Should i bail out my teen daughter or leave her in jail?
my 14 year old daughter got caught doing illegal drugs at school and got arrested yesterday afternoon. her teacher told me that she was just screaming and try to fight the cops and they had called her and took her to jail. she's currently in juvie right now kept calling us and begged her to get her out her dad told her that she needs to learn her lesson and we're not getting her out. I hate to see our child suffer I want to get her out but at the same time she needs to mind her lesson because she knows better and we raised her way better than that and warned her not to hang with THEM drug dealing kids. we were grounded her from hanging out with them 2 weeks before she got arrested
He told me to leave him alone?!?
the guy that i'm in love with texted me on September 8th, Saturday night of this year (which was the last time i heard from him) to "leave him alone"... it's tough for me to want to call/text him, knowing that i shouldn't (and i haven't)... also, i went on facebook to check my horoscope for the day & i asked the fortune teller a question & i don't know if i should believe what response i got, but i asked "if i should call him" (the guy i love) & then i got a "absolutely" answer, should i or should i not? i've done good so far not calling or texting him, & im only doing it bc i love him, miss him, and i respect him & am giving him space, in hopes of him someday maybe getting back to me...
I confronted my fiancé through text with evidence about him seeing another woman behind my back & all he replied & said was “bye”?
This happened three days ago & I haven’t seen or heard from him since. I never replied back to his “bye” text or tried calling. Should I try reaching out to him & asking for an explanation or should I just leave it alone & consider the relationship over.
How can you leave someone you love?
Honey you are exactly right. If you don't have trust then there's a big problem. Have you done something to lose his trust? If so, then he has a reason to not trust you and if you still want to be with him, then you both will need to work that out or separate. If you haven't then there has to be an underlying problem. Maybe something in him like insecurities or trust issues. Sometimes people blame others for a problem that really began in them but they can't see, won't acknowledge, or don't care to bring it to the surface. It's a horrible feeling to feel trapped in a corner and not know what to do. Look at what's best for you and stand your ground.
Will he leave his wife for me?
Before you say "men never leave their wives for mistresses," Id like to refer to Angelina Jolie, Alicia Keys, Gabrielle Union, and Leann Rimes. Those are famous examples of mistresses who later became wives. My situation is no different. My boyfriend is unhappily married. He says he is house-hunting because he plans on leaving his wife. Most importantly, I know he is serious because he provides for me. He is 30 years older than me so he knows what he wants, this is not a whim or impulse. His marriage is over but he doesn't want to be alone throughout the divorce process. I'm only asking because I need an outsider's perspective. Things always seem different when you are living through it. So tell me, will he leave his wife for me?
Should I leave my husband because his addictions?
My husaband and I have been married only a year and have gone through drug, alchohol and now porn addiction. he has been getting on the computer and looking up porn. i told him right from the beginning how bad it makes feel and he promised he wouldnt do it anymore but of course did. then i put a lock on the computer and that didnt work either because he still looked at it somehow. im all out of ideas and am fed up with getting my heart broken with every addiction especially since he dosnt even beleive he has a problem. yesterday i packed his stuff and simply said it was over and of course he begged his way back into my life and i let him, only if he looked up how to fix his problem with me on the internet. i left room for one minute to go pick up our crying baby and he somehow managed to look up two porn sites in that time. now guys say its not a problem but when it becomes a need rather than a desire, well i think there is something wrong with that.
My 23 year old son is out of control. What do I do?
Well, the kid's a pretty big loser. There's no doubt about it.But usually there's reasons for this. Abuse, neglect, low self-esteem, anger, loss, etc.It's one thing to say, "kick him out and let him learn to survive on his own," but you may want to consider that that's going to look like for him.Based on what you say, it's pretty likely he's going to end up on drugs and/or in jail, which is basically crime college.I'd say he's at a pretty big risk of becoming a career loser for life. Despite taking total advantage of you, you are seemingly the only positive influence in his life right now. At least his buddies are just losers and not criminals. Booze and pot and video games are mostly just an escape, but not necessarily an indicator of life-long criminality.The violence is worrisome. That's an indication of suppressed anger and an inability to express himself on a socially acceptable level.I think you should invest in some professional assistance. A good counselor can do amazing things. There's definitely something going on in that kid's head that he isn't talking about. He may never want to talk to you about it, but if he can find someone he trusts, it could turn things around.He could really use a good role model too.I'm just saying, before you turn him out into the cold, consider what a life-time of dissapointment and regret you may have if he doesn't land on his feet.You may have the opportunity to help him now before that ugly future comes true.And one more thing to consider: he's still just a kid. He won't be an adult for another 3-7 years. Don't let him screw it all up now. He'll eventually grow up.If counselling and communication doesn't work, there's always the door.