I like my best friends sister. What do I do?
I like my best friends twin sister and have no idea what to do. Me and the girl I like became friends this year, and have talked a little bit more since the beginning of the year, but it's still not a lot. We say hi to each other in the hallways ( high school) but other than texting, we don't really talk that much. She is pretty shy around people she isn't friends with, but I don't know how to become close to her without upsetting my best friend. Also, I'm not even sure if she likes me to begin with. I'm pretty sure if I flirted with her for sometime we could go out but how do I get my friend to be okay with it? My friend knows I have hooked up and had sex with random girls at the beach. Because of this I doubt he will trust me with his sister. It's also weird because I am very close with their dad to and he told me to not go for his daughter ( because he heard a lot of girls like me). I don't know if he was joking or if he even remembers but I don't know if I could make this work with the girl I like. And if it doesn't where does that leave me with the rest of this family that I'm close to? would it be a good idea to tell the girl how I feel truthfully and to have a relationship with her secretly?
How should I pursue my interest in my best friend's sister?
This can be a bit dicey. But, it happened to me, so let me tell you what I did. My best friend's sister was about four years younger than I was. We were great friends and I was like an older brother to her. But, it was obvious that there were some mutual attraction. So, I went to her brothers (there were four) and told them that I wanted to ask her out, and would it be OK with them. They were fantastic about it. That thought it would be great. So, I did. We dated for about three months, but it just didn't work out...going from big brother to boy friend sort of felt weird after a while. But, we remain good friends to this day. (She ended up marrying one of my best friends.) Because of you relationship with the rest of the family, you have to play this one a little different. And, by the way, you'd best respect this young woman and treat her like a queen. Otherwise, your best friend may "take you out", if you know what I mean. Good luck.
So I like my best friends sister?
Please ignore "Scumbucket's" idiotic drivel. So far every answer I've seen out of that moron is useless. Furries and the furry fandom/community are an amazing group of people. Since there is the possibility you dating your best friend's sister could make things awkward with your friend, especially if you start spending more time with the sister and get emotionally closer with her, the best thing you could do is to talk to your best friend about your feelings for her sister. Tell her you find her attractive, you have a lot in common, and that knowing she's bisexual you believe things could work out for you two, BUT also you have great concern about causing harm to the friendship you have with her (your best friend). Listen to her response and learn what her feelings are about the idea of you dating her sister and becoming romantically and, eventually, intimately involved with her. Hopefully she'll be fully supporting of you two dating and understand that it has no bearing on your friendship with her, and will be happy for you two if you find great happiness together in love. But if she reacts very negatively about the idea, perhaps it would be best if you maintain only a platonic friendship with her sister and share little more than your mutual furry interests.
This is not a happy time. However, I have had to change friends several times in my life as I changed. As I became a better person I did not fit in with my old friends. I found new ones and new interests as painting, writing, etc. I lost my life long friend from high school recently. It was sad because we had 50 years of history. However, we have different values today and she pulled out. Some people are here for a day, a season, or longer, but they always change at the right times.
Sister friends with my bff's siter?
sexual repression and prudishness are wrong because they can only cause more harm than good. if anything, there needs to be more foreplay and sex between guys and women in this world, not less of it. women are supposed to need foreplay and sex with guys just as much, immediately, frequently, urgently, intensely, and casually as vice versa. women are supposed to sexually prefer guys over women since vice versa is the case. also, heterosexual foreplay and sex between men and women IS a need. the reason there's so much unhappiness and so many problems in this world is because of a LACK of heterosexual foreplay and sex between guys and women.
How do I deal with my ex best friend and sister being friends?
The problem came up yesterday. I found out my exbestfriend and my sister are on a trip together in Asia! My other sister had to tell me. My ex best friend knows that I and the sister don't talk and how we don't associate ourselves with each other( she's just very evil in so many ways). I've been cool with both of them (as in hi and bye) and they are suddenly so close. She knows how I feel about my sister and my sister knows how the girl hurt me. It was a surprise because I didn't think either of them would want to be friends. I get the plotting on my downfall vibe from them LOL. How should I handle this? I see the girl on campus every blue moon on campus. My sister and I don't have to talk. I know they both love getting a reaction out of me and I won't do it anymore! I'm hurt by this even though I have no relationship with them. Am I wrong for feeling this way? sorry for the rant
My best Friend wants to date my twin sister?
My best friend who i see every day of my life (at least 2 hours at swim practice-than hanging out after) has recently taken interest in my twin sister ( im a boy, boy-girl twin) were all sixteen and it seems our relationship is starting to evaporate the more my sister intervenes. We used to hang out and have fun a lot, but recently hes been inviting himself over just to see my sister, and i don't want my sister to be with us! He treats girls more as trophies and i dont want my sister who hasnt had much dating experience to be seduced and get involved by him. He even snuck outside our house and tried to invite her somewhere without even telling me! I don't want them to date because it would intervene with our unique (fun and go with the flow) relationship---he jokes everytime he invites himself over "I only wanted to hang with you" as he raids my sisters room. Hes now texting my sister instead of me =( What im thinking about doing is stealing my sisters phone, cutting off communication, or telling him to back off
Why should you. She is your crush not your girlfriend. To him, he is pursuing just a another girl who has no relations with his friend. He acted, you didn't. You can't say anything to him that won't create tension. He isn't doing anything wrong. You just kept her as a crush in your mind and didn't act. Sorry for that.
Which sister should I pursue?
I (20) met these sisters, and I like both of them. But I don't know which one I like more. Sister 1 (18) is prettier and thinner, she has an outgoing personlity. She likes to sing and doesn't care who hears her. Sister 2 (20), still very pretty but has a little pudge to her, which I don't really mind. She is more chill, and a little shy, like me.
Which sister type will my best friend be?
My best friend is moving in and her mom is going to sign over parental rights (guardianship) and somebody told me that it'll make her legally my sister but they weren't sure what type. When my Mom has rights of my best friend, will that make her my: Sister (as if we were related by blood) Sister in law Sister by (adoption or foster) I need to know so I know how to properly introduce her to people. Right now I just say best friend or BFF because my Mom doesn't have rights of her yet, but we know that we'll be legally considered some sort of sister relationship when Mom does and we want to know which