How do you apologize to your best friend after a fight?
Admit that you were being a jerk, and say it was your fault. If it was more than a week, it might be too late.
I haven't spoken to my best friend for 2 years. How do I now start a conversation?
OMG !!Good to see someone like me :)Same situation was with me 1 years back, i was not talking with one of my friend, We were a group of 6 friends, and every evening we used to have gala tym, But Me and Other friend, we didn't talk for more than 2 years, we didn't wished Birthdays, no Hi, Hello. One day i realized that what the hell we are doing from so long time.It was 22:00 pm and i went to his home, they were living on rent as their house was under construction.Aunty opened the door, i touched her feet, Aunty said " Aaj tu idher ka rasta kaise bhul gya", I just Smiled :) Aunty Called him Out, His name is Rahul. He saw me, we both Smiled :), I asked him to came out, and he abused me and Said "******** Aa gyi yaad".I hit him hard on back and we both laugh for 10 minutes, that was 7 April 2014, and Everything was fine like before, we talk for an hour, discussed everything. On 10 April they were shifting to their new Home, He Invited me for the event, for some reason i was not supposed to attend that event, but some how i managed to go there early morning for 15 minutes.I believe you should take a step ahead, talk to him and everything will be fine. Trust Me :)All the very Best :)
I beat up my girlfriend and she left me but now I apologize and want her back, what should I do to bring her back?
Here is the list of the things you can do to bring her back :Call her infinite number of times and annoy the hell out of her.Stalk her,meet her every place she goes and scare the shit out of her.If your parents know about this, bring them into the scene and put emotional pressure on her.Scare all her friends away so that she has no one but you to talk.Post her private pictures online and blackmail her into forgiving you.Frame her as a burglar and call the cops on her.Threaten her with rape threats to get her on board.Not promising enough?Then just let her be. How can you beat up a person you claim to love? Beating up is a distant thing. How can you even raise your hands with an intention to slap them ? Just because you are physically stronger than her it doesn't give you any right to beat her up or beat anyone up. Ever heard of an animal beating up their mates? No? Not even animals do that and you are human. You are human for a reason and that's definitely not beating up your girlfriend. Among all the living organisms we,the humans, are the only one who can empathize with others.I read the question and the first thought that came to my mind was after what you did, you have the guts to ask bunch of people online, what you should do to bring the girl, you have beaten up back? For what? To beat her up again? You are saying you apologized to her, but you aren't sorry for what you did. You just want her back, because by deciding to walk away from this poisonous relationship she hurt your ego.It's not that? You are actually sorry for what you did? Then I must tell you the damage has been done and you feeling sorry isn't going to change what she went through. So if you want her forgiveness, leave her alone.
My cheating ex got in contact with me 2 years later to apologise, what do I do?
Resolve is a good thing for people and maybe I should acknowledge her new found self as a good thing. After all, if I do that it doesnt imply I want to be her friend again and it's nothing lost on my part. On the other hand, my emotions come in and I want to turn around and be spiteful. Tell her how she conveniently remembers to apologise now she has split up with the other guy, probably only now coming to the same conclusion I came to within an hour of meeting him. If I was so amazing, then how was it so easy to forget it for that low life? I want to slam the "i told you not to contact me again" line in her face. I want to vent all these years worth of emotional turmoil, the anxiety, the sleepless nights, and most importantly the anger. Now, I'm confused about what to do. Do I want to talk to her again? If so what do I say? Will it help me find some kind of resolve to my own issues? Will it help her find some sort of resolve? Should I grant her another unselfish act?
Should I apologise for something that happened years ago?
I'm turning 20 in a few months and seem to be feeling guilty of something that I regret doing in the past. I've been thinking about this person recently, for a few months but never really realized that I was feeling guilty until today, Well, its like this, this person used to be my friend from the end of elementary to the start of high school so (13 - 14 years old), and she was a good friend but had strong insecurity, controlling and possessive issues, she was sometimes abusive and childish and embarrassing in public because of how loud she was. she always chose to talk rather than listen, and if you mentioned anything she would get upset and had strong hate for people in general because of how she was an outcast in the past. Obviously at the time not having the maturity or knowledge to understand or realize why she was the way she was, my friend and I, cut her out of our lives in a not so sincere way. we made fun of her and called her names through the internet and I made her wait for me for hours, because we planned to go somewhere to skip class but I never showed up. I felt the guilt back then but my best friend reassured me saying she deserved it. yes she was unpleasant to be around with at the time it still doesn't justify my actions, and it was so long ago, now that my best friends in college apparently she saw her and seemed to be still holding a grudge because of the dirty looks and surprised facial expressions that she actually made it to college , I mean its been 6 years since then, I got over it, obviously because I wasn't the one to be hurt, but I've changed and matured up and can own up to my mistakes, a lot of people have caused me suffering in the past and would love to hear an apology from them, do you think it would be right if I one day bumped into her and randomly apologized for something that happened so long ago? would it be weird? suggestions or opinions please?
Should I apologize to my Husband's ex-wife?
I met my now husband, when he was still married to his ex-wife.During the whole relationship they spend more time apart than together,because she was a very jealous person. I met my husband when his daughter was 9 months old, i knew he had a daughter but i didn't know he was still married because he was staying a one of his friends house who was my friend's husband. We connected really quick and started to like each other, since I moved to my friend's house from another State, i saw him everyday.one day I ask my friend if he was still with his wife and she said "sometimes" It looked like they had trouble way before i came into the picture. Long story short; we try to break things up many times for a whole year and a half, I even moved from my friends house so i wouldn't have to see him but i really loved him and i knew he loved me too.It wasn't long before his wife find out but she ask him to stay for his "daughter sake"(his daughter is his weakness) until one day she kick him out of the house.Two month later she was living with one of my husband's friends, we didn't start living together until a year after they separated, for 3 years she make our life living hell,she would call at 4 in the morning in a Monday just to tell him to not forget to pick up their daughter on Friday, then she will ad she was making breakfast for her man.She send letters to my MIL to tell her that i was a bad person and that my husband didn't gave her any money and that she wanted to get back with him, and that was why she didn't had any man yet, she call me B****, and then she will call him and said i call her to insult her, she did too many things to write them all and not even once i call her back to insult her or anything.For more than 3 years she kept this attitude, until about almost 2 years ago, after the birth of my son, she started to give my kid's gifts(i have a 10 y old son from a previous relationship) and to invite my older son to my stepdaughter birthdays, since her attitude change, i try to get along with her and so far that's what we are doing, even thought i have some doubt about her intentions i want to think that she may be over my husband. I wanted to this long ago, but it never seemed to be the right time until now.Do you think I should apologize to her for what happened? I don't know if my husband already did it, but i feel like I should. What do you think?
Should I apologize or stand my ground and wait for her or should I move on?
I posted a similar question earlier but I really liked this girl who I had been friends with for about a year now. I invited her to my Limo Birthday party. She got drunk and made out with a guy even though she knew I liked her. We talked on the phone a couple of days later and I told her I was pissed off about what happened because she knew I liked her. She said she didn't have any feelings for me and she hates how people put "boundries on her" and she said pretty hurtful things to me such as if this other guy was there she would have done more than make out with him. I don't think she feels bad about what happened. I miss her a lot though! we had so many good times together as friends. It sucks I liked her A lot! and now I can't stop thinking about her. She used to call me everyday to hang out and I kind of miss that. Should I apologize because I should have told her at the beginning that I liked her a lot, or should I stand my ground and maybe she will apologize or shld I move on?
Why did he respond two days later?
Maybe he's trying to figure out how to reply to your text, like he waits till the next day to ask his friends. You could ask him in a subtle way, be like "hey is your phone broken, it seems like it doesn't get my texts till two days later". My friends phone actually did that so I had to start writing the time and date on my text.