Should i stop being her friend?
I have a been best friends with my friend for 9 years now and she is funny and a cool person and we have a few things in common and we have fun but latetly she has been treating me like crap a bit. When we hang out with another friend she treats me differently. Like when I try to walk in the middle of the group she will like shoulder push me out so that she can be near our friend. And when I'm like listening to music on my phone and she will tell my friend to leave me so that they can walk somewhere else together and my music dnt be loud so I can hear everything that is said. When we are with other friends she forgets abouts me and doesn't talk to me much but when I drop my friend off at home she will start talking to me and cracking jokes and totally not ignore me like before and I be like wtf?!!! So I need some advice about this because I'm getting to the point where I'm going to snap and our friendship will be lost and I dnt want to stop being her friend cause we cool and everything. So plz help me out yahoo.
Should I stop being friends with her?
I'm a 20y/o guy (i would be in my 3rd year of college if i was still attending) and I have just started working full time at probably where I will be working for the rest of my life. There's this girl that I have known since my senior year of high school. She is a sr in hs and has a great plan for her future. She is in a relationship with some guy she barely sees and I haven't heard her say one positive thing about him, although she acts as though he is amazing. And i hang out with her pretty much every day. My issue is that I can't get her out of my head. And the fact that I can't have her makes it so much harder. I have never had this strong of feelings towards a girl before. And it is getting to the point that I am extremely unfocused at work because all I do is think about her. I am considering telling her I can't be friends with her anymore because I want so much more. I obviously don't want this but I think it's best for me at this point because of my career. Please give some input. I'd like to hear guys and girls opinions.
How do I stop being friends with the girl I like?
Leave her alone. Ignore her, stop hanging around in the same place. If you only do that it will only feed your frustration and you'll look like an underdog into her eyes. Trust me, girls can smell if you like them from like a mile away so the pretending that she doesn't know crap is just that: bullshit!NEVER EVER settle for less that you aspired to. If you have an intelligent approach considering that she already knows you like her and rejects you, then ditch her and NEVER remain friends. No matter if you do succeed and you get the girl or not, there's one thing being in a relationship with someone, it's a different level of connection than being with a friend, if you can't do that, then DON'T be a friend. It's like buying your favorite pepperoni pizza and you get diet pizza or smh like that AND you still pay for it. Girls like keeping the friend-zoned guys as an option even if they're not physically attracted to them because it boosts their egos. Don't be that guy. If she doesn't give you the answer you want, then stay cool and look for another girl. Simple.
Should I stop being friends with my crush?
I don't know you, so I can only say what I think based on my impression of your two phone chats and what you told us. To me it sounds like you are fooling yourself that you can go on being friends with this person without it constantly tormenting you that you are not more than friends. There is no such thing as "getting rid of your feelings." Feelings aren't trash that can be collected and thrown into the bin. They are organic to you and will persist as long as you are feeding them (fighting them is a way of feeding them.) This means that every time you talk or see each other you will be hurting and eaten up inside. You also may be secretly harboring hope that if you stay friends long enough and "wait it out" that some day she will suddenly and spontaneously see you differently and return your feelings. The likelihood of that happening is next to nil. You are wasting your time, doing psychological damage and hurt to yourself and blocking yourself off from other potential relationships. As long as your emotions are tied up with this girl you can't have, you will be trapped, imprisoned even. Your energy will be unavailable. Joy will be dimmed. Life will be full of pain. You won't have your mind and heart free for the many other good things there are out in the world. I say all of this based on my own experiences from when I was younger, wasting my life pining for people and things I could not have. I wasted years on this. There's no point to it! Live your life, live it now! She is not the last person you will ever love. Please know that. She is not the only wonderful person in the world. And more importantly, she is not the person who is going to love you the way you deserve to be loved. You won't get over her any time soon, but the only way to move on and stay ALIVE in your life is to put distance between you and her physically, mentally and emotionally. Tell her it's too painful for you to hang out now. That may change in future, and if it does you will let her know. Focus on new things, new people. Don't try to pretend to be happy, but don't dwell on her either. Stay busy - do something productive with your life. Make your life about something, not about another person. Focus your energy on becoming who you are meant to be. Find what you love to do and build your skills in it. Meet other people who share your passion. Over time you will move on and when you are feeling less hurt and unworthy, you will attract someone new to you.
How to stop being friends with someone?
whatever you tell or whatever you do to break your friendship, it WILL be awkward. so go all out, tell her that you should stop being friends and then, well problem solved. you think thats awkward, last year me and my best friend had a very big fight, told her i didnt want to be friends anymore, i sit next to her in EVERY SINGLE class. fml, but it's good because everyone was on my side so i had other people to talk to. Dont you have people sitting on the other side? or in front or behind? just talk to them
How can I stop being friends with someone?
So I have this friend that has been very mean to me. She has insulted me and cursed at me over text messages, she has also offended me a few times, but I don't think she notices, she also annoys me so much, and she's very nosy, which bothers me so much, and she also brags a lot, and sometimes hurts other people, or sometimes my friends, and it really makes me mad. I've tried avoiding her, but she always seems to notice, and asks me why I'm avoiding her. I've also tried telling her in the past that she's not a good friend, but she ended up crying. She's not mature at all, and we really have nothing in common, and she says we do, and she also doesn't really accept me for who I am, but still wants to stay friends with me, so she tries to fit in with what I like, but that just makes me more uncomfortable being around her. One last thing, she says she has ADHD (or something like that) and anger issues so that's why she always acts like that, but after she's said it so many times it's hard to believe. I really need some advice for how to end this friendship.
How do I stop being friends with someone?
Very simple...sit this girl down , with your three friends and say....we've been doing a lot of thinking over the summer and have all come to the same conclusion: "You've changed, and not for the better. You used to be a lot of fun to hang around, but recently you've become a very mean, hostile person who brags all the time. We find your behavior to be VERY obnoxious and rude, and quite frankly, if you don't change, we are not interested in having you be part of our group anymore. Plain and simple. its up to you." The cowards way out would simply be to start ignoring her or leaving her out of outings and so forth...but really...she might not have any clue that how she is bahaving is not appropriate. Letting her know how you feel is not being mean. Its doing her a favor. She might do YOU a favor and say...well SCREW YOU GUYS.....then you won't have her to worry about anymore. I agree with 16:26 who answered below 100%
Should I stop being friends with him if I still have feelings?
Are you strong enough to handle the friendship, despite the negative things that might arise, due to your unrequited love?Pain of rejection? Jealousy?Is this friend so important and irreplaceable, or you are just sub-conciously just using this label “friend” to be close to this person?It’s not a bad thing per se, unless it backfires and you get hurt in the end. Just be honest with yourself, nothing more and nothing less.Keep in mind also that just having feelings for somebody will never hurt you, only your own expectations will.In all frankness, it’s a very thin line to walk. I tried it once and the mental pressure can be hard to deal with.Using rationality to keep yourself grounded from doing something that feels very natural, such as dreaming and fantasizing about this person. Stopping yourself from making plans for the future, how you would do things together, in a very different way than you are doing now. More intimate and deeper developments that you must be craving for, that are bottled up inside you.Your imagination is creating the expectations, nobody else.On the other hand, this person could be totally unaware of your feelings and both of you could end up being hurt, for different reasons.Reflect all of these questions in front of the mirror. Be completely honest, ask yourself the hard questions, before making a decison.You might also find bravery in yourself to confess how you really feel to this person. Which could be the best option, in a way.If they don’t feel the same (this is also a potential scenario), the worst thing that can happen is you get your response. Maybe they don’t want you like you want them.Then, after some time passes, you’ll be able to move on.Only then, somebody else that will feel the same for you as you for them, can land in your orbit.That’s wouldn’t be such a bad thing, I would say.As you’d get to keep your friend and have a more suitable partner in another person.
How to stop being friends with your best friend?
So I've been best friends with this girl for about a year....and I used to love her.now she is just a ***** to me all the time and brings me down ...she says she doesn't to that when I try to talk to get about it but I still always feel bad...she gets pissed off at me at the littlest things...ugh and we have totally different personalities ...we'll we've had some god memories but I'm getting real tired of her and I don't want us to stop being friends completely ,just not as close you know ,we hangout about everyday and all we ever do now is piss each other off. I still want to be friends, but how to I break it to her I don't want to be her " best friend" anymore? I'm thinking of ignoring her a lot then we can drift apart a bit.but I might end up regretting it,oh well I'm just getting tired of her bs and being treated like **** from her...comment what you think I should do?D: