Friend sent nudes to my boyfriend. How would you react?
I met this girl (A) through my boyfriend (S). She didn't have many friends. They were in the same sport so S befriended her. She started to hang out in our group at lunch, made sure to hug S whenever I was around. In an effort to be her friend, we hung out a lot and she slept over at my house a few times. When she did we would Skype S and she would try to steal his focus and leave me out. This made me dislike her more. Still, I figured she didn't do it on purpose. Finally, when carpooling on the way to S's birthday bash with A and a few more friends, she had to write him a card. She said,"My handwriting is awful. You (me) should write it for me."I agreed(I had no reason to decline)and started copied down what she said-You are so important to me and I love you.Later the other people in the car approached me about how weird it was that she would tell me to write that down for her.I brushed it off.THEN,~6 months after she had been our mutual friend, I was on S's phone looking at derpy pictures of him in his deleted pictures folder when I saw a pic of boobs.I was surprised,but not upset.At a closer look, it was a screenshot of an Instagram Direct Message from A captioned "let me know what you think". He says she sent him the pic bc she is going to send it to her FWB and wants to know if it is good & he screenshotted to show me but decided I would get mad (which I was)He no longer talks to A-per my request. I gave her a chance to explain but she never did. What would you have done
So my ex posted a picture of me on Instagram with a caption good old days. It's been exactly a year since we broke up. Should I talk to him?
Just simply like (double tap) that picture on instagram, or may be leave a smiley on the comment section, if the dude really wants to talk with you, he’ll text you, don’t text him first.
Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't like or comment on any of my Instagram pictures?
Due to the fact that your question has multiple possible ways of interpretation, I will answer both branches.“like and comment on” as pressing a like button and posting a written public comment on Instagram:You should be proud that your relationship does not rely on public interaction and public testimonies which I would consider as a strong relationship. There is absolutely no reason to feel bad about this. I would consider that positive, implying that you have freedom to post und write what you desire to an extent. (e.g. not having to mention him or how much you love him so that he can reply if you do not currently feel like stating this). On the other hand, if he refuses to give any public attention on a regular basis, I would ask is there is a specific reason for him not to do this.“like and comment on” as expressing his valuation and thoughts via spoken word (or even personal messages)I would consider that either a lack of interest for your photos, which can be both, positive and negative but HOLD ON. In a positive world my personal guess would be that he adores and loves you more as the human you are and less as the portrayal the reflecting light produces in your camera. Or in a negative world it would either mean that he does not care about your photos because he does not like photos as such or he does not know / does not have an opinion on your photos.Anyways, I do not know if you mean photos of you or just photos you took. My comment assumes photos of you because that is what is mainly subject to emotional relationships.
What was the last text message you sent to your ex?
It was a year old relationship. I was head on heals for him. We were both in school. We both were preparing for NEET.We took a break for preparing for exams. The distance made me anxious. But I couldnt text him,he would be disturbed.The exams were over.He had promised he would meet me(we never went out together) after NEET I reminded him of his promise he refused. He said he doesnt have time.I said ‘fine tell me when you are free’. After a few days he went out with his friends. I just casually said him ‘I thought you didnt have time. He replies ‘ I cannot lie to my parents to meet you’ .It hurt, it really did.After NEET, came more of his ignorance. He forgot our one year anniversay, didnot text me the entire day at night i texted him . Still no reply. I asked one of his friends to text him and remind him the date. After that he replied “sorry i forgot. Happy anniversary shona”, went offline. Did not even reply to my I love you.I became upset. The next day, out of anger I broke up. He did not even try to stop me. Next day I said him sorry for being angry and he forgave. He were back together.His ignorance increased. I confronted one day whats wrong, why is he ignoring me. He replied “I cannot provide you with the importance you are demanding” That broke my heart. I was still with him I loved him.I started doubting him. I did not trust him. One night.Me: Please I want you to keep distance from girls. Do it for me.He: That would be changing myself. I like talking to everyone. I won’t change myself for you.It ended.I thought it was my fault I did not trust him. He is not with anyone. Well that is what he said me. I wanted to get back with him. He refused. He said he hates me. Blocked me on every social media. My last text to him on his second account, which he doesn't use now. Still I texted him. I begged him to come back.He did not see my message. He did not come online. Somewhere deep within my heart I still feel he still loves me.I still love him. Hope he comes back.
My "best friend" never tells me anything?
So I'm 15 and I've been "best friends" with this girl since I was 10. Last summer, she got back with her ex and didn't tell me until I confronted her about it when another friend brought it up in casual conversation. When I got mad at her for not telling me, she said she thought she had told me, although this one time she said she was "hanging out with someone." But she didn't say who. So I assume it was him. Now I saw she posted a screenshot of text messages with her new boyfriend on Instagram and I had no clue about that, either. I'm getting really sick of her not telling me anything, so I haven't told her anything. I want to stop being friends with her, but she knows too much about me. And she's friends with almost all of my friends. So I don't what to do.
Ex boyfriend is humiliating me!?
ok so my ex and i dated like last year, after we broke up we stayed really close and were beest friends, but then school started. We were fine in school and eventually we found out that we both still had feelings for eachother. So we s.exted a few times and were actually going to have s*x but we never went through with anything. Once we started the while s.exting thing we didnt talk in person after that, but only through texts and facebook. So i guess i developed a huge crush on him all over again, but i didnt want a lot of people to know so my 'friends' decided to make me a nickname for him so that when i talked about him no one would know who we were talking about. So everything was going fine, but then he got a girlfriend and it all stopped. I took it okay but i still liked him an all. We stopped talking completely after ho got a gf and thwn after that all my feiends turned on my for no reason. I guess they told him and his gf i talked s.hit about them when i never actually did! So his gf wrote a very long and rude wallpost on fb to me. And then shortly after that, on my instagram there was this fake profile who began taunting me. I soon found out the account belonged to my ex! he would threaten to kill my little brother, he called me an ugly wh.ore and a sl.ut and said that i was so healous of his gf cause i have nobody an all that stuff. And at firt i could care less, but then it got to the point where a lot of my friends were asking who he was and even some of my family was, because he literally commenting insults on every single one of my pictures. He wont stop eithet and its annoying. I only knew it was him after he commented about the nickname that he somehow foud out about and after he calledme a s.lut and saying how he couldnt believe we ever se.xted. So now im humiliated cause hes telling everyone about it and also in class his gf and he friends dive me crazy! They make fun of me cause i used to cut myself and just a bunch of rude things. HELP ME?! D:
Is it legal to take screenshots of a chat conversation without the other person's explicit consent?
I will assume that the parties have not entered into an agreement to maintain the chat in confidence.I believe that a chat is like email or a Facebook post (rather than a telephone conversation, for which there are laws that restrict recording) - i.e., that there is no expectation of privacy.I blogged about this issue several months ago. Quoting Telling Facebook Friends Means Telling the World:This post explains something that we all should know intuitively. If you disclose information to your Facebook friends, you potentially have disclosed it to the entire world.Matthew Richard Palmieri was a contractor for the United States. He lost his industrial security clearance after the government investigated certain of his activities.Palmieri brought suit (without a lawyer) against various government agencies and officials in the United States District Court for the District of Columbia. The suit identified 30 ways in which the defendants allegedly violated his rights.Alleged Fourth Amendment ViolationFor the purposes of this post, we will focus on Palmieri’s allegation that his Fourth Amendment protection against unreasonable search and seizure was violated because the government accessed his Facebook account.In its opinion (Palmieri v. United States), the court noted the following facts.The government did not hack his Facebook account.The government did not subpoena information from Facebook.Instead, the government obtained information that was voluntarily disclosed by one of Palmieri’s Facebook friends.Telling Facebook Friends = No Expectation of PrivacyThe court then provided the following analysis.Once Palmieri disclosed information to his Facebook friends, they were free to use it as they wished.Accordingly he had no reasonable expectation of privacy concerning that information.Thus he cannot claim a Fourth Amendment violation.The court noted that, similarly, anyone who sends an email (or write a letter) loses any expectation of privacy once the email (or letter) is delivered.
A stranger is threatening to post a naked picture of me online?
You are a prime example of why kids using the Internet unsupervised is a bad idea. Obviously, you weren't thinking or you would have seen through this story. All I can do is shake my head. Well, like you said, what's done is done. If he has any knowledge of computers, he could get your IP address, so he will know your general location...not your exact location. With that, he can pretty much check schools in the area to try to find your school. Since he has a picture of your face, he can search school sites to see if he finds a match, but that's a lot of work to do, so I doubt he will bother. What he can do is post your picture to porn sites. It will be difficult to look you up on these sites without a name, but there's a chance that someone you know may randomly find you, but that's pretty unlikely. If he contacts you again, you can threaten him with going to the police regarding his child porn threats. If you have to go to the police, you would need to tell them how you stupidly fell for the most transparent scam in the world and what he is now threatening to do. I hope you've learned your lesson and won't accept random KiKs again.