Should I take the risk and do what I love?
You are thinking as though you have to make a permanent decision about your life in the next couple of years that you can never change. That's simply not how life has to work. When you are old, life seems short, but actually life is many decades long, and you will have plenty of time to play around with these decisions. Many people get more than one college degree, or switch their courses of study midway. Or get a degree in one thing and try it, and then change their minds and go back to school and head in another direction entirely!Generally, the best thing to do is to "follow your bliss" and see how that goes. It may be that while you are in college studying music, you will discover that you aren't good at it compared to other people. Or, perhaps you will find that you would like to teach or compose music or who knows? Or maybe you will find a magic lantern with a genie, get three wishes and???? The point is, that the future is unknown, and being anxious about it and trying to guess it, won't reveal it to you any sooner. All you can do is to live it, one day at a time. And please, try to have fun while you're doing that and don't worry so much. Here's the thing about being in school - and especially any kind of school for the arts...you will never, ever get the opportunity to experiment with as many kinds of different styles and genres again in your life. Because even if you go into music professionally, you will have to buckle down to something specific. So use your time to explore and discover and take advantage of all the opportunities that school offers. Suck it dry! This will help you to gain the tools you need to really know whether this is your path.
Should i take a risk and tell her how i feel?
Ill try to make this as brief as possible, in the past year i started talking to a girl that i have known for 15 years. We have always been friends, but for the last 6 years we have not really spoken that often at all; up until she started trying to talking to me out of the blue on Facebook. I have always had a secret crush on her and even when we were younger we had a petty little relationship, but we were very young so it was nothing too serious. In the past few months we have been talking more and more frequently and even recently we hung out a few times. I really want to tell her how i feel, but i am not sure whether or not she feels the same way; however, i keep reassuring myself when i think about why she would just start talking to me again unless she had feelings for me. What do you think i should do? should i tell her and take the risk or should i just never tell and assume it was just because she was being friendly?
Is it better to take risks in life?
depends on what kind of life you want to lead by taking risks you open yourself up to being hurt in relationships. to loosing things you thought you had. to personal injury but you also just might find the one great love of your life. or find things much more valuable than what you lost. or learn things about yourself that will benefit you in the future play it safe and things may not change much. take risks and go places you have never been before i chose and continue to choose to take risks and find life to be much more rewarding. good luck with your choice
Should i take the risk of asking this guy out?
if he says no....it'll be a joke throughout the whole school year and it'd b awks bc im in like 3 of his classes. i like him but idk if he likes me. its hard to tell. we have a lot in common though. should i risk it? if u say i should ask him out. how should i and whaat should i say. and if u say wait for him to ask me. what shoud i do to make him ask me out or make him notice me more n alla tht? :)
Should i take the risk and tell him my feelings?
I really like this guy and I think he might like me too but he's kind of sending mixed signlas and he's not really doing anything to proe he likes me. We've almost kissed once but idk how much that proves. He was upset he didn't get to kiss me. I want to tell him I like him but I'm so nervous and I get butterfly's everytime I come near him or ven see him. He might not be here next year for senior year and idk how much I'll get to see him during the summer. Should I take the risk and tell him?
In general, is it worth it to take risks?
To laugh is to risk appearing a foolTo weep is to risk appearing sentimental.To reach out is to risk involvementTo expose feelings is to risk rejectionTo place your dreams before the crowd is to risk ridicule.To love is to risk not being loved in return.To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure.But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard of life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. You may avoid suffering and sorrow, but you cannot learn, feel, change grow or love. Chained by certitudes, you are only a slave. Only the person who risks is free.The mind is a coward, for those who listen to it become utterly cowardly. The mind is not an adventurer, it is very cautious. It takes every step with thinking and calculation until it is certain that there is no risk., Until it has seen others taking the risk, until it has seen others taking the step and there has been no danger, hence, listening to the mind is the most disturbing phenomena of growth.When everything is going good the mind comes in and says "watch out!" Because you listen to the mind's fears you stop living. The mind would keep you always the same, never taking risks. Newness is an enemy to the mind, sameness is its friend.#OSHO
Should I take the risk to text him again in the future?
I've known this guy fr bout 3 weeks and we often chat via online together. He is a guy in my school but I seldomly meet him or talk to him face to face. I love to chat with him coz he is funny and I felt entertained to text him. But idk why suddenly he didn't reply my text again for 2 days. Mny ppl said that he didn't interested with me. I just want him to be my 'text pal' and I hope that I can text him everyday..I want to try one more time to chat but I'm afraid he will think that I'm annoying and I'm too aggressive,..what should I do?and how to deal with my feeling?ppl told me to tell him straightly if I just wanna be a friend,but now I don't even know how to start the conversation with him again,I don't have many courage to do that anymore (cz usually its be me that always open the conversation with him).pls hlp me..thx