiscuity; orFind less judgemental friends.Your life is your own, and you have the right to choose how to live it. The fact that your close friends disagree with your choices is their problem - not yours. The only time it becomes your problem is if your actions hurt others. This may occur, for example, if you enter into a monogamous relationship and then break your partner’s trust. Otherwise, as long as you are not hurting anyone, then live how you wish to live your life.
How to handle a promiscuous friend, i'm really worried?
One life-lesson we all must eventually learn is that you can't fix other people -- they have to fix themselves. But first, they have to WANT to fix themselves, and that usually doesn't happen until they have some life-changing event. Don't talk to the girl's mother -- you only make her (the mom) mad, and lose your friend. Don't moralize. Your friend knows what she's doing but she thinks she's going to find what she needs in the arms of some guy -- she won't. You should accept the idea that you may not be able to save her from herself. All you can do is live a good life so she has an example to follow, and talk to her as a friend. The rest is up to her.