Best friends.. can they become lovers?
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
Did you marry your best friend?
yes i married my best friend...ive know him since i was 16...ive had a lot of friends that have come and gone..but his the only one that has stuck around and put up with me...and at the end of the day...im happy to call him my best friend...oh we have been married for 10 yrs!!!
How do I get over my ex who I’m still best friends with?
Respect that they’re not attracted to you like that and just act as if you are friends! Friends is rather a vague term anyway. Some people are even friends with benefits! But, since you and your ex are still “best friends” then I suggest you talk to them the boundaries of your relationship and what your friendship actually means so that there will not be any confusion or hurt once they start dating someone else in a romantic way! Personally, I find this part difficult to do (stay friends with an ex), especially if I had had a very deep and intimate connection with them already and to regress to something less feels well… like I was cheated! ….Also the fact that you are asking this question means you still have feelings for him, and in that case, it is going to be extra hard and hurtful to you if you remain friends with him and he starts seeing other girls… he still has your heart it seems.. Anyway good luck, but if I were you, I’d keep my distance instead. Unless you are matured and you can handle your ex dating and sleeping and maybe even marrying the next person he hangs out with/gets to know, then I am not really sure what you are asking and why.
I'm in love with my best friend... should i tell him?
We've been friends for years now. He doesn't know that I'm slowly but surely falling in love with him. He doesn't have a girlfriend nor he is courting anybody. I am afraid that if i tell him how he feels he might reject me or worse he might go away. I really love him. I am not sure if his being sweet and thoughtful is part of our friendship. I don't want to lose him. Help me! I cannot go on like this. Should i tell him or should i just keep it to myself?
I fell for my best friend, but he doesn't like me back. How can I still be a friend to him?
I'm thinking, since you describe him as your best friend, that you know each other fairly well, and that you've been trough ups and downs together.I think, under these circumstances, there's no reason you can't still be friends even if you've had a crush on him.It depends mostly on you. If you can manage to be friends with him, more or less the way you were before, without your romantic feelings getting in the way, AND staying in close contact with him does not prevent you from moving on with your life and finding someone else to love; then things will be fine.It's not even necessarily awkward. I mean, there's no reason you should feel ashamed of your feelings, nor is there any reason he needs to feel ashamed for not feeling the same way. Sometimes the chemistry works out, and sometimes it doesn't, there's no shame in that.The main thing I'd recommend you do is to make sure you also meet other guys. You want to provide yourself with amply opportunity to fall in love elsewhere. Hanging out ONLY with the guy you have a crush on is a bad idea.You should also make sure that you really accept his no. Do not go around hoping that he'll change his mind. It's not that that NEVER happens (it happened to me), but it's a rare thing, and hoping for it is counterproductive and potentially destructive both for your love-life, and for your friendship. Accept 100% that it's a friendship, and will never be anything more than that.Good friendships can usually survive talking about anything. Even a one-sided crush.
I'm in love with my best friend. Should I wait for him or move on?
Both choices can suck, or be in your favour. Most beneficial choice would be to confess first before moving on. This ensures you’re not missing out on a mutual interest, incase he likes you too. Moving on if he doesn’t, so you’re not stuck in an unrequited love.Waiting, however, is probably the worst choice you could make. Because it doesn’t guarantee he will say me too after you do confess, and your time is wasted even if he does. Skip it, it’s not necessary. In other words, stop hoping for him to make the move.Be prepared for your heart to be broken though. Being friendzoned for so long can mean he never wanted more. But if you want to change your situation into a better one in the future, you gotta confess.Gooood luck
Should I stop being friends with him if I still have feelings?
Are you strong enough to handle the friendship, despite the negative things that might arise, due to your unrequited love?Pain of rejection? Jealousy?Is this friend so important and irreplaceable, or you are just sub-conciously just using this label “friend” to be close to this person?It’s not a bad thing per se, unless it backfires and you get hurt in the end. Just be honest with yourself, nothing more and nothing less.Keep in mind also that just having feelings for somebody will never hurt you, only your own expectations will.In all frankness, it’s a very thin line to walk. I tried it once and the mental pressure can be hard to deal with.Using rationality to keep yourself grounded from doing something that feels very natural, such as dreaming and fantasizing about this person. Stopping yourself from making plans for the future, how you would do things together, in a very different way than you are doing now. More intimate and deeper developments that you must be craving for, that are bottled up inside you.Your imagination is creating the expectations, nobody else.On the other hand, this person could be totally unaware of your feelings and both of you could end up being hurt, for different reasons.Reflect all of these questions in front of the mirror. Be completely honest, ask yourself the hard questions, before making a decison.You might also find bravery in yourself to confess how you really feel to this person. Which could be the best option, in a way.If they don’t feel the same (this is also a potential scenario), the worst thing that can happen is you get your response. Maybe they don’t want you like you want them.Then, after some time passes, you’ll be able to move on.Only then, somebody else that will feel the same for you as you for them, can land in your orbit.That’s wouldn’t be such a bad thing, I would say.As you’d get to keep your friend and have a more suitable partner in another person.
If your best friend falls for you, would you still consider them as a best friend after rejecting them?
best friends never fall.and
My best friend loves me. Should I give him a chance?
So my best friend of 8 months is in love with me. He has been in love with me for almost a year now and has made several attempts at being with me. He's really sweet and funny and has most qualities that I look for in a person. However; I don't see him as attractive or unattractive for some reason. Because of the fact that he's my friend, I can't bring myself to be sexually or romantically attracted to him. Again, he is pretty much what I look for in a person with the exception of the masculinity I look for. We get in several arguments over this situation and we don't know what to do. He loves me and won't seem to give up. We have also both resorted to "saying goodbye", but after a few days, we realize we can't be without each other because we want each other in our lives. He's asked me to give him a chance just too see where it goes, but I don't know if it will go anywhere. What should I do? Should I give him a chance? Please give detailed advice.