Will my cousin get mad at me??
Ok so my cousin went out with this guy named Erik for like a week and she knew that i liked him when she was going out with him.And so then they broke up.and then they went out again and i still liked him.and so now he asked me out and i said yes and i think my cousin will get mad if i tell her that im going out with him?what do u think should i tell her the truth?because she still likes him
I think my cousin is a closeted gay. How can I help him?
What does “helping him” mean to you? To some people, “helping him” means sending him to gay therapy camp and trying to make him be straight. To other people, “helping him” means forcing him out of the closet (which can be just as abusive as sending him to therapy camp). Other people might take that to mean wanting to be supportive and protective of him. Etc. Etc. You asked how you could help him without telling us what kind of help you’re talking about, or how you, your mother and brother feel about it.You say that you, and your mother, and your brother have found gay porn on his laptop? Were all three of you going through his laptop on your own at different times, or was this a family activity that the three of you did together as a group? Is it his personal laptop, or is it shared between all of you? If it’s his personal laptop, did he give you permission to use it?As others have said, this is his business, not yours. If you want to help him, let him have his privacy, respect his boundaries and his property, and let him be whatever he is going to be, and let him know that he is loved and people care about him. Think about how you would help a frightened animal come out of a hiding place. You don’t yell at him, you don’t reach in and drag him out, you don’t try to force anything; all of those are likely to have the opposite effect, and convince him it’s not safe to come to you. Instead, set out a dish of food and water, let him see that it’s safe, and then you back off and wait.
I snitched on my cousin and should feel bad?
i think in this case you are right but you should of talk to her first. you should of said "come home or ill tell my mom". i know it sounds childish but at least let her know the consequence. but what you did is good to.
How can I help my autistic cousin get a girlfriend?
Does your cousin even want a girlfriend? No point forcing it upon them - I felt I was being pressured from family when I didnt have one which is why I mention that.I got bored very easily, either sexually or mentally. So, the best advice I can offer is..Find out what they like doing. The idea is, If they like games, they want to speak about games so going to a disco or pub is not likely going to be ‘their’ crowd.I met a girlfriend on World of Warcraft. She happened to be about 60 miles from where I lived in the end.There is ‘meetup’ online which is a community driven meet up and do whatever so one could be Dungeons and Dragons night, or talk about computers with equally interested people.Also I have been told there is a ‘honeymoon’ period where for the first x amount of weeks of a relationship, people tend to do this out of character like splash out on doing things or buying things. I dont seem to do that as it would go against who I am normally so you may notice that doesnt happen with other autistic people too. I think it is a good thing because it is quite litterally a case of “what you see is what you get”. Dont try and change them, there will be somewhere out there for your cousin, it sometimes helps not to spend energy looking.
Should I date my cousins best friend?????
Ok. I went and hung out with my cousin today at the pool. Me and my cousin (He's a guy) are really close. He's almost like a brother to me. Anyway, today at the pool, he brought a really good friend of his. And he is REALLY cute! I have met this guy before, but he was like really not-cute then. But at the pool today he was really nice to me and stuff. I met some of my friends at the pool and there were like, "Hey. That dude really likes you!". I might not want to go out with him cause he's my cousins best friend, y'know? Do you think I should go out with him?
How can I help my cousin who is a 13 years old drop out, anti social, abandoned, and always lock himself in his room playing games or watching anime?
You can't dropout at 13. There are some details missing from this question, like why he is not in school, homeschooled, or why CPS (or your country's equivalent) or a truant officer hasn't been around to see you cousin.
I am in love with my cousin (female). What should I do?
I too have been attracted to my cousin. He also always flirted with me. He moved out and lived in the same city as I was living in. I frequently visited him and we had good and drinks many times together. Since we both seemed to like each other, we met often.One day when I was at his home, I wanted to get into his jacuzzi. So to avoid getting my clothes all wet, I asked if he minded if I got into it naked. He said, not at all and that he too always go into it naked. So after I got into it, he too undressed and go in naked. His dick was nice and big. He kept looking at my breasts and asked me if they were real. I said yes and he wanted to touch and feel it. I said it was ok for him to touch me. He then started caressing me and suddently started sucking on my nipples. I got real turn on and started moaning. He then made me stand and licked my pussy. I liked the way he did so much that I did not stop him. He then wanted me to return the favor, and stood in front of me and wanted me to suck his dick. He dick was already hard by now. I sucked him really well and stroked his dick. He then made me spread my legs on the jacuzzi and slowly put his dick inside of me. I was on birth control, so I really did not care for him to wear a condom. I enjoyed his thick dick deep inside me. We went at it for a while and then when he was ready to cum, I opened my mouth and let him cum in my mouth. He said that was the best experience he had. Since then, we have sex everytime we met.We did talk about no jus keeping it to sex and not take it to relationship or marriage because the society does not accept cousins and he was okay with it. We always have a great time together and have met with each other many times. I personally do not feel anything wrong with cousins loving each other and having sex, but I will suggest to use birth control and not have any babies.
Should I tell my Cousin that I love her Boyfriend?
i don't think u should tell her , because letting ur cousin know would cause alot of problems between u , her and him and i don't think u should lose ur cousin for some guy ! even so , what if he doesn't like u ?.. u'll look like a idiot and u'll be pissed off u also might lose ur ex. boyfriend & ur cousin?.. so why ?. just put it that way ( WE BROKE UP AND I CAN"T LIKE HIM BECAUSE I DON"T WANT TO LOSE MY COUSIN ) and just try to get over it ,u can meet other guys but u can't get another cousin? try to love another guy and make friends with ur ex, the world is full of good guys ! try to find one , and forget about him IF he ever loved u why would he go and date ur cousin? think of it like that !, u have to get over it i know it wil be hard to forget him . but u really should do !.. trust me ! , u can't just like someone who broke up with u then started dating ur cousin !? ,try not to break ur cousin's heart and make her feel that u r so unfaithful and u knew that they were in relationship and still loved him?.. gd luck ! let me know what happens then ,, xxx
I need help in helping my cousin out about her parents divorce?
The divorce was secret and basiclly she found out and now its a mess. Her mom is trying to keep her away from our family just because we are on her dads side. She makes up things so she wont be allowed over. She even took over her sweet 15, and made it so no one in my family side would be allowed to go basiclly she made it out of the country. She has her older brother brain washed. I just need advice on helping her. I try but I get so mad that her moms talks so much crap about my uncle and he never says anything. What do I say to her?
Can you date your cousins boyfriends brother?
Yes. If your cousin gets married to him, he is only related to direct relatives - mom, dad, and siblings. That is it. I know this because my second cousin's husband's younger brother and I are in a relationship. Your good to go. :)