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Should I stop seeing/talking to my friend?

I promised myself to never fall or make her fall in love with me, because I want to keep her in my life. I knew her since the first year of the semester, and we been great friend every since. I'm outgoing myself and love meeting new people, while she's the opposite. She's afraid that one day I will distant from her and leave her, yet I promised her, "I will never let that happen." Reflecting on that words, I am being a hypocrite. From her best friend, she secretly told me that night my friend was drunk, and I had to babysit her; she told her best friend that she felt something between us and was going to kiss me. Her best friend then asked me, "would you kissed her if she was going in for it?" I told her, "I wouldn't. She was drunk, and I will never take advantage of her." What do you guys think? What should I do?

My old friends won't talk to me at school what should I do?

Okay so I moved schools like a year ago because my parents made me, yesterday I switched back to my old school and I was so excited to surprise my old friends. I saw them and they seemed excited to see me, they told me hi and stuff and I had them for a class and we talked in class, but at lunch I went to go sit at their lunch table and my friend said "umm" and I just went on my phone and my other friend said "we don't want to talk to you, maybe sometimes but not at lunch". so I got up and went to the bathroom and stood there for the rest of the lunch, this was a horrible day and I regret going back now because i'm gonna be all alone at lunch. What should I do about this? i'm gonna cry.

How do you talk to a friend you haven't seen in years?

Well see, about 7 or 8 years ago I was best friends with this girl named Sam who I met through an after school day care. But then after elementary school, we just kind of drifted apart because we went to different middle schools. Well I was going to volenteer at that day care this summer and I talked to the lady that runs it and she said that Sam was going to be volenteering there this summer, too. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to see her again, but it'll be kind of awkward after 7+ years. I don't know what to say to reduce the awkwardness.

P.S. I'm not a very peppy person. I'm very mellow and soft-voiced and easygoing so it wouldn't help if you told me to say "OMG hi!! How long has it BEEN? You look GREAT!" because that is very out of my nature.

My best friends parents won't let me see or talk to her anymore? Please help!?

Today i was on Facebook and i went to look at my friends profile and saw that she deleted me and a few of our other good friends. I told my other friend about it and we both sent her messages thinking she was just pulling some kind of stupid joke. Turns out that she called my friend and told him that her parents found out about a party we had at her house while they were gone and said we are "bad influences" on her and her parents deleted us from facebook and told her she couldnt talk to us anymore and that she can only hang out with people at her church. i don't know what to do! I dont know if im more mad at her parents for blaming my friends and i when my friend is the worst one out of all of us or for my friend for not sticking up for us. im worried i might never get to see her again because her parents said she needs to move on and only be friends with kids in her church (which i think is absolutely insane). i really dont know what to do! We are best friends!
Any advice is appreciated :)

Thank you so much :)

Are you still friends with your high school friends?

Well they are wrong on both accounts. I'm still married to my highschool sweetheart... for 38 years now and we dated for 3 years before we got married. Plus I have over a dozen school chums that we all chat and write back and forth. My daughter's both have more than that, that they keep in touch with. In fact my oldest daughter is on a quest to find the rest of them she knows through places like facebook.

Do friends need to speak everyday and see each other to stay close?

definitely not. you guys definitely have a great friendship. some people think that a best friend is someone who hangs out with you all the time and crap like that, but that's not true. a best friend is someone who's always there when you need them, won't judge you no matter what, and loves you and everything that comes with you, even the flaws. you feel your friend is in your heart, which is a very special bond that a lot of people don't ever get to experience with friends. a good friend thinks about your feelings AND their feelings before they make a choice. never lose sight of this. i recently moved from Phoenix, AZ to Los Angeles, CA. i have so many friends back in Phoenix and though we don't get to see each other or talk to each other often, they are still my best friends, even though i've made new ones in L.A. it's good that you guys still feel close. you guys are best friends it sounds like.