Should I say something or not?
think I really like my friends cousin. He lives in another state kinda far away though. But my problems is i don't know if i should tell her. I know she would laugh and stuff cause she calls him ugly like joking and stuff but I cant stop thinking about him I only met him once at their aunts funeral so like i didn't really get to know him but I just keep seeing his face in my mind. What should I do? Please help me.
Should I say something to her?
I wanted to add... I have notice that my daughter has been smiling with her mouth shut a lot since this happened and it is making me sad and I don't know what to say to her to make her feel better. This boy has got a lot of problems, he gets into trouble a lot in school because he hits other kids all the time and he tells his mom and teachers that he wants to die. He has very little of a father figure in his life and when he does his father is in and out all the time. He has hit my daughter a few times before and she has punished him for that. I don't like my daughter to play with him but I have been friends with this girl for years and I don't want to end our friendship because of her son but I cannot let him keep emotionally and physically hurting my child. one time he was getting ready to slap my daughter and my husband spoke up and it scared him and he was good for that day, but it was the same old thing the next time they came.
Can you say something about your school life?
Highschool was a good experience but could on some days, also be the most depressing thing in the world. My school life was good, especially socially, it honestly was. But it did include many bad terrible moments and many many terrible grades.The moments teachers don’t listen too you and when the school counselors says they are all about helping individuals in school but simply do what is the easiest for them and don’t actually help you a single bit you feel worthless and just want to stop school forever.The moments you know your classmates and some fake-friends are talking behind your back spreading awful lies about you. The moments that one girl in class that keeps saying mean things to you when no one watches, claims she didn’t mean it that way.. The moments someone said so many bad things about you your whole class hates you and you are simply afraid to go to school. Those moments you really ask yourself what you are doing in that jungle of uneducated shitheads.But the days your friends in school baked a cake for you and brought tons of presents because of your birthday. The days when the weather is great and y’all sit outside enjoying the sunshine, eating your sandwiches or playing some card games you never want to leave.I will never forget the days me and my school friends celebrated christmas, our birthdays, went to Berlin, themeparks, had sleepovers, organized game and movie-night, drank a little bit too much or skipped class to get mcDonalds.It’s been 5 years. Five damn long years. But I made it. As an 11 year old little tiny kid I started highschool and 5 years later, as a totally different person I graduated.
Should I say something to my ex?
Yes, in my opinion you should say everything you feel in a polite manner. If you're hurt, you should say it and why. It's also important recognize your mistakes. A relationship is made of two, it's never only one person’s fault why it didn't work out. I'm saying this considering that both are willing to talk without fighting.
My sister's house STINKS! Do I say something?
Eventually one gets used to a smell if you've been in it long enough which is probably one of the reasons your sister can't smell it or maybe they're just dirty and aren't bothered by it to the point they feel no one else is bothered by it. I think you should say something but in a diplomatic way. People can take offence to being told they are either dirty or their home smells. If it is as bad as you say, it could be bad for the whole families health. The dog could be urinating on the carpet and that might be causing part of the smell along with dog poop left in the garbage can and not being bagged and thrown out or flushed down the toilet. Kitchens when not clean are a habitat for all manner of living thing. E-coli to rodents all potential killers and bad tummy upsets. Please mention this to your sister that you are concerned for their well being and explain that perhaps she is now immine to the smell and that you care about the kids health. I am sure you'll work something out. Good luck.
Should I say something to my now ex-boyfriend’s parents?
I know this sounds cruel, but it isn't your business anymore.Being a decent human being will come at a great cost to your own peace of mind. If you are concerned about your ex's parents more than you are about yourself, then by all means go for it. However, if you have any doubt it will take a greater toll on you than you could manage, then trust your instincts, be hard, and keep in mind that - I repeat - it isn't your business anymore.
Do I say something insensitive?
I'm super close with my elder sister, and pretty close with her husband of 3 years (my BIL), who is originally French, but has relocated to the US to be with her (she doesn't want to live longer in France b/c of constant racism she has suffered there). My sister loves him of course, but sometimes complained of his English skills. You know French people usually do not learn other people's language correctly. BIL has an IT job at a small French family company in the US where almost everyone is French, but his career is not going anywhere there. Recently he has got a better job (he's going to start next month), but he's required to improve his English skills if he wants to last there. Trouble is, he's lazy learning English and uses his spare time to do other things (sport, reading novels in French, etc.). If my sister speaks English with him, he would make too many mistakes that, exhausted, my sis would just lapse back into French. She has even hired a private English tutor for him, but he isn't really keen (he does his homework, but only to quickly be done with it and do other things). Last time my sis complained I said, "Perhaps deep in him he plans to take you to return in France in the future." My sis was offended and asked me not to say things that could draw a wedge between her and husband. She said I know that BIL knows she doesn't want to return to France, and that I also know he has promised to stay in the US, so saying those things are not helping from my part.
If you had a chance to say something to someone, then what would it be?
There could be endless things we want to say to people we know, we don't know or sometimes there are imaginary people in our list we like to tell something always.We always want to say something or the other, it's all about the chance we get. Sometimes we are lucky enough to get that chance but mostly things remain unsaid, which is painful of course.We want to say good things, bad things, positive or negative things, worthy or unworthy things, sometimes we just want to criticize a person or simply praise them. Sometimes there could be love coated to hateful things & many more. As there are endless emotions, so the things we can say to someone are also limitless.Sometimes it depends on the relation we have with that person, whether the relation is personal, professional or just social. We're wise enough to choose what we are going to say and to whom. People hardly mistake on that, that maturity is quite known to everyone.But sometimes we say things we are not suppose to. That possibly happens when we are not thinking clearly or upset or angry, hurt or rejected or unwanted, when our hard work doesn't pay or when someone we love doesn't understands us or simply when life just becomes unfair.As people say, think before you speak. In the same way it is wise to consider the following too:1. What to say: Always choose appropriate words, your single unwanted word could do a lot of harm.2. Whom to say: Keeping the person in mind whom you are saying something is as important as who is that person to you and how much he/she matters. If they are important people they can't be hurt or disrespected.3. When to say: There is an appropriate time for everything. Wait for that right time and say the desired.4. Why to say: Speaking your heart and mind is why the word are made for. Say it right, think before you speak.5. How to say: Politeness never goes wrong, be strong with words but gentle with the delivery of it.Last but not the least, don't say before the time and never say before it's too late.Keep saying..
How do I say something special to my ex girlfriend?
Do you want to say this to her in an effort to get her back, or do you simply want to say this because you are a nice guy and feel she could use a kind word?I guess it is really going to depend on how the relationship came to an end. If badly, she may not want to hear anything you have to say. If good, well then that should be very easy.First start the conversation by telling her that you were thinking of her and wanted to call, or text, or tweet, or whatever it is you do.Then tell her that when you were together, it was some of the happiest times in your life and you regret that it didn’t work out. Nonetheless, tell her you just waned to say hi, and hope she was having a nice day.Anything beyond this my friend, and it won’t really mean as much unless the words are coming from your heart. You will need to think of what you want to say, and then say it.You’ll do fine…
What do people say when someone asks them to "say something in [another language]"(for example, "Say something in Japanese!")? Do they say the equivalent of the word “something” in that language? Do they think of something on the spot?
Here are some things I could say if someone asked me to “Say something in Dutch.”Iets. (Something).Iets in het Nederlands. (Something in Dutch).Ja, natuurlijk. Wat wil je dat ik zou zeggen? (Yes, of course. What do you want me to say?)Ja, maar dan heb je geen flauw idee meer waarover ik praat. (Yes, but then you wouldn’t understand a word of what I’m talking about.)Waarom? (Why?)Nee, ik spreek geen Nederlands; het is zo’n moelike taal ik kon het nooit leren. (No, I don’t speak Dutch; it’s such a difficult language I could never learn it).Geen geld, geen Zwitzers. (Idiom, means the same as “money talks, bullshit walks”).Spreekt je ook Nederlands? (Do you speak Dutch also?)Rookworst zonder het “R” is ook worst. (Untranslatable word play: smoked sausage without the r is still sausage. It only makes sense in Dutch: when the r in “rookworst” is removed, you get “ook worst”).Zelfs Christus aan het kruis had het beter dan ik thuis. (A book title that rhymes in Dutch, but not in English: Even Christ on the cross had it better than I [do at] home).Schaapskooi. (Sheep fold).If I really wanted to be mean, I could say something in another language that would sound like Dutch to the many people who speak no Dutch.Ons is nog steeds baas, al denk jy nie so nie. (Afrikaans; this sentence is both understandable and incorrect in Dutch: we are still the boss, though don’t think so).Ik seache de flagge op dyn kastiel, mar leafde is gjin oerwinningsmiel. (Frisian, part of Nynke Laverman’s translation of “Hallelujah” by Leonard Cohen: I see the flag on your castle, but love is no triumphant march).Toyre is de beste skhoyre, azoy hoy di rabbe met uns geknelt. (Yiddish, from a song: Torah is the best treasure, or at least so the rabbi has told us).