Why do friends stop being friends?
People are friends for various reasons. Works, school, acquaintances etc. there is a common bond that ties a friendship together, whether or that you are both going through the same stage in life or enjoy each other company. Once you lost that common bond you will lose the bond that holds the friendship together. Of course that are many other reasons but this is the fundamental reason that grows a friendship.
How can I stop being the 'sidekick' friend?
dude stop being a Clown and be more assertive. YOu scared to talk to girls your friend is not and girls notice that. I waas in the same situation for a little and my buddy was jsut like just say whatever half the time girls just want you to make them laugh. ITs not difficult to talk to a girl. I bet yoru friend is quick wiht good 1 liners to make them laugh, become witty some peopel are. If your then all you have to do is go up to a girl and talk to them. And you have to stop thinking abotu this as a "status" or that type of guy thing. i think you have trouble talkin to girls good luck and stop FEARING REJECTIOn everyone gets rejected even the most popular.
How to stop being friends with someone?
whatever you tell or whatever you do to break your friendship, it WILL be awkward. so go all out, tell her that you should stop being friends and then, well problem solved. you think thats awkward, last year me and my best friend had a very big fight, told her i didnt want to be friends anymore, i sit next to her in EVERY SINGLE class. fml, but it's good because everyone was on my side so i had other people to talk to. Dont you have people sitting on the other side? or in front or behind? just talk to them
How do I get my friend to stop being a goth?
My best friend is really interested in black and stats wearing it and I don't want her to be depressed and start doing bad things.. How can I help her? I know black is not bad but what if other things change?
Should I stop being friends with him if I still have feelings?
Are you strong enough to handle the friendship, despite the negative things that might arise, due to your unrequited love?Pain of rejection? Jealousy?Is this friend so important and irreplaceable, or you are just sub-conciously just using this label “friend” to be close to this person?It’s not a bad thing per se, unless it backfires and you get hurt in the end. Just be honest with yourself, nothing more and nothing less.Keep in mind also that just having feelings for somebody will never hurt you, only your own expectations will.In all frankness, it’s a very thin line to walk. I tried it once and the mental pressure can be hard to deal with.Using rationality to keep yourself grounded from doing something that feels very natural, such as dreaming and fantasizing about this person. Stopping yourself from making plans for the future, how you would do things together, in a very different way than you are doing now. More intimate and deeper developments that you must be craving for, that are bottled up inside you.Your imagination is creating the expectations, nobody else.On the other hand, this person could be totally unaware of your feelings and both of you could end up being hurt, for different reasons.Reflect all of these questions in front of the mirror. Be completely honest, ask yourself the hard questions, before making a decison.You might also find bravery in yourself to confess how you really feel to this person. Which could be the best option, in a way.If they don’t feel the same (this is also a potential scenario), the worst thing that can happen is you get your response. Maybe they don’t want you like you want them.Then, after some time passes, you’ll be able to move on.Only then, somebody else that will feel the same for you as you for them, can land in your orbit.That’s wouldn’t be such a bad thing, I would say.As you’d get to keep your friend and have a more suitable partner in another person.
Should a woman stop being friends with a guy if she finds out he likes her?
He never was your friend to begin with, even though you probably don't want to believe that. I know I didn't want to believe that when I first was told that my guy friends really wanted to be more than friends with me, even though not a single one of them ever crossed the line or even gave me an indication that they were interested. In other words, what I'm saying is you're not in a friendship now and you never were, so the question is mute. A friendship takes two people MUTUALLY wanting the same thing. What you have is a platonic relationship with a guy who wants you as a sexual partner and he is sizing you up and waiting for the right opportunity to make his move (or he's waiting for you to make a move because he's too scared to do so). He will likely never just see you as a friend if he is sexually attracted to you. He's being charming, nice, attentive and spending time with you because he is hoping to get into your pants. I know, it sucks to have this realization, but it's better for you to know the truth. I didn't learn this until age 30. Hopefully you're not as naive as I was. Best wishes to you~
When should you stop being a friend with someone?
When it feels like a one-sided friendship, and you're the one giving all the support, and making all the effort when there's nothing in their life that's preventing you from putting some effort into your friendship.And when I say nothing, I of course include tricky health situations, serious problems with their family, impending bankruptcy and total lack of control of how they are behaving.And even when they have serious problems with their life, there's no reason they can't let you in, or simply allow you to be there.But people react differently. So watch out what goes in their life. Having found a new partner, job, other friends isn't a good-enough excuse to cast you aside completely.And this is the more subtle one.Obviously you should stop being friends with people that have betrayed you, continuously let you down, failed to show up when you needed them, people who can't share the joy (some love to help during disaster, but they should be available for the good days too!), people who can't share the bad (the opposite end of the spectrum), and people you don't care about anymore.Sometimes people grow apart. They no longer share anything. If you're forcing yourself to be friends, you shouldn't.There's got to be mutual love, respect and preferably, at least a few things in common.If not, it's time to let go. It's a favor to you and your soon-to-be-former friend.
How do I stop being the "go to" person for my friends problems?
My sister, my roommate, and a few of my friends, all come and talk to me about their problems they are having with their other friends, boyfriends, or their own roommate. I am annoyed, because I want to share my opinion but I am the problem solver, or the listener. So I keep all my emotions bottled up and soon am ready to explode if they keep yapping about stupid stuff! But I listen because that's who I am. Anything wrong with that?